10 isle of wight ceremonies guide
MARRIAGE CEREMONY
Declaratory words: “I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I ……… may not be joined in matrimony to …………” (traditional since 1837)
During your ceremony, you are required to exchange legal vows in order to contract your marriage with each other. You do not need to learn and remember the words you need to say in the ceremony. You will repeat the legal vows after the registrar, who will break them down into small sections. If you make a mistake, the registrar will repeat what you need to say or help you correct the words. Please don’t be embarrassed – your guests are there to celebrate your special occasion with you and will not mind if you show some nerves or make a mistake. If you have a giggle or shed a tear, most of them will probably join you! Although the legal declaratory and contractual words must be said in full and cannot be changed in any way, you have a choice of three different vows to use in your ceremony, depending on your preference. The Ceremonies Officer will provide you with a ceremony option form for you to choose which set of declaratory and contracting words you would like to say to each other.
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“I declare that I know of no legal reason why I ………… may not be joined in marriage to …………” (modern version)
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by replying “I am” to the question “Are you ……… free lawfully to marry …….….” (short ceremony) Contracting words: “I call upon these persons here present to witness that I ………… do take thee ………… to be my lawful wedded wife/husband.” (traditional since 1837)
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“I ………… take thee …………… to be my wedded wife/husband.” (revised version)
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“I ………… take you ………… to be my wedded wife/husband.” (short ceremony)
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