King's Business - 1969-02

runaway husbands and some women had faces sagging with the boredom of too much money and too much time. The challenge of these women nearly broke my heart. Maybe I was the only one in their routine of life who really knew Christ’s love — and if so — what if I failed to communicate it? I began to go to the monthly meet­ ings with an exciting joy wondering whom I would love. Waiting for the meetings to start ( before I gave my in­ spiring inspiration) became a sacred trust and time and time again I watched God move just the right person into the seat next to me. The meetings themselves are a total­ ly different challenge. When they start to get negative, I become positive. When they take on a critical note, I become the praiser, but more revolutionary — when a dignified battle of words begins, I can be the peacemaker (a thankless job, but one that’s needed neverthe­ less !). When P.T.A. began this year, I thought I’d not be asked back. The new president (a fabulous gal) was cer­ tainly not a church member, but when she selected her board, I was the first to be asked back. P.T.A. anyone? I don’t know about you, but once my attitude was over­ hauled, God gave me the privilege of a neighborhood mission field, and believe me, the harvest is happening! iB m i VALENTINE’S DAY THOUGHT Love is a wonder-worker, but it gets along better when it has brains to di­ rect it. — B il l y S u n d a y TEA FOR TWO Making a pot of tea for two might be an easy task, but what about a Mexican casserole or chop suey for two? That could be a problem, so BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS has a new, exciting cookbook with a great many solutions. It’s an ideal book for single career gals with a room-mate, newlyweds or couples with children away (at school or married). The chapters go from ‘Frankly Fancy” to “ Easy On The Bud­ get” and included in the chapter, “ ABC’s of Cooking For Two” are some excellent hints on utensils like: 1. Kitchen tongs: The perfect tool for holding and dipping foods. Be sure to use tongs instead of a fork for turning broiled meats to avoid loss of natural juices. 2. Collander: Remember to wash and drain rather than soak fresh vegetables and fruit. 3. Measuring cup: The wise cook saves time and extra dishwashing by measuring and then mixing right in the measuring cup. 4. Rubber spatula: Perfect for stir­ ring, saves because it gets into the “ comers” of the pan. 5. Plastic bags: Save ’em! They corral dried bread slices (or crackers) for crushing into crumbs. Cooking For Two —$1.95.

the magic time to thrill their hearts with my genuine depth as a spiritual giant. To my surprise (and later my horror) most everyone at my first bril­ liant word, turned off their minds and their hearing aids. The click was al­ most deafening. They tapped fingers, lit their cigarettes and wrote important notes as I spoke. Most certainly I’d failed. Well, I wasn’t going to put up with that — especially since I had the real answers to living and they didn’t want to listen. I particularly didn’t care for Mrs. So-and-So’s attitude. After all, I’d given up considerable time and ef­ fort to be spiritually smashing and I was used to audiences responding (fa­ vorably, that is!). I stuck it out those first gruesome months and (as He often does) God brought to mind Keith Miller’s book, The Second Touch, so I took a second look at those 20 women and what I saw righted the most important wrong: My attitude. The first thing that changed was my attitude toward Mrs. So-and-So who needed to be loved so badly. Until I looked at her with eyes of Christ’s love I did not see that she was an al­ coholic and later (much later) God allowed my music to comfort her bro­ ken heart and body. Then, gradually I began to see that looking at them in the loving eyes of Christ, they became women with real loneliness, problems, rebellious children,

Before I was a Christian my favorite line was, “ I’d rather drop dead than be a gossiping, critical P.T.A. mem­ ber.” Now my tune has changed and I’ve narrowed the sentence down to, “ I’d rather drop dead than ge a gossip­ ing critic (period).” But what of the P.T.A. ? Do Christian women belong in P.T.A.? Here are some of my thoughts and cer­ tainly I speak only for myself, but these thoughts are passed on — being a P.T.A. board member last year and this year at Emerson Junior High School. The first time I was contacted to be the inspirational chairman I thought, “ Oh, no, not with THAT bunch of women;” besides, I certainly did not want to be the kind of inspirational chairman who stood up and read some insipid poem about the wind and sky! But, I said, “ I’ll think about it.” The thing that changed my mind was my children’s faces when I told them I’d been asked. They were abso­ lutely hysterical with joy and words like “ Great! Neat! How fabulous!” greeted my announcement. (How could I turn them down?) I realize now their enthusiasm was high because the job offered was directly related to them. The job" had nothing to do with my singing, my broadcasting or my writ­ ing, but had EVERYTHING to do with being a mother — their mother. I ac­ cepted the next day. Then came my first marvelous meet­ ing with 20 or so board members and

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