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The Sweet Rewards of a Slower Life WHEN YOU STOP RUSHING, LIFE STARTS BLOOMING THE LEGAL NAVIGATOR NOVEMBER 2025
In a culture that often praises speed and productivity, slow living offers something refreshingly different. It’s a chance to step off the hamster wheel and savor life’s moments. Slow living is not about doing less just for the sake of it. It’s about doing things with care, attention, and purpose, letting each task or experience have its own space and rhythm. Slow living is choosing to enjoy the process instead of rushing toward the finish line. It’s the quiet satisfaction of brewing coffee slowly in the morning, or preparing a meal from scratch, simply because the act of chopping vegetables and stirring a pot feels grounding. It’s walking through your neighborhood and noticing how the light changes with the seasons, or taking time to chat with a neighbor instead of waving to them in passing. When we live life at a slower pace, the benefits begin to reveal themselves. Stress softens. Mental clarity returns. Everyday moments feel more vivid, and connections with people and places grow deeper. Even the smallest pleasures, like a warm loaf of bread, a handmade scarf, or a garden sprouting with herbs, feel like treasures. At first, it might feel foreign. We’re all too used to rushing, so sitting still, even to enjoy a cup of coffee, seems indulgent. But as you begin to experiment with little rituals, like reading a chapter of a book before bed or taking your sweet time making breakfast, something magical happens. You’ll feel grounded again. Your mind quiets and your shoulders relax. Your days will soon be less about racing and more about savoring. Hobbies often become the heart of this lifestyle, not for their productivity but their presence. Baking bread, tending a garden, knitting, painting, taking photos of small details most people miss, or preserving herbs from a balcony planter — these simple acts invite us to be right here, right now. They turn ordinary afternoons into small celebrations.
Slow living doesn’t require an all-or-nothing transformation. It can start with something as simple as sitting with your tea instead of drinking it on the go, or taking a short walk without headphones just to listen to the world around you. The point isn’t perfection, it’s intention and creating a life with room to breathe, notice, and appreciate. Unfortunately, I don’t have all the answers. Some days, I still get caught up in the hurry. But when I remember to pause, to breathe, and to reach for one of my slow hobbies, I feel better — more myself. So, if you’re feeling frazzled or burnt out, consider giving slow living a try. Pick one thing, just one. Maybe it’s walking, journaling, or learning to make your own soap. Light a candle you made yourself or sip a cup of tea brewed with your very own home-dried mint, and feel a sense of accomplishment no busywork could ever match. Let it be simple. Let it be enough. You don’t need to change your whole life overnight. Just take a moment today to be where your feet are.
Trust me: Life feels a lot richer when you stop to taste it.
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Somatic Journaling Will Change How You Heal
You know that feeling when something’s off, but you can’t quite explain it? You’re not “sick,” but you’re not thriving. Maybe your shoulders are tense, your stomach is in knots, or your energy crashes every afternoon. That’s your body trying to get your attention. Fortunately, you already have the tools to listen. Welcome to somatic journaling, a practice that helps you connect the dots between what your body feels and what your soul needs. Feeling better starts with feeling. Unlike traditional journaling, which often lives in your head (think thoughts, plans, overthinking), somatic journaling takes you deeper. It allows you to tune in to your body, where your emotions, energy, and stress are stored. Those tight hips? That shallow breath? They’re clues. Somatic journaling is your chance to decode them. All you need is a bit of mindfulness, a notebook, and a few moments to breathe and ask your body, “What’s going on in there?” Let’s say you’re anxious before a meeting. Instead of spiraling into “Why am I always like this?” you pause and notice: Your chest is tight, your breath shallow, and you feel like you’re running on empty. Then comes the “aha” moment: “I’ve had no breaks all day. No wonder I feel this way.” That’s the body’s version of a breakthrough and a chance to reset. And How You Move Through the Day
Try these easy somatic check-ins. The 3-2-1 Body Scan
Start small and write down: • 3 sensations (feet on floor, jaw tight, clammy hands) • 2 slow breaths • 1 question: “What does my body need right now?”
Do it when you wake up, before a tough conversation, or anytime you feel “off.” A journal is your translator. Somatic journaling helps you shift from judgment to curiosity, from disconnection to trust. It’s a practice of tuning into the intelligence that lives under your skin.
You don’t need to “fix” yourself. Just feel. Your body has the answers, and your somatic journal is where they begin.
The Monday Slump Is Real … AND IT’S BIOLOGICAL
Miserable Mondays is a myth. Surprisingly, research suggests people don’t report being significantly unhappier on Mondays than on other weekdays. The problem isn’t Monday itself. It’s our perception of it. We idealize the weekend and villainize Monday, giving it a bad rap it might not fully deserve. The dread is often psychological, built on expectations rather than experience. How to make Mondays better. There’s no magic wand, but there are strategies. Try keeping your weekend wake-up time close to your weekday time to minimize sleep disruption. Wrap up your workweek with a to-do list for Monday so you’re not walking in blind, and schedule something you enjoy for Monday: a fancy coffee, a midday walk, or a catch-up call with a friend. A small pleasure can take the sting out of a stressful start.
hormone, early in the day to help you wake up and move. However, research shows cortisol levels are often higher on Monday mornings. You’re not just waking up; you’re mentally bracing for everything the week is about to throw at you: meetings, deadlines, commutes, and inboxes stacked like Jenga towers. Your brain senses a threat, even if it’s just a packed calendar. Weekend whiplash wrecks your momentum. The weekend is a break from responsibility. You can lounge, laugh, socialize, and embrace your most authentic self. Then Monday shows up and demands a complete 180. That stark contrast of freedom from structure creates mental whiplash. You have to shift gears without a warm-up lap, and your brain rebels. It’s not that Mondays are objectively worse; they just highlight how much better weekends feel.
If you wake up on Monday feeling like you got hit by a truck, you’re not alone and certainly not imagining it. The “Monday scaries” are more than a funny meme; they’re rooted in biology. Two days of relaxed routines, late wake-ups, and maybe a little indulgence throw off your internal body clock. That weekend shift in your sleep schedule can feel like jet lag come Monday morning, making it harder to wake up, focus, or function at full capacity. Stress hormones spike on Mondays. Adding fuel to the fire, your body naturally produces more cortisol, the primary stress
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Gary Coleman’s Probate Drama 2 WILLS, HAND-WRITTEN CODICIL SPARK LEGAL WAR
Gary Coleman’s death at age 42 in 2010 led to one of the most convoluted probate battles in celebrity estate history. Although he left only modest assets, the fight over his will and remains spiraled into a legal saga filled with dramatic courtroom testimony and personal revelations. Coleman had signed multiple wills: a 1999 document naming a former manager as his executor and a 2005 will naming his longtime assistant and friend, Anna Gray, as executor and sole beneficiary. Even though he divorced Shannon Price in 2008, Coleman had allegedly added a handwritten codicil in 2007, leaving everything to her. Price asserted they continued living together as husband and wife, despite the divorce, claiming a common‑law marriage under Utah law. This twist turned a probate hearing into a character trial. Price’s legal team presented witnesses (bank officers, Coleman’s agent, and relatives) who testified that the couple filed joint taxes, shared bank accounts, and called each other husband and wife. But Anna
public reputation as a wife, a key requirement for common‑law recognition in Utah. In May 2012, after three days of explosive testimony, Judge James Taylor ruled that Price failed to show a recognized common‑law marriage with Coleman at the time of his death. This meant that the 2005 will naming Anna Gray as executor and beneficiary stood as the controlling document. So, what did Coleman actually leave behind? His estate amounted to little more than his home ($315,000), royalty payments, and possessions. The real value lay in deciding who controlled Coleman’s name, ashes, and remaining intellectual property. Adding to court records, Shannon Price was the person who authorized turning off Coleman’s life support when he fell and suffered a brain hemorrhage in 2010. Whether that gave her moral or legal standing remained hotly debated, but in probate court, she lost.
And in the end, the probate judge settled the matter: Anna Gray inherited what remained of Coleman’s estate, his ashes, and control over the disposition of his name and legacy.
Gray’s side countered with a strong testimony. The judge questioned whether Price had established a
PUMPKIN DUMP CAKE
Ingredients
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• 1 (15 oz) can pure pumpkin • 1 (10 oz) can evaporated milk • 1 cup light brown sugar • 3 eggs • 1 tbsp pumpkin pie spice
• 1 box yellow cake mix • 1 cup coarsely crushed graham crackers or pecans • 1/2 cup toffee bits (optional) • 1 cup (2 sticks) butter, melted
Directions
1. Preheat oven to 350 F. Coat a 9x13-inch baking pan with nonstick spray and set aside. 2. In a large bowl, add pumpkin, evaporated milk, sugar, eggs, and pumpkin pie spice. 3. Stir to combine and pour into the prepared pan. 4. Sprinkle the entire box of cake mix on top, followed by nuts or graham crackers and toffee bits. 5. Pour melted butter evenly on top. 6. Bake for 45–50 minutes, until the center is set and edges are lightly browned. 7. Serve warm or at room temperature.
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE
The Gentle Revolution of Choosing Peace Over Productivity With ‘Slow Living’
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Inside the Explosive Probate Battle Over Gary Coleman’s Estate Pumpkin Dump Cake The Journal Practice That Cultivates Your Mind-Body Connection Blame Science: Your Brain Isn’t Built for Mondays
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Bungalows and Bliss TROPICAL ESCAPES TO SAVOR
Whether you’re looking to book a tropical trip this winter or want to live vicariously through descriptions of dream destinations, this article is for you! From overwater bungalows to swim-up bars, these resorts redefine relaxation in some of the world’s most glamorous getaways. A Spectacular South Asian Sojourn If you want to add flavor to your wintertime festivities with an international jaunt, the Maldives, just southwest of India, is home to some of the world’s most renowned resorts. Celebrated for its spacious rooms, private pools, and “floating breakfasts,” The Ritz-Carlton Maldives, Fari Islands, boasts seven restaurants offering a vast array of global delicacies. Another Maldives mainstay, Soneva Fushi, offers some of the largest overwater villas in the world — perfect for viewing the area’s breathtakingly clear waters.
And if you’re a fan of exploring tropical travel via social media, you’ve likely caught an eyeful of Instagram favorite Soneva Jani. This Maldives destination provides guests plenty of playful options, ranging from a waterslide to a trip on one of the resort’s seaplanes. Of course, an extraordinary vacation doesn’t necessarily mean spending time in an expansive environment. Those looking to balance luxury with a low-key vibe should check out Gili Lankanfushi Maldives, a boutique resort that invites guests to lounge on a private water hammock as their worries wash away. Fresh Perks in French Polynesia Outdoor bungalows are also a big hit in Bora Bora. In addition to in-room pools, the Four Seasons Bora Bora resort offers guests a view of Mount Otemanu that all intrepid travelers should experience
at least once. Over at the Westin Bora Bora, vacationers can take in the locale’s modern aesthetics while sipping cocktails at its swim-up bar. If you plan to travel with a large group, the two-story Presidential Suites and overwater villas at the Conrad Bora Bora Nui are outstanding options. Not surprisingly, Bora Bora isn’t the only place to visit in French Polynesia. Although the Hilton Moorea Lagoon Resort and Spa tends to book up quickly due to its smaller size, it’s worth trying to get a room for this vacation spot’s famous snorkeling sites alone.
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