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HOW TO PUMPKIN-SPICE 4 NEW ORLEANS CLASSICS Celebrate fall in New Orleans with four beloved local treats: beignets, pralines, bread pudding, and king cake—each reimagined with a cozy pumpkin- spice twist. Sweet, seasonal, and unmistakably Nola! WHAT OCTOBER TEACHES US ABOUT CAUSES & AWARENESS From health to heritage, October is packed with causes that inspire, educate, and empower. Discover the awareness topics that make this fall unforgettable.
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Understanding Dyslexia: What Parents Need to Know
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Understanding Glass Child Syndrome
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Mom About Town 14
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Things We Love 36
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Parenting Through Learning Differences P arenting a child with a learning disability is a daily challenge, no matter where on the spectrum those struggles may fall. In our family, the odds were always high. My husband has dyslexia and ADHD, and while all of our children inherited my anxiety, two also carry the learning- disability gene. Life as a busy mom already feels like a juggling act, and the added layers of schoolwork and self-doubt can stretch me thin. We made a family decision not to medicate—for now. That choice isn’t universal, but it works for us at this stage. If the time comes when it feels necessary, we’ll reconsider. In the meantime, our focus is on patience and flexibility. ADHD brings with it a storm of energy, humor, and spontaneity. Those qualities are exhausting at times, but they’re also part of what makes my child who he is. Homework, though, is our battleground. One long session never works, so we break it into smaller pieces—two or three rounds,
sometimes more. If reading is required, it usually means sitting together and sharing the load, one page at a time. Math is another story. I finally told the school, “Please send him home with his math already done, because it won’t happen otherwise.” It was one of the best boundaries I’ve set. The hardest part isn’t the work itself. It’s watching my child wrestle with the awareness that he is different. He is his own toughest critic. We remind him daily that his strengths outweigh his struggles, that the very qualities that frustrate him now will serve him well later, and that these challenges won’t last forever. Parenting through learning differences means accepting that progress won’t look like anyone else’s chart or report card. Some days we stumble, some days we soar. Most days, it’s simply about walking beside our children, steadying their steps until they can steady their own.
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F all is finally here, which means it’s time to take full advantage of these fleeting days of cooler weather. The New Orleans Public Library has tons of great ways to make the most of the season, including these fun fall reads.
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CHILDREN Readers follow three best friends as they go on exciting autumnal adventures in Bat, Cat & Rat: A Great Fall by Ame Dyckman & Mark Teague. From leaf-raking romps to peculiar pumpkin picking, to the trials of trick-or-treating, children are sure to love these sweet, silly stories. It’s Almost Time for... Halloween! by Maisha Oso & Tom Knight is a rhyming picture book celebrating the endless possibilities Halloween brings. Families can learn about what fall looks like in other cultures with The Moon Rabbit: a Celebration of the Mid-Autumn Festival . Before Meifung and her family bring their paper lanterns to join their neighbors for this Chinese tradition, Meifung wants to hear the story of Chang’e and the moon rabbit, which Eva Wong Nava and Jason Chuang bring to life in this beautiful picture book. MIDDLE GRADE Masks: A Graphic Novel by Margaret Rae,
Brian Nathanson & Beck Kubrick follows Poe, Rice, and Shelley—three monster kids who hide from the outside world. But when they learn about “Halloween,” they realize it’s their one night of the year where they can be their true selves, scales and all. Budding artists will love How to Draw Fall Things for Kids by Alli Koch , which is chock full of fun five-minute drawing lessons for kids, featuring all things fall, ranging from pumpkins and scarecrows to turkeys and footballs. For scary-story lovers, check out It’s Watching by Lindsay Currie , a spooky adventure following Josie and her best friends, Jackson and Alison. When the group sneak into a haunted cemetery on Halloween night hoping to prove the existence of a famous ghost, they must discover who is terrorizing them with sinister memes and other frightening antics. TEEN Falling Like Leaves by Misty Wilson is a great cozy read to curl up with this season.
Readers meet Ellis as her plans to apply to Columbia’s journalism program are upended by her family’s move from New York City to Bramble Falls, Connecticut, where she runs into her one-time best friend and first kiss, falls for the quaint town, and confronts her future. For a spookier option, try The Graveyard Club: Revenge Game by R.L. Stine, Carola Borelli & Francesco Segala . Parker West lives in the sleepy town of Grave’s End, a town surrounded by cemeteries, prompting his group of friends to form The Graveyard Club. What starts off as mostly harmless practical jokes and tricks escalates into attacks that might put these kids in real, life-threatening danger. The Witch’s Wardrobe: Sew Your Own Witchcore Wear by Raechel Henderson is perfect for crafty kids looking to create personalized garments that match their unique spirits. With 30 spell-binding projects like wrap-around pants and fingerless gloves, these will bring you closer to the clothing collection of your dreams.
Kacy Helwick is the youth collection development librarian for the New Orleans Public Library’s collections and acquisitions department. Marie Simoneaux is the media and communications coordinator for the New Orleans Public Library.
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MADDIE’S FOOTPRINTS By Amanda Miller
12 OCTOBER 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM across Acadiana and the Greater Baton Rouge area, even touching the lives of those in New Orleans. In the first year, the remember Maddie’s name, and they wanted to give back. In 2010, they created Maddie’s Footprints. The mission was simple yet powerful: to offer financial and emotional support to families experiencing the loss of a child. A GROWING MISSION What began in Lafayette has since expanded into a lifeline for families W hen Lori and Travis McGrew learned they were expecting their first child, they were filled with excitement. However, during the pregnancy, the couple discovered that their daughter had trisomy 18, a condition not compatible with life. Despite the diagnosis, the couple remained hopeful. sleeping. The loss was devastating. Family and friends stepped in to support them during this time, even covering funeral expenses for the couple. Along with their grief came countless questions, even with the strongest support systems: What do we do when it’s Christmas? How do we honor our child? The couple wanted everyone to After two days of labor, their daughter, Maddie, was born
organization helped 15 families. Last year, that number grew to 511 families. Connected with local funeral homes and hospitals, many families are referred to the organization. Those interested in services can fill out the application electronically, and the program director connects quickly to check on how Mom is doing, get information, and then follow up with Mom. “Once they reach out to Mom, they reach out to the funeral home to let them know that we are donating towards their baby’s funeral, burial, or cremation,” says Mandy Cushing, the Executive Director. A THRIVING COMMUNITY Maddie’s Footprints not only provides critical resources but also takes things a step further, reaching into communities so no one feels alone during this time. “We have a giant race in October during Infant and Pregnancy Loss Awareness Month, one in Acadiana and one in Baton Rouge. It serves as a giant birthday party for our families to come in and celebrate their babies, when they maybe didn’t have that opportunity. We have a giant birthday cake with our babies’ names on it, so each family gets to have a piece of cake with their baby’s name on it. It’s a really fun day where families come out and honor their babies.
We also have a gala each year,” says Cushing. The event, Footprints Forever, will be held on Saturday, October 18, in Pointe-Marie. Along with the events, the organization provides a variety of programs, including grief counseling that is completely free to families, workshops, and Maddie’s Mommies and Maddie’s Daddies events, where they encourage peer-to-peer support. A HOPEFUL FUTURE From a heartbreaking loss, Maddie’s Footprints has blossomed into a beacon of hope for many families—and the organization is striving to help support every family they can. Cushing shares, “Ideally, no family would go without Maddie’s in the Acadiana and Greater Baton Rouge area. I think we’re getting there, but the ideal would be that no family goes without our support simply because they don’t know about us.” Maddie’s life, though brief, continues to leave footprints on countless hearts, proof that even the smallest lives can make the biggest impact. To learn more, visit maddiesfootprints.org.
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RENA JOLLY
By Madison Voorhies
14 OCTOBER 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM part of it. I love empowering women around me and making sure we all feel like we have a place so we can be stronger together. CAN YOU SHARE A MEMORABLE MOMENT FROM A PHILANTHROPIC EVENT YOU’VE CHAIRED? Rena Jolly radiates both structure and spontaneity as a mom who thrives on her early-morning “brain purge” lists but also embraces the chaos of family life with laughter and grace. A former ICU nurse from New York turned healthcare consultant and community leader in the Crescent City, she balances polished professionalism with playful energy, whether she’s chairing a gala, traveling the world with her daughters, or diving into a DIY project at home. Grounded yet vibrant, Rena embodies the mix of determination, compassion, and joy that makes her this month’s Mom About Town. WHAT DO YOU ENJOY MOST ABOUT YOUR WORK IN HEALTHCARE AND PHILANTHROPY? RENA: [The special part about] working in healthcare is that you’re making a difference in people’s lives. I love creating systems that help patients receive care better—incorporating AI and giving more compassionate care. In philanthropy, I find joy in bringing people together. That’s what got me into it in the first place. I love the spirit of community, and I think it’s really rewarding to be a
Husband: Neil Jolly Children: Maya (7) and Sona (6) Occupation: Healthcare Consultant, Philanthropist, and former Director of Operations at Louisiana Pain Specialists Hobbies: DIY Projects, Traveling Abroad, and Community Involvement
RENA: One of the most powerful moments was at the American Cancer Society’s Cure by Design Gala in 2024. We have an award we present to someone in our community called the Heart and Soul Recipient. Jessica Honeycutt, a yoga instructor for the Saints, has a very public story on her battle with cancer, and she was about to walk on stage to deliver her speech. The room of 800 people was getting loud, and I couldn’t stand it. I ran to the stage [in my ballgown], took the mic, and I (politely) told everybody in the room to quiet down. I said, “You have to give my girl these five minutes,” and I promised them they wouldn’t regret it. When she started speaking thereafter, the whole energy shifted. She talked about her journey with cancer and how time is precious, and everybody was hanging on to her every word. By the end, she got a standing ovation. Her message was unforgettable, and I think it’s a reminder to us all that what we’re doing
really makes a difference in the community. HOW WOULD YOU
DESCRIBE YOUR PARENTING STYLE? RENA: I’m very structured; I try to give my kids guidance and clear expectations. To be a successful parent, you have to have the other side of that. My husband brings the fun and silly side, which balances everything out. At home, we try to laugh a lot, celebrate our small wins, and embrace the unpredictable, crazy moments. The girls definitely get their discipline from me and the fun from him. WHAT PERSONALITY TRAITS OF YOURS DO YOU SEE IN YOUR KIDS? RENA: My youngest, Sona, is so so sassy, which she got from me. She’s full of personality, and she’s not afraid to speak her mind. Maya is more on the quiet side. She’s a very thoughtful, kind-natured person—she got that from my husband for
PERSONALITY AND MISSION? RENA: Fashion is a way to express both my personality and purpose. At galas or work events, I like polished, confident looks and pieces that make me feel elegant—that are still fun and youthful. I want to feel like myself: young and powerful. But on a regular day, you’ll find me in athleisure, running around town between school drop-offs and errands. I love that fashion shifts with your day. Sometimes, it’s about making that statement, and you’re on a magazine cover. Other times, I need to be comfortable and practical. I just want to feel like myself no matter what I’m wearing. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE WOMEN AND/OR MOMS WANTING TO COMBINE CAREER AND COMMUNITY WORK? RENA: Be intentional with your time and ask for help when you need it. Combining a career and community work takes a lot of planning and focus, but if you’re following what you’re passionate about, then you keep motivating yourself to continue. I try to prioritize things that are important to me, and I definitely have learned to set more boundaries as needed. Again, you have to ask for help,
sure. It’s really sweet and fun to see their personalities develop and blossom. I just keep seeing those little glimpses of us in them; It’s sweet to see that reflection. HOW DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY? RENA: For us, quality time has meant traveling the world together. This summer, we spent more than a month traveling Europe, [visiting] Italy, London, Paris, Greece… we went all over! It’s not easy traveling with kids, but getting to show them the world and experience new places as a family is the best gift you can give them. It was absolutely magical, and I love seeing them embrace new cultures and different places. Some of these places I had never been before, so it was really nice to do it together. When we’re not traveling, we find joy in simple things: evening trips to Yogurtland, family board game nights playing Scrabble and Life, and walks on our street (when the weather is tolerable and not a million degrees). I think about the idea of “18 summers,” and it makes me want to soak up every moment with them while they still want to be with me. HOW DO YOU USE FASHION TO EXPRESS YOUR
QUICK QUESTIONS Morning person or night owl… Morning person. If I could travel anywhere tomorrow, I would go to… Singapore. all the answers, and as you grow into motherhood, you start to figure things out day by day. whether it’s family, friends, or a crew of babysitters. Use your resources, and find joy in the process. It’s not going to be easy. Last year during gala season, I’d wake up at 4:30 a.m. every day just to stay on top of everything. If I put my name on something, I want it to be perfect. WHAT’S ONE THING YOU WISH YOU’D KNOWN BEFORE BECOMING A MOM? RENA: I wish I knew that I wouldn’t know it all. I’ve learned so much along the way. When you’re a new mom, you put so much pressure on yourself to have
Guilty pleasure snack… Fresh, buttery popcorn. Go-to song right now… With the kids, “Sapphire” by Ed Sheeran.
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SUNSETS Smiles L et’s be honest—leaving the country for vacation is stress- ful enough, but throw kids into the mix and you’re officially at max-anxiety capacity. So when we arrived Banderas Bay where the jungle meets the sea, it’s more than just a beach getaway. We soaked up the sun and tried fun water in RIVIERA NAYARIT & Publisher Amy L. Foreman
surviving almost entirely on chicken nuggets and mocktails. (The piña colada and “Superman”—a red and blue Shirley Temple combo—were the kids favorites.) The poolside service was next-level; by midweek, our waiter not only knew our entire order but was slipping my husband off-menu dishes and cocktails he swore by. And can we talk about the Kids and Teens Clubs? Lifesavers. When the boys had their fill of the pool, they darted off to the Summer Land Kids Club for water slides, soccer, and endless games. By day two, the staff knew one of my sons by name and greeted him like an old friend—such a personal touch that melted my heart. After dinner, my daughter enjoyed her quiet time in the room and the boys leveled up to the Teens Club, where they played pool,
activities like boogie boarding and jet skiing. If you are looking for an adven- ture off the property, you can go on jungle adventures, explore charming local towns, and even spot humpback whales and dol- phins. There’s also snorkeling, fishing, and ziplining. Honestly, it’s the kind of vacation where you come home with way too many favorite memories and wish you had just a few more days. Mornings quickly became a routine at Azul, the breakfast buffet that made me crave fresh fruit and made-to-order om- elets before I’d even gone to bed. Days were spent poolside, where my daughter proudly became the “first in, last out” swimmer,
16 OCTOBER 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM 28 OCTOBER 2025 | BRPARENTS.COM vacation spots that truly has something for everyone, and as a mom, I loved how family-friendly it felt. Nestled on beautiful at the Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit, the warm welcome of cold washcloths and refreshing drinks was exactly what this frazzled mom needed. The view while checking in—sparkling pools stretching toward Banderas Bay—didn’t hurt either. Since we’re a family of five, we opted for two connecting rooms. Best decision ever. We had space, the kids had theirs, and everyone was happy. Vallarta-Nayarit is one of those
ping pong, video games, and, of course, air hockey. Meanwhile, my husband and I enjoyed some grown-up time at Koi Bar with live music and drinks, and I remem- bered what it felt like to be on vacation as a couple again. Finally, my Spa Day at SE Spa! The Water Ceremony began in the sauna which smelled like cinnamon, where the dry heat melted away tension and left me feeling lighter and more open. From there, I stepped into the steam room with chromo- therapy, where the warm mist and shifting colors created this almost meditative calm. A quick bi-thermal shower followed, the cool water waking me up after the heat. Then came the Jacuzzi, where the bubbling jets felt like a full-body massage. I contin- ued with hydro-reflexology, letting streams of water work over my feet and legs, which was surprisingly energizing. Afterward, I alternated between the hot and cold lagoons—a refreshing shock at first, but it left me buzzing with energy and clarity. The experience closed in the relaxation area, where I sank into a lounge chair with an aromatic neck pillow, cucumber slices over my eyes, and a cool scented towel. As I sipped fruit-infused water and nibbled on light snacks, I felt completely renewed, body and mind. Next, my aromatherapy massage left me so relaxed, I headed to the room to take a little nap. I really wish I could have this done every week of my life. I may not have so much anxiety! Evenings were for dining at Sen Lin, Lucca, and Frida, where the food, ambi- ance, and service were fabulous. Watching my kids try new dishes and actually liking them was a parenting miracle. On lazier nights, we ordered room service and played games in our pajamas—sometimes the simplest nights are the sweetest. Our rooms looked over the amphitheater so we enjoyed watching the evening shows while the sun set on the patio. From breathtaking sunsets to lazy afternoons by the pool and a little jet skiing thrown in, Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit completely won us over. We’ve always been a beach-loving family, but this trip gave us a whole new appreciation for fami- ly-friendly all-inclusives. Let’s just say the kids are already lobbying for a return trip, and honestly, I can’t blame them. If your family loves the beach and a little adven- ture with a side of luxury, start packing your bags—you won’t regret it.
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By Julianna Steen Understanding Dyslexia: What Parents Need to Know
18 OCTOBER 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM exact cause of dyslexia is still unclear, it affects the way the brain functions and develops, leading to unexpected deficits in cognitive abilities, reading comprehension, and a “reduced reading experience that can impede growth of vocabulary and background knowledge.” It’s not about a child’s vision or level of intelligence. The Yale Center for Dyslexia & Creativity claims it is “most commonly due to a difficulty in phonological command from your parents to go clean your room, like a camera going in and out of focus. “Most people think it’s just a reading or spelling thing,” Casadaban explains. “Mainly, it’s a short-term memory problem. There’s really no such thing as memorizing something ‘for the test.’ I really do have to learn it.” The IDA explains that though the It’s natural for your kid to struggle when learning to read, but what about when they’re still learning the alphabet after the other kids have moved on? “In first grade, I didn’t know all my letters, and everyone else was on sight words, and that’s when we started to realize something was wrong,” Gigi Casadaban, a friend with dyslexia, recalls. Hearing the diagnosis “dyslexia” might feel scary or intimidating as a parent, but you’re not alone: Dyslexia is actually pretty common—it affects 20 percent of the population and represents 80–90 percent of all those with learning disabilities. Moreover, early support can The International Dyslexia Association (IDA) defines dyslexia as “a specific learning disability that is neurobiological in origin. It is characterized by difficulties with accurate and/or fluent word recognition and by poor spelling and decoding abilities.” In essence, your brain jumbles letters, words, and even the make a huge difference. DYSLEXIA DEFINED
processing (the appreciation of the individual sounds of spoken language), which affects the ability of an individual to speak, read, spell, and often, learn a second language.” DYSLEXIA DIAGNOSED Dyslexia is typically diagnosed by a comprehensive exam, which involves “intellectual and academic achievement testing, as well as an assessment of the critical underlying language skills that are closely linked to dyslexia,” according to the IDA. The testing is more than checking your child’s current reading level: It covers literary challenges like phonological awareness, decoding, reading fluency and comprehension, and rapid naming to evaluate your child’s cognitive and language processes. If you believe your child might have dyslexia, begin by talking to their teacher or pediatrician. Signs to watch for include: difficulty learning letters and sounds; trouble rhyming or remembering sequences; slow, effortful reading; avoidance of reading aloud; and poor spelling despite strong verbal skills. If they attend public school, you can also request a free school evaluation under IDEA. Often, if a student fails a dyslexia screening test, they will be referred to the school-based problem-solving team, who will review the student’s data and develop an IEP (Individualized Education Program) plan for the student. The Student Action Plan can include dyslexia specific interventions, accommodations like extra time on tests, and/or assistive technology to assist the student in accessing content materials. Private testing is also an option, available for a cost. DYSLEXIA SUPPORT TEAM
“My parents were so supportive and never made me feel embarrassed,” Casadaban shares. “They were a real blessing in that they never hid it or acted like we shouldn’t tell people about my dyslexia.” Her advice to parents with a child with dyslexia is to embrace it and support your child—don’t be embarrassed by their dyslexia, because it will lead your kid to be embarrassed by it too. “I know it’s scary to find out something’s wrong with your kid and that you want them to do so well, but they’re going to be fine,” she assures parents. “School’s going to be tough, but that’s how it’s going to be, and your kid can do all the things you can do; It might just take them more time to do it. Ultimately they’re going to be great people with opportunities for jobs and careers, especially with your help.” DYSLEXIA TIMELINE There is no “cure” for dyslexia—it’s a lifelong journey. However, early intervention can be instrumental in helping your child learn. “Early intervention or additional direct instruction should begin as early as kindergarten or first grade for struggling readers when the gap is small and students benefit from brain plasticity advantages for learning language-based information,” the IDA recommends. When you first notice your child’s struggles, be proactive in advocating for them to get the resources they need. DYSLEXIA REFRAMED Although there are certainly challenges that your child will face because of dyslexia, there are also advantages. Casadaban’s parents would tell her growing up that it would both hurt and help her brain to have dyslexia—and now she finally understands what they meant.
“It’s made me smarter. Academically, I can solve problems faster, I can make decisions based on less information, and I’m more creative, coming up with new ways to do things. I can teach others really well and explain how to do things better because I had to teach myself my entire life.” Other benefits to dyslexia include developing more patience for others and yourself, as well as increased compassion, sympathy, and awareness toward others. “It makes me more aware of others in friendships because I know what it’s like to have something invisible that’s wrong with me,” Casadaban says. “There are days I wish I didn’t have dyslexia, but some days when I problem- solve, I know it’s because I grew up doing that.” Encourage your child to see the ways their dyslexia will grow them into a Technology is a person with dyslexia’s best friend. For example, “Textbooks read to me, which can be really helpful,” Casadaban states. “Spellcheck is awesome, especially because it would take a lot of time when I was young.” You can also set reminders and to-do lists on your phone to help with their short-term memory struggles. Programs like Grammarly can also read everything your child types and highlight potential mistakes, which can help them to better process information. Speech-to-text typing and texting can also be a helpful tool. Plus, many e-readers like Kindles have a dyslexic font that is easier to read. DYSLEXIA RESOURCES There is a world of dyslexia-related resources available to you and your child at the click of a button, both locally and nationally. To learn more about better person over time. DYSLEXIA TECH TIP what dyslexia is, check out International Dyslexia Association (IDA), Understood. org, Decoding Dyslexia, and Dr. Sally Shaywitz’s book Overcoming Dyslexia . Consider enrolling your child in a dyslexia school, tutoring, programs focused on structured literacy like Orton-Gillingham, or a curriculum like Barton or Wilson for targeted intervention. Remember, dyslexia may pose difficulties, but it will grow your child in unique way. And to your child with dyslexia, Casadaban says, “I’m so sorry school is so different for you, but even if you don’t realize it, this is turning you into a more understanding person. One day you’ll find out something you’re great at and it will be so much better.”
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By Amanda Ciani To School or Not to School : A Sick Kid Checklist
22 OCTOBER 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM we chatted with an expert and have answers to the most commonly asked school-related sickness questions. STAYING HEALTHY AS PREVENTATIVE CARE There are a few everyday habits that can help children maintain good overall begins to rear its ugly heads, a choice has to be made: to send them to school or to not send them to school. After all, it could just be autumnal allergies! And what about if they aren’t even running a fever?! What if they are faking because they are worried about taking a test?! Don’t worry, S chool is in full swing, which means lots of laughs in the lunch room, fun science class experiments, games in the gym, field trips, lots of extracurriculars, and more. It also, unfortunately, means little grubby hands passing around germs during all of those activities. There are some preventative measures that can be taken to keep kiddos healthy, but once a sickness
health. Eating a balanced diet, drinking plenty of fluids, and taking a multivitamin is a good start! Staying active while also getting enough sleep are also helpful habits that benefit everyone’s health. It isn’t a bad idea to remind children (regardless of their age) that handwashing, and more specifically proper handwashing is very important! This means wetting the hands, applying soap, and scrubbing all surfaces of the hands—fingertips, too—for at least 20 seconds before rinsing and drying. Finally, a tricky one for younger kiddos: avoiding touching one’s face is a good way to keep germs at bay. Dr. Felicia Scaggs Huang, MD, MS, is a Cincinnati Children’s Hospital and Medical Center pediatrician who also serves as the system’s medical director for Infection Prevention Control. As someone who specializes in infectious diseases, she also notes that, “It’s important to make sure your kids are up-
to-date on vaccines before going back to school. This includes getting an annual flu vaccine in the fall. Vaccines are safe and effective.” Furthermore, Dr. Scaggs Huang is a mom who relays, “I know that my children are much less likely to get a serious infection from germs that cause bacterial pneumonia or meningitis, chickenpox, or measles because they are vaccinated.” THE STAY-HOME CHECKLIST There are a few indisputable “You are definitely staying home from school today” situations. These include: fever, diarrhea, vomiting, and severe cough and cold symptoms. First up, fever. “A fever is a temperature greater than 100.4 Fahrenheit. When your child’s body detects an infection, their temperature may rise to help fight it,” Scaggs Huang informs. “Daily fever for more than a few days, breathing hard and fast, and difficulty staying hydrated are
all signs that there might be something more serious going on that your doctor should check out.” Next, diarrhea. Simply put, a student cannot learn if they are in the bathroom instead of the classroom. Beyond not feeling well and not being capable of learning, diarrhea is also a symptom of contagious sicknesses such as viral gastroenteritis. Likewise, students who have vomited more than twice within a 24-hour period need rest and hydration from the comforts of home. Vomiting at school spreads germs and is downright stressful for the student. Finally, sniffles and coughs happen. A mild case of the sniffles is probably okay for a child to go to school. However, Scaggs Huang suggests that, “If your child was up all night with a bad cough, he or she may not feel well enough to learn in class.” If the sniffles and cough are accompanied by a fever? That, too, means some time spent learning at home. KEEP YOUR SICK KID FROM GETTING EVEN SICKER Ever notice that sicknesses sometimes fall like dominoes, one after the other? A cold, then a stomach thing, and then now a bout of pink eye?! Unfortunately, misery loves company. Sick children have weakened immune systems, which means they are more likely to pick up additional sicknesses. Keeping sick kids at home keeps them from catching even more sicknesses. RETURNING TO SCHOOL Many schools have a 24-hour rule when it comes to coming back to school. Once a student is 24 hours fever-free and their symptoms are decreasing, it is probably okay to head back to school. Go by the book and “check with your school about its illness policy, as (those) can vary,” says Scaggs Huang. home sick. But also, parents just know their kids, right? As a parent, you know the glassy eye look, the clammy feeling on their skin, a certain tone of voice, and yes, some parents report they can even smell when their kid is sick. So of course, go by the books when it comes to keeping your sick kid home… but also… trust your gut! Be well and wash those hands! A checklist and checking the school handbook is helpful in knowing when kids should stay
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Understanding Glass Child Syndrome By Madison Voorhies
24 OCTOBER 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM she says. “We are supposed to be perfect. When someone asks us how Many siblings of children with special needs grow up as the “easy ones:” self- sufficient, high-achieving, and rarely demanding attention. “Naturally, we are conditioned not to have any problems,” W hen a child in the family has medical, developmental, or behavioral needs that require extra care, parents often find themselves pouring almost all of their time, energy, and resources into that child. While this is natural and necessary, it can leave their other children feeling overlooked, not because they are fragile, but because they become—in many ways—invisible. These siblings are sometimes referred to as “glass children,” a term that describes the experience of being seen through. Alicia Maples, a former glass child, popularized the phrase in a 2010 TEDx talk, where she explained that “glass” doesn’t mean weak; It means transparent.
we’re doing, the answer is always, ‘I’m doing fine.’” Even when a glass child seems to manage everything perfectly, the hidden emotional weight of growing up in a high-needs household can quietly shape their childhood. This often means taking on responsibilities far beyond their age and navigating complex family dynamics, sometimes without the support they need. GROWING UP TOO SOON: COSTS & STRENGTHS Research shows that growing up as a “glass child” can carry real emotional costs. A 2024 integrated review of 60 studies published in the Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review found consistent patterns of “parentification,” where siblings take on adult responsibilities too early, along with emotional and behavioral struggles. Similarly, a large U.S. study reported that
siblings of children with developmental disabilities are more likely than their peers to develop depression and other mental health conditions. The risks are particularly evident in families with children facing a chronic illness. For example, research in pediatric oncology shows that siblings often struggle with anxiety, disrupted schooling, and feelings of isolation. Despite these challenges, many glass children develop remarkable strengths. They are often empathetic, resilient, and highly capable, traits born from learning how to adapt and care for others. But as they say, every rose has its thorn. In adulthood, former glass children may find themselves overachieving, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling guilty when prioritizing their own needs. The very habits that once kept the family afloat can lead to burnout if left untreated.
THE ROAD TO HEALING For former glass children, healing often begins with acknowledging the invisible weight they carried while growing up. They may benefit greatly from structured support programs, like sibling groups and counseling, which can improve coping strategies and overall well- being. Beyond peer support, individual therapy can help glass children untangle complicated family dynamics, while also teaching them to voice needs that once felt unacceptable. What many find most transformative is not simply processing the past, but developing the confidence to say: I matter too. Healing is less about erasing old patterns and more about rewriting the narrative of self, from the overlooked sibling to a person whose presence is acknowledged and valued. FOR PARENTS: SEEING THE INVISIBLE SIBLING Parents can’t erase the challenges of raising a high-needs child, but they can take steps to ensure their other children feel seen. Experts emphasize three powerful tools: honest communication, dedicated attention, and validation. According to an article in Parents , explaining a sibling’s condition in age- appropriate ways helps reduce confusion and isolation. Even small rituals of one-on-one time— like a walk after dinner or reading before bed—signal that a child’s needs matter too. When difficult emotions surface, like jealousy or resentment, acknowledging them as normal rather than dismissing them can protect emotional health. Peer support is also critical; programs like Sibshops give siblings the chance to connect with others who share their experiences, breaking the sense of invisibility. In short, while parents may never be able to divide time perfectly, they can ensure that every child in the family grows up knowing they are visible, valued, and loved. Glass children may grow up in the shadows, but they don’t have to stay there. With the right support, they can reclaim visibility and thrive. For parents, the most powerful step is simple: notice them. In doing so, every child in the family can grow up knowing they are seen, valued, and loved.
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cuisine. Get your chicken dance on or enjoy bratwurst sausage Fridays from 4-11 p.m. and Saturdays from 1-11 p.m., October 10-11, 17-18, and 24-25. Rougarou Fest 86 Valhi Blvd., Houma (985) 580-7289 rougaroufest.org The Rougarou Fest showcases live music, cultural activities, children’s activities, Cajun food, the Krewe Ga Rou parade, and more. Visit the bayou Friday, October 17, from 5-10 p.m., Saturday, October 18, from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m., or Sunday, October 19, from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. St. Tammany Monster Mash 213 Park Dr., Covington (985) 898-4435 sthfoundation.org/monstermash Visit the Northshore for the 35th anniversary Monster Mash to support the STHS Parenting Center and experience trick-or-treating, music, cookie decorating, crafts, carnival rides, and more. The Bogue Falaya Park will host its mini-monsters on Saturday, October 18. The Queen’s Labyrinth Halloween Masquerade Ball Elms Mansion, New Orleans thequeenslabyrinth.com Step into a night of mystery on Friday, October 24, from 7-11 p.m. at the Elms Mansion. This 21+ event features theatrical vignettes, live entertainment, delectable cuisine, open bars, and music to keep the dance floor alive. Masks, magic, and intrigue await at this spellbinding Halloween celebration.
FUN IN THE FALL By Madison Voorhies
Brews and Boos 1 Palm Dr., New Orleans (504) 482-4888 neworleanscitypark.org
26 OCTOBER 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM The $2 admission on October 25, gives you access to tons of activities, including ghoulish games, eerie entertainment, a costume contest, and more, all at Lakeview Hospital from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Enjoy live music, kids’ activities, trick-or- treating in the French Market District, and its Spooky Second Line! This happy haunt takes place on Saturday, October 25, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Boo Fest 95 Judge Tanner Blvd., Covington accesslouisiana.org/boofest This October, New Orleans turns delightfully spooky! Think creepy-cute costumes, pumpkin-strewn streets, and surprises lurking around every corner, from ghostly strolls to sweet fall treats. Whether your crew loves a good scare or just wants to sip cider under autumn skies, Nola’s brewing up a bewitching mix of thrills and giggles for everyone. BOO-TIFUL BASHES Boo at the Zoo 6500 Magazine St., New Orleans (504) 861-2537 audubonnatureinstitute.org/boo Come rain or shine, wear your best costume to trick-or-treat with your favorite animals, get lost in the Halloween maze, explore a haunted house, and more at the Audubon Zoo. October 17-19, from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Boo Carré Halloween Haunt 1101 N. Peters St., New Orleans (504) 636-6400 frenchmarket.org
Brews and Boos features adult-only access to the amusement park at City Park and a ghastly amount of “boos” for guys and ghouls ages 21+. This exclusive event is from Friday to Saturday, October 24-25, 8-11 p.m. Ghosts in the Oaks: Monster Mash 7 Victory Ave., New Orleans (504) 482-4888 neworleanscitypark.org From Thursday, October 16, to Sunday, October 19, City Park’s Ghost in the Oaks returns for four nights of family-friendly Halloween fun, with a new trick-or-treat path, unlimited Amusement Park rides, festive activities, and live entertainment. Krewe of BOO! Parade Rolls from Elysian Fields Avenue (504) 233-2831 kreweofboo.com The Krewe of BOO! parade features elaborate floats, costumed characters, and unique throws like candy and Voodoo doll pins on Saturday, October 25, at 6:30 p.m. Oktoberfest 1700 Moss St., New Orleans (504) 522-8014 oktoberfestnola.com Celebrate German heritage at the Deutsches Haus with traditional music, German folk dancing, cold beer, wine, and liquors, and delectable German
HALLOWEEN HAUNTS The 13th Gate 832 St. Philip St., Baton Rouge
(225) 389-1313 13thgate.com
Anything can happen as you journey through the 13th Gate’s 13 nightmarish realms. Open on October 3-4, 10-12, and Thursdays-Sundays from October 16 to November 1, 6:30-11:30 p.m. Field of Screams Halloween Trail 4001 De Porres Rd., Covington (985) 892-1873 covla.com Children and adults of all ages can enjoy thrills and chills as they explore eerily-staged Blue Swamp Creek trails on Saturday, October 18, from sunset to 10 p.m. The Mortuary 4800 Canal St., New Orleans
(504) 483-2350 themortuary.net
Join the City Park Conservancy for plant and garden product exhibits and sales, educational programs, music, arts and crafts, and cooking demonstrations. Walk the Botanical Garden Saturday, October 4, from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. First Presbyterian Church Pumpkin Patch 5401 S. Claiborne Ave., New Orleans (504) 866-7409 fpcno.org This patch is open October 5-31 (or until sold out). Families can browse daily on weekdays from 3-7 p.m. and weekends from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. to pick the perfect pumpkin, let kids play in the hay, and snap festive fall photos. Entry is free, with pumpkins available for purchase. LSU AgCenter Botanic Gardens Corn Maze 4560 Essen Ln., Baton Rouge Join the LSU AgCenter every Saturday this month—October 4, 11, 18, and 25— for a fun-filled day including pumpkins, sunflowers, hayrides, and, of course, the corn maze. Visit October 25 from 6-9 p.m. for the night maze! Mrs. Heather’s Pumpkin Patch 11215 Lee’s Ln., Hammond (225) 567-3493 thfarms.com/pumpkin-patch Pick and carve your pumpkin, play with farm animals, or meet your favorite cartoon character, through November 11. NOLA Craft Culture’s 5th Annual Glitter Pumpkin Patch 127 S. Solomon St., New Orleans (504) 454-8837 nolacraftculture.com Visit October 11-12 and 18-19 from noon to 6 p.m. for handmade glitter pumpkins, local crafters, food vendors, and fun! (225) 763-3990 lsuagcenter.com St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church Pumpkin Patch 1031 S. Carrollton Ave., New Orleans (504) 866-0123 standrewsnola.com Starting Saturday, October 4, you can visit St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church to collect pumpkins, play games, and win prizes. Visit Saturday-Sunday, from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. and Monday to Friday from 3-7 p.m. St. Mark’s Episcopal Church Pumpkin Patch 3245 Manhattan Blvd., Harvey (504) 366-0123 stmarksharvey.com
Visit from October 8-31 to enjoy pumpkins, photo ops, and weekend activities. Admission is free. St. Paul’s Episcopal School Pumpkin Patch 6249 Canal Blvd., New Orleans (504) 488-1319 stpauls-lakeview.org Pick out a pumpkin and pose for photos from October 4-30, Monday through Friday, 3:30-6 p.m., Saturday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m., and Sunday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sugar Roots Farm Pumpkin Patch Festival 10701 Willow Dr., New Orleans (504) 239-8695 Sugar Roots Farm will host Pumpkin Festivals on Saturday, October 12, 19, and 26, from 9:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. Tremé Fall Festival St. Augustine Catholic Church (504) 264-1132 tremefest.org/festival Celebrate the 10th anniversary of the Tremé Fall Festival on October 25, 2025! The festivities kick off at 11 a.m. SPOOKY SOUNDS & SPECTACLES Candlelight: A Haunted Evening of Halloween Classics The Sazerac House, New Orleans feverup.com On October 25 and October 30, audiences will be treated to a 65-minute concert featuring hauntingly beautiful renditions of favorites like “Thriller” and the Stranger Things theme. Candlelight: Halloween Classics Ogden Museum of Southern Art, New Orleans feverup.com This 60-minute concert by a live string quartet brings iconic Halloween music to life on October 18, 25, and 31. Dracula Orpheum Theater, New Orleans (504) 826-0646 neworleansballettheatre.com This haunting ballet follows Jonathan Harker’s descent into Count Dracula’s world. Performances vary. The Rocky Horror Picture Show 1419 Basin St., New Orleans (504) 525-1052 mahaliajacksontheater.com This “Science Fiction/Double Feature” is landing on Wednesday, October 29, at 8 p.m.
Mortals of New Orleans are formally invited to meet the “Queen of the Night” at one of the most haunted places in America. The Mortuary is open Thursdays-Sundays, from October 2 to November 1. Entry times vary from 6:45 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. New Orleans Nightmare 319 Butterworth St., New Orleans neworleansnightmare.com New Orleans Nightmare Haunted House returns to terrify thrill-seekers with heart- pounding scares. Open on most October nights from 7:30-10 p.m. New Orleans Zombie Run Warehouse District (504) 669-7655 neworleanszombierun.com Escape the zombie apocalypse and the Big Easy Roller Derby during this two-mile race through the Warehouse District on Saturday, October 25. Let the outbreak begin at 9 a.m. in the Warehouse District’s “quarantine zone.” PUMPKIN PATCHES, CORN MAZES, FALL FESTIVALS… OH MY! Abita Fall Fest 22044 Main St., Abita Springs This event features food and drinks, a Kids’ Zone, the Harvest Market arts and crafts area, and live music. Visit the Abita Springs Trailhead Park on Friday, October 10, at 5 p.m., and Saturday, October 11, (985) 773-8539 abitafallfest.com CM Farms offers 50+ attractions like pony rides, pumpkin patches, and a corn maze. Visit on weekends through November 30. On October 25-26, stop by for the special Not-So-Spooky Carnival. Fall and Christmas Market Pontchartrain Convention Center, Kenner (985) 966-7863 steinhauerproductions.com Get a jumpstart on holiday shopping while also enjoying all things fall at the Pontchartrain Convention Center, October 11-12. Fall Garden Festival 5 Victory Ave., New Orleans (504) 483-9402 neworleanscitypark.org at 11 a.m. CM Farms 252 CM Farms Rd., Dry Creek (337) 328-8916 cmfarmsllc.com
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