November 2020

A SARINE THOUGHT… OR TWO BY EMILY SARINE

Thanksgiving, Traditions, and the Like

NOVEMBER. A thirty-day month full of gratitude, joy and, for some, appropriately timed Christmas shopping. For me and my family, this month marks the beginning of a fairly complete transition to cooler weather, celebrating a wedding anniversary with my stud of a husband, continuing to watch PG and A&M football, being able to wear my UGGS in public with less self-awareness and my favorite American celebration: THANKSGIVING! Thanksgiving has become our favorite holiday spent with the whole family, and we are all refreshed once it is over. In light of what we have experienced, I would like to share with y’all the keys that my family and I have found to bring about a successful Thanksgiving holiday. 1. Wear your tightest jeans to the Thanksgiving feast... skinny if you got ‘em. I used to wear stretchy pants to this event but have recently stopped. My working theory had been that if I felt comfortable while eating, I was winning. However, after much research,

the uncomfortable feeling that no longer existed during the Thanksgiving bounty would rear its ugly head the entire week (month) afterwards when wearing pants with buttons and zippers. I also felt significant knocks to my pride when just a few short weeks later the clothes I had asked for on my Christmas list were now incapable of being buttoned across my newly begotten food baby. Ugh! With these things in mind, for your own happiness, be sure to wear your button-up pants to Thanksgiving to lessen your future discomfort and shame. Or if you value eating comfortably above self-image, you can go up a clothing size on your Christmas wish list, or just ask for shoes. 2. Enjoy keeping, discarding and creating traditions together. Thanksgiving is full of traditions for us. Some, we have continued since combining our families at First Baptist Church, Sulphur Springs on the evening of November 1, 2003. Some we practiced for a season but have since been left by the wayside. Some we need to add to the list of “Things We Will Definitely Do (Maybe).”

One of our longest-held traditions is to have Thanksgiving lunch with my extended family on Thanksgiving Day and then have second Thanksgiving lunch on Friday with Ross’ family. There are a couple of positives to this tradition. First, we get to spend equal amounts of time with each family. For those reading this who don’t have children, the concept of “Shared Time Equity” may be foreign to you. For those who are reading and do have children, I know you are totally feeling me on this one. Another perk to this practice is that we also get to have four Thanksgiving meals. You read that right. Four! This is because we like to keep the southern tradition of “making yourself a plate” to lessen the burden on the hostess of the distribution of leftovers. Since we have two different lunches, we make two different plates. A tradition that we have discarded as of late has been the running of the Turkey Trot. We have run several, which is enough for me to have a complete wardrobe of multi-colored long-sleeved Turkey Trot t-shirts. We have run 10K’s and 5K’s galore. We ran for both a cause and the

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