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MAR 2022
Though they may be difficult to control or manage at times, our children are some of the greatest blessings in our lives. When they’re young, they depend on us for so much, and it’s a wonderful feeling to provide them with a life full of love. As they grow, you get to watch them change and begin to chase their own goals and dreams. Having children is one of the most rewarding but challenging experiences of life.
I have realized that possibly the most important lesson that comes from parenting is to have patience. Our children are still growing and are constantly learning new things. It’s important that we give them time to fully understand the world around them and how to navigate the situations they face. I have found that if I stay calm, my children are more likely to stay calm and it teaches them to respond in a more positive and productive way. Another important lesson I have learned is that each child is different, and we need to encourage and nurture their uniqueness. Every individual has their own gifts and talents, and the same is true for our children. Though this seems intuitive, living it through my children brings it new and deeper meaning. My three children could not be more different. One is wild but would give you the shirt off his back. His twin sister is calm, deliberate, and stubborn
as can be. My oldest son is brilliant and interested in absolutely everything from sports to space. If I tried to force one of my children to be more like his/her sibling I would be met with insurmountable resistance. Instead, I try to appreciate my children for who they are and celebrate their differences. I try to remember that they still need to figure out who they are so they can develop to their fullest potential. As parents we want to do everything in our power to give our children full lives. I had a very happy childhood, but I can do even more for my children than my parents were able to do for me and my sister. I am constantly struggling with the balance of giving my children everything from gifts to activities to travel experiences and yet making sure they grow up to be kind, compassionate and motivated adults. Becoming a parent is scary. I still remember the simple fears I had when Michael, my firstborn, was an infant. I was terrified to take him out in public in case he had a blowout, so I avoided it. When I finally worked up the nerve and brought him with me to the grocery store for the first time, my fear was realized – he immediately had a blowout. I rushed him to the bathroom to get him cleaned and changed. While there, someone flushed a toilet, which set Michael off; he was inconsolable. But of course, everything turned out fine and it was a small but valuable lesson to me not to allow my fears to control me. There is no rulebook when it comes to children (I think we all wish there was). Every child is different but they are one of life’s greatest blessings.
My children completely changed my life. I lived a very comfortable and self- focused life before having children. I had the opportunity to participate in some extraordinary experiences but found myself wanting more as I neared my 40s. I had my first child when I turned 40 and twins when I was 41. You read that correctly – we had three children under the age of one. These little people gave new purpose and meaning to my life. Sleeping-in and leisurely weekend brunches have been replaced by early morning chaos and soccer practice, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. My natural tendency to react emotionally has been replaced by a more deliberate and controlled response when it comes to my children (though this is still a work in progress – I don’t want to overstate my progress).
A P P R E C I A T E Y O U R C H I L D R E N F O R W H O T H E Y T R U L Y A R E A N D C E L E B R A T E T H E I R D I F F E R E N C E S .
- Esther Vayman
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C redit or D ebit ?
for recurring payments . Your fees will be paid automatically, and these regular on-time payments will help raise your credit score. • If an emergency occurs , put it on
use an out-of-network ATM, your bank and the ATM provider will charge a fee. Although you can use your credit card to withdraw money, the fees are usually even higher.
• Debit cards can help you avoid
your credit card. This will give you some time to pay off the expense if you need it.
merchant fees from businesses. Some online retailers, restaurants, and small businesses have a surcharge when you use your credit card, but debit cards are excluded from these fees.
W H E N T O U S E E A C H C A R D
Which card you use is a personal preference. Use whichever method you’re comfortable with and makes sense for you. Always check your balances and fees to ensure everything is in order and cost-effective. If you see suspicious activity on your account, contact your bank for assistance.
When it comes to purchasing items, you have a choice about whether you should use your debit or credit card. Although these rectangular pieces of plastic look the same, they are very different. With credit cards, you’re borrowing money, whereas a debit card takes money directly from your account. That being said, is there a better time to use credit than debit? Here are a few instances to help you determine when to use which card. DEBIT CARD • If you need to access cash quickly , it’s best to use your debit card. If you use an in-network ATM, you can withdraw cash without a transaction fee. But if you
• If you make an international
purchase , you may want to use your debit card if your credit card company charges foreign transaction fees. CREDIT CARD • Your credit card is preferred for safer online shopping to prevent your debit card information from being on the internet. However, check your browser and shopping apps to make sure your credit card is the preferred payment method. • If you have any subscription services or bills, your credit card works great
G A I N I N G A B E T T E R U N D E R S T A N D I N G O F F A M I L Y L AW
W ith E lyssa K. W illiams
and around the state of Georgia. After many years of impressive and influential work, Elyssa decided she wanted to try something new and different. She realized that transitioning over to family law would provide her with a more meaningful way to help people when they are facing a dark time in their lives. Elyssa is particularly skilled at handling cases involving complicated financial issues. She helps clients understand the landscape of their assets, debts and what is and is not marital property. She works with individuals prior to their marriage to ensure they are financially protected, particularly in second marriages and marriages later in life when one party has accrued significant assets. She’s a firm believer in the importance of working alongside a family law attorney before, during and at the end of a
marriage to ensure one’s assets are protected. It doesn’t take much for assets that were once separate to become marital, so it is essential to have an experienced attorney by your side to ensure assets are protected. As a final note, Elyssa thinks it’s important for individuals to talk to an attorney before coming to an agreement with a spouse about how any or all assets are to be divided in the event of divorce. Assets must be properly valued and looked at wholistically rather than piecemeal. It’s much more difficult (and sometimes impossible) to fix a bad agreement than it is to get it right the first time. There are many nuances in family law. If you have any questions or need representation, give our office a call.
The team at Vayman & Teitelbaum P.C. is dedicated to helping members of our community with their various family law needs. That’s why we’ve gathered some of the hardest working, brightest and most accomplished individuals to help us advocate for the families in our community. Elyssa K. Williams is one of V&T’s senior attorneys who joined our team with a plethora of family law experience. Though she had her own successful practice, she wanted to work in a team environment, which brought her through our doors. Elyssa didn’t start out in the world of family law, though. For the first half of her career, she was a criminal defense attorney in Brooklyn, Orlando,
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W H A T I S Y O U R F A V O R I T E H O B B Y ?
Here are some of our teams’ favorites!
Jade Hart Hiking Oriana Sotillo Working out and shopping Tori Booth Napping Mari Sotillo Eating Kayte Moore Shopping, organizing and refinishing furniture Kathleen Sickler Hiking, wheeling and shopping Nikayla Wandelt Running Madison Deese Shopping, sleeping, binge- watching Bravo
Jim Powers Reading/audio books and dog walks Erica Tuff Cooking, visiting local breweries and wineries, bocce ball Maggie Szutz Dog walks and reading Elyssa Williams YouTube Jenny Ohsberg Baking with my kids Esther Vayman Collecting and reading cookbooks Kristy Seidenberg Taking pictures of my horses!
V egan R euben Inspired by MyDarlingVegan.com
ingredients
B R A I N B R E A K
• 8 oz tempeh • 1/2 cup vegetable broth • 1 tbsp balsamic vinegar • 1 tbsp vegan Worcestershire sauce • 1 tsp liquid smoke • 1 tsp onion powder • 1 tsp paprika
• 1/2 tsp garlic powder • 2 tbsp olive oil • Bread of choice, toasted • 1/2 cup sauerkraut • Vegan Swiss cheese (optional) • 1/4 cup Thousand Island dressing
directions
1. Cut tempeh into 4 thin slices. 2. In a shallow bowl, combine broth, vinegar, Worcestershire sauce, liquid smoke, onion powder, paprika, and garlic powder. Marinate tempeh in mixture for 30 minutes. 3. In a large skillet, heat the olive oil. Cook tempeh in the oil for 5 minutes per side. 4. Between toasted bread, layer tempeh, sauerkraut, cheese (optional), and dressing. Enjoy immediately.
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LIFE LESSONS THAT MY CHILDREN TAUGHT ME
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SHOULD I USE CREDIT OR DEBIT?
UNDERSTANDING COMMON FAMILY LAW ISSUES
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OUR TEAM SHARES THEIR FAVORITE HOBBIES
VEGAN REUBEN
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4 HEALTH BENEFITS OF SPRING- CLEANING
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4 H ealth B enefits of S pring -C leaning
SPRING-CLEANING HELPS YOU BREATHE BETTER.
Sunday, March 20, is the first day of spring — which means it’s time for some spring-cleaning. Did you know that cleaning is not just about tidying up a physical space? It’s also about improving overall well-being. Here’s how organization and cleanliness can help you in more ways than you might expect.
Spring often brings pollen that triggers allergies for many. But pollen isn’t the only thing to blame when people have difficulty breathing. When dust and pet dander build up in your home, your respiratory system is greatly affected too. Deep-cleaning your air filters and vents can make breathing effortless — and it’s truly amazing how this can improve your well-being.
SPRING-CLEANING REDUCES STRESS AND DEPRESSION.
Tidiness and mental health are actually connected. Studies have found that having a clean home is directly correlated to happiness and your ability to focus. Anxiety can spike when laundry is piling up, items are strewn everywhere, and papers get scattered on various surfaces within the home. Clearing the clutter is a great way to boost your mood and increase those feel-good hormones.
IT KEEPS YOU MORE ACTIVE.
Off the couch and on your feet! Even just running the vacuum and clearing the clutter from the dining room table will get you up and moving, which is healthy for your heart and body.
IT PREVENTS ILLNESSES.
This spring season, putting some elbow grease into your cleaning will benefit you in more ways than one. Trust me, you’ll thank yourself later!
Doorknobs, refrigerator handles, light switches, countertops, and remote controls are all things we touch many times a day. Cleaning anything that’s used often is one way to reduce the spread of germs. By keeping household surfaces clean, we help thwart the spread of viruses and illnesses.
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