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10 BEST BRUNCH SPOTS FOR SPECIAL OCCASIONS With Mother’s and Father’s Day quickly approaching, it’s time to start making those brunch reservations! Here are 10 top spots in the city for a delicious meal with loved ones. NOCCA CELEBRATES 50 YEARS NOCCA marks 50 years with the 2025 ART&SOUL “Golden Gala” on May 17—an unforgettable night of alumni performances, fine dining, and immersive art, all supporting future artists.
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“Let’s Have Kids—It’ll Be Fun” (Famous Last Words)
M y husband loves to tease me with a line I allegedly said nearly two decades ago: “Let’s have kids—it’ll be fun!” For the record, I have zero recollection of ever saying that. I’m guessing I was temporarily sleep-deprived, caffeine- deprived, or just plain delusional. Fast forward 18 years, and here we are—knee-deep in the world of teen emotions, middle school meltdowns, and things I truly never saw coming. Nobody tells you when you’re holding that fresh-smelling, burrito-wrapped baby that one day you’ll be Googling things like “how to help your kid with social anxiety” or “how to explain ADHD to a 10-year-old without crying.” Spoiler alert: You’re going to cry. Probably in the car. Probably while pretending you’re just enjoying your coffee quietly in the driveway. What really hits you—somewhere around third grade—is that your child’s mental health isn’t just about school stress or screen time. It’s about the entire emotional ecosystem they live in… and yes, my fellow parents, we are the ecosystem. Turns out, those little eyeballs and ears are always on. Always. They see how we react to spiders (sorry for the screaming), to stressful phone calls, to that 43rd request for a snack. They hear our muttering when we stub a toe, and yep, they know exactly how often we say “I’m fine” when we’re very obviously not fine. And I’ll be honest—my kids inherited more than just my hair color and knack for sarcasm. They got a dash (okay, a dollop) of my anxiety. I wish I could go back and rewrite some of those early years—maybe pause before overreacting, maybe breathe more
and yell less. Maybe actually listen to my husband once in a while when he suggests I “chill.” (We’re working on that.) Now, as I enter the final stretch of parenting “children” before they legally become adults (cue nervous laughter), I’m trying harder than ever to show up differently. I’m managing my own anxiety with a little more grace and a lot more self-awareness— because if they’re going to learn how to handle big feelings, they’ve got to see it modeled. Do we still have meltdowns? Absolutely. Do we have fewer of them than before? Praise be, yes. We’ve learned to break up homework into chunks. We take breaks when needed. And sometimes we just admit, “Hey, this is hard, and that’s okay.” It doesn’t always go smoothly, but there’s definitely less crying— and not just from me. So, in honor of National Mental Health Awareness Month, here’s my little love letter to every young parent out there: Your mental health matters too. Not just for your own sake, but because your kids are soaking up your energy like little emotional sponges. If I could go back and whisper in my younger self’s ear, I’d say, “They don’t just watch what you do, they feel what you feel.” And also, “Maybe don’t scream about that spider—it’s just a spider.” But mostly, I’d remind myself (and you): It’s never too late to model calm, to apologize, to try again, and to live the motto I now say to my kids all the time: “Just go with the flow.” (And maybe have a backup plan for when the flow turns into a flood.)
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I t’s no secret—summers in Louisiana are hot, and we’re all desperate for relief. Fortunately, the New Orleans Public Library has a refreshing lineup of water- themed books that let you dive into adventure without breaking a sweat. So grab a book, find some shade, and let these stories transport you while you count down the days to fall.
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CHILDREN Kwesi and Nana Ruby Learn to Swim by Kobina Commeh & Bárbara Quintino. Kwesi is afraid of the water. When Nana Ruby confides that she is also afraid of swimming, they turn to the West African legend of Mami Wata to face their fear. Katie Woo and JoJo on the Go!: Splish Splash at the Water Park by Fran Manushkin. Katie Woo and her friend JoJo are spending the day at an indoor water park, but Katie is a little afraid of the very high Super-Duper Slide, and JoJo has to help her overcome her fear. The Mermaids of Jamaica by Claudia Bellante & Herikita. A two-time Olympic Gold Medal winner for synchronized swimming inspires Jamaican girls to dedicate themselves to swimming and invest in their futures in this heartening nonfiction picture book. MIDDLE GRADE Julia on the Go!: Swimming into Trouble by Angela Ahn & Julie Kim. When she is sidelined by an ear infection, Julia Nam,
only friend Matori, he’s a bona fide prince. Feeling out of place at home, Mugi runs away to Matori’s house and learns about legendary mermaids who will grant you one wish—if you can make it to them alive. Beach Cute by Beth Reekle. Luna, Rory, and Jodie are strangers in need of a getaway. Luna has unexpectedly broken up with her boyfriend, Rory has to break it to her family that she wants to pursue her art passion, and Jodie feels lost in both life and love. As their lives collide under the sun, will they have the summer they’ll never forget?
the youngest member of the Vipers Swim Team, is desperate to get back in the pool, but when she goes behind her parents’ backs to do so, she gets into hot water. Swim Team by Johnnie Christmas. Bree can’t wait for her first day at her new middle school—until she’s stuck with the only elective that fits her schedule, the dreaded Swim 101. The thought of swimming makes Bree more than a little queasy, but she has no choice. Lucky for her, Etta, an elderly occupant of her apartment building and former swim team captain, is willing to help. A Day at the Beach by Gary D. Schmidt & Ron Koertge. This novel, told from multiple points of view, follows a diverse cast of young people whose lives intersect in surprising and hilarious ways over the course of a summer day at the beach. TEEN Mermaid Prince by Kaori Ozaki. Mugi is a big-city kid struggling to adjust to life in Okinawa, where he moved with his sister and new brother-in-law. But to his
Looking for something fun and free to do this summer? Sign up for the Library’s annual Summer Fun & Reading Challenge! Registration opens May 25.
Kacy Helwick is the youth collection development librarian for the New Orleans Public Library’s collections and acquisitions department. Marie Simoneaux is the media and communications coordinator for the New Orleans Public Library.
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spotlight THE NOCCA FOUNDATION
F or more than five decades, the New Orleans Center for Creative Arts (NOCCA) has been shaping the next generation of artists, musicians, and performers. Behind the scenes, the NOCCA Foundation has played a crucial role in ensuring students have the resources they need to thrive. As NOCCA’s nonprofit partner, the Foundation provides vital financial support for students, faculty, and programs that extend beyond what the state can fund. “We provide supplemental funding for our students that includes money for college application fees, summer study programs, private lessons, and emergency funding for food [and family] support,” explains Adonis Rose, the Foundation’s executive director and a NOCCA alum. A Mission to Empower Young Artists The NOCCA Foundation was established alongside the school in the 1970s, and today, it continues to uphold its mission: to champion NOCCA by building partnerships and investing in young artists, their mentors, alumni, and the community. Through a variety of initiatives, the Foundation provides critical support in areas such as student scholarships, classroom supplies, and funding for specialized training programs. “It’s about the students,” Rose emphasizes. “It’s about supporting them and providing what they need right now and in the future.” Among the Foundation’s key programs is its Artist-in-Residence initiative,
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which brings over 100 professional artists to NOCCA each year to provide hands-on learning experiences. The Foundation also helps fund summer study opportunities, allowing students to attend prestigious arts programs worldwide, from Switzerland to Japan. In addition to these direct student support initiatives, the Foundation also plays a crucial role in maintaining and upgrading NOCCA’s facilities and equipment. From replacing aging musical instruments to updating technology for media arts students, the Foundation ensures that students have access to the best possible resources. “[We want to be] aligned with the times and the needs of the students,” Rose says. “[That means] looking towards the future and seeing what additional resources they may need.” A Personal Connection As a NOCCA alum, Rose brings a deep personal commitment to his role. “It’s a full-circle moment for me,” he says. “I know what these students need because I was in their position at one time. [NOCCA] changed my life.” Rose’s leadership ensures that the Foundation continues to evolve to meet students’ needs, including investing in new technology and expanding community outreach efforts. A recent partnership with the New Orleans Jazz Museum, for example, will feature performances by NOCCA alumni, students, and faculty as part of the museum’s Thursday concert series. Beyond the concert series, the
Foundation is actively seeking to build relationships with local and national arts organizations to provide students with more performance and exhibition opportunities. Supporting the Future of NOCCA The NOCCA Foundation is always looking for ways to grow and engage the community. One of its signature events, the annual ART&SOUL Gala, is set to take place on May 17, 2025. This highly anticipated event will showcase performances by NOCCA alumni, including Sasha Madison Koski, Preservation Hall, and Big Sam’s Funky Nation. For those looking to support NOCCA’s mission, Rose encourages community involvement. “People can follow us on social media, visit our website, and sign up for our newsletter to stay informed about our programs and events. And, of course, donations [are always welcome.]” NOCCA’s legacy is built on the talents of its students and the support of the community, and the Foundation is committed to fostering the next generation of artists, ensuring they have the tools and opportunities to thrive. As the organization celebrates 50 years of impact, its commitment to fostering creativity and artistic excellence remains as strong as ever. To learn more about the NOCCA Foundation and how you can support its mission, visit nocafoundation.org.
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SHARON LANDRY, FIRST LADY OF LOUISIANA
WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE FAMILY TRADITION THAT CELEBRATES LOUISIANA’S CULTURE? SHARON: My favorite holiday is Thanksgiving, because there’s not a lot of pressure. We go to our hunting camp, and the Landrys and the LeBlancs come. Everybody brings a dish, Jeff and his brothers cook the turkeys, and everybody’s together, visiting out on the Bayou and eating on paper plates. It’s really casual. It’s just about giving thanks for all that God has given us and feeling blessed. IF YOU COULD PLAN THE PERFECT FAMILY DAY, WHAT WOULD IT INCLUDE? SHARON: Usually cooking with the family out by the water. My son loves to wake board; also boating—either on the Bayou or at the beach—fishing, just being surrounded by family and friends. WHAT’S A FUNNY OR MEMORABLE PARENTING BY AMANDA MILLER PHOTO BY JASON COHEN PHOTOGRAPHY F or Louisiana’s First Lady Sharon Landry, family and community come first. Despite the titles that come with being the wife of Governor Jeff Landry, she remains deeply rooted to the joys of Louisiana life—family gatherings at the camp, casual meals on paper plates, and time spent on the Bayou. As a devoted mother, wife, and a leader in her own right, she is passionate about helping families thrive in Louisiana.
Occupation: Wife and mother, and previously worked in the medical field Husband: Governor Jeff Landry Child: Jeffrey (JT), 20 Hobbies: Tennis, reading, service, and spending time with family and friends
MOMENT YOU’VE HAD WITH JT? SHARON: There are so many, but one I can remember is [when] Jeff took JT, when he was five, six, or seven, to a hunting ranch in Texas. I was not there; it was a father-son trip. They had a pool out there and were redoing it, but they had put water in it and all this blue dye, and JT just accidentally fell in, and he came out looking like a little blue Smurf. So I said, well, that’s what happens when you leave them with the husband. They get free rein, and they love it. I’m sure it was accidental but intentional to get in the water and go swim. HOW HAS RAISING A FAMILY IN LOUISIANA SHAPED YOUR VALUES AND PARENTING STYLE? SHARON: I come from a family with five kids, and my parents were great role models and examples towards me and my family, as well as Jeff’s parents. He comes from four, and he’s the oldest. Me
and my twin sister are the babies. I think [having] real strong family roots, being there, being present, teaching them to be good stewards of the state and to always give back to the community, and to leave the state better than we found it [is important.] You always want to give your kids more than you had and to remind them to give back and help a community in service. WHAT LESSONS ABOUT KINDNESS AND COMMUNITY DO YOU HOPE TO PASS ON TO JT? SHARON: As a mother, you just hope that you teach them to be kind, to be good, to always give back to the community. You want them to grow up in a better place than you were, and that’s what Jeff’s doing, that’s what I’m doing. We’re trying to make the state better. We want people to stay in the state. We want people to come home. Our whole theme of the inauguration was “Come Back Home.” We want to instill in them to
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SHARON: Family is the most important thing to me. Being a parent is the hardest job you can ever have, and it always comes first to me: God, family, then your job. With Jeff working and traveling, my main focus was to be there with JT. We had one child and I didn’t have another one to try out; I have to get this one right. It was really important for me to stay home, be with him through school, and all his extracurricular activities, being a caregiver, a scheduler, counselor—and we’re still doing that. He’s in college now, and so I was always home. When Jeff considered running for governor, I asked him to wait until JT graduated high school, because I knew in high school, Jeff would come in to play more. I always say I had him for about 15 years, and in high school, he needed his father. He needed the father figure, and so we agreed, and Jeff didn’t decide to run until JT’s senior year. He’s the most important thing in our lives, and we needed to keep the family together, be there for him, and [for him] to know that he came first. WHAT DOES “HOME” IN LOUSIAIA MEAN TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY? SHARON: Home is back in Acadiana, back in Broussard, back at the camp. We have a camp in Catahoula, which is 20
stay here, to raise a family here, and the strong roots that we were taught. AS FIRST LADY, WHAT INITIATIVES ARE YOU MOST PASSIONATE ABOUT WHEN IT COMES TO SUPPORTING LOUISIANA’S FAMILIES? SHARON: When we started the Love One Louisiana Foundation, we didn’t want to focus on just one group. I wanted to reach across all of Louisiana on all its issues, because there are so many needs in the state, whether it comes to single mothers, education, health care, tragedies like January 1, or hurricanes for providing shelter and food. That’s why we called it Love One Louisiana, to encompass all of Louisiana. If something comes up and we want to help, we reach out and support them in their needs. We just started the foundation in January, so we’re just kicking it off. The tragedy on January 1 really kicked us into high gear, so we’ve raised money, and we’re working on getting that to the victims and the injured right now. WHAT’S ONE PIECE OF ADVICE YOU’D GIVE TO FELLOW MOMS ABOUT BALANCING FAMILY, WORK, AND SERVICE?
minutes from our home in Broussard, so that’s home, and being either one of those places with family and friends, hanging out. The mansion is the work home, so we have lots of homes, and we try to make all of them as comfortable as possible and welcoming to everyone that wants to come visit. WHAT ARE YOUR HOPES FOR THE NEXT GENERATION OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES? SHARON: That they have a safe community, where they have opportunities and can reach their goals, no matter what background they come from, and that they feel loved.
Quick Q’s Favorite date night… at home cooking on the back porch or by the fire at the camp. One word that best describes your family …chaos. Favorite movie or television show to watch … Friends. Favorite food …Cajun. Hidden talent …dancing.
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Navigating Standardized Testing: SAT & ACT 101
BY SANONNA AL TAWEEL
16 MAY 2025 | NOLAFAMILY.COM comprehension and writing skills, focusing on the student’s ability to analyze written passages and answer questions about them. standardized tests for college admissions are the SAT (Scholastic Assessment Test) and the ACT (American College Test). Both exams are used by colleges and universities across the United States to assess a student’s readiness for higher education, helping admissions officers make objective decisions about applicants. The SAT is broken down into three main sections: • Evidence-Based Reading and Writing This section tests reading F or students, the idea of taking the types of tests, their benefits, how to prepare for them, and available testing resources can make the entire process much less intimidating and set students up for educational success. What Are Standardized Tests? Standardized tests are assessments that are administered and scored in a consistent, uniform manner across all test-takers. The goal of these tests is to evaluate a student’s academic abilities, knowledge, or potential in specific subjects under controlled conditions. They are designed to ensure that every student takes the same test, under the same conditions, and is scored according to the same criteria. The SAT & ACT The two nationally-recognized standardized tests can often feel daunting. However, understanding
• Math The math section covers a range of topics, including algebra, problem- solving, and data analysis. Some questions require a calculator, while others are “no-calculator” questions. • Essay (Optional) The essay portion is optional, but some colleges require it. In this section, students are asked to analyze a passage and construct an essay that explains how the author builds their argument. The SAT is scored on a scale from 400 to 1600, with separate scores given for the reading and writing section (up to 800) and the math section (up to 800). The essay score is separate and is graded based on a rubric that assesses writing skills and argumentation. The ACT is structured similarly to the SAT but with a few differences: • English This section tests grammar, punctuation, sentence structure, and rhetorical skills. • Math The math section covers topics such as algebra, geometry, and trigonometry. It is more focused on mathematical problem- solving than the SAT. • Reading This section tests reading comprehension, similar to the SAT, where students must analyze passages and answer questions about them. • Science The ACT includes a unique science
section that evaluates a student’s ability to interpret, analyze, and reason through scientific data and experiments. This is the ACT’s most distinctive feature from the SAT. The ACT is scored on a scale, with each section scoring between 1 and 36. The average of these four sections gives the overall composite score, which ranges from 1 to 36. The ACT also offers an optional writing section (the essay), which is scored separately. Benefits of Standardized Testing While standardized testing often gets a bad rap, there are significant benefits that these exams provide to students and schools. Measuring Student Knowledge and Skills One of the biggest advantages of standardized testing is its ability to objectively measure a student’s academic knowledge and skills. These tests provide clear data about where a student stands academically in comparison to national or regional standards. This allows educators to identify strengths and areas for improvement in their students. College and Career Readiness Standardized tests like the SAT and ACT are crucial tools in assessing whether a student is ready for the challenges of higher education. College admissions officers rely on these tests to get an objective measure of academic ability and preparedness. Similarly, many
Practice with Sample Questions One of the best ways to prepare is by practicing with sample questions and past test papers. You can find official practice tests and questions through the test administrators’ websites. Take these practice tests under timed conditions to simulate the actual test experience and to help build familiarity with the content. Test Prep Resources Luckily for students, here’s a wealth of resources available to help prepare for the SAT and ACT. Here are some of the best options: Official Test Prep Materials Start with the official prep materials provided by test creators. The College Board (for SAT) and ACT offer free and paid resources, including practice tests, study guides, and prep courses on their websites. Online Study Platforms Platforms like Khan Academy offer free video lessons and practice exercises tailored to the SAT. Magoosh and Quizlet also provide comprehensive study resources, including practice questions, flashcards, and video explanations.
Test Prep Books Books from trusted publishers like Kaplan, The Princeton Review, and Barron’s are widely used for standardized test preparation. Copies of these books are often available to check out for free at your local library! Tutors and Prep Courses If you prefer one-on-one attention, consider hiring a tutor or enrolling in a prep course. Tutors can provide personalized help, focusing on your specific weaknesses. Study Groups and Peer Support Don’t underestimate the power of studying with others. Joining a study group or participating in online forums can provide motivation, helpful tips, and different perspectives on problem-solving. Standardized testing is a challenging yet essential part of the educational journey. Whether preparing for college admissions, state assessments, or subject- specific tests, understanding the types of exams, the benefits they offer, and how to best prepare for them can set students up for success.
employers use standardized tests as part of their hiring process to assess job- related skills. Identifying Learning Gaps For students, standardized tests can help pinpoint gaps in knowledge. Recognizing these gaps allows for targeted interventions, helping students stay on track academically. How to Prep for the SAT and ACT Preparation is key to performing well on these tests. Here are some proven strategies that can help students get ready: Know the Test Format Take time to research the specific test you will be taking. Understand the format, timing, and types of questions you will encounter. This will allow you to feel more confident and less anxious on the test day. Make a Study Plan A well-organized study plan can make a huge difference in preparing for standardized tests. Set aside regular study time in your schedule, and divide your study sessions into manageable chunks.
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BY MADISON VOORHIES PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM The College Experience : TikTok vs. Reality
I f you’ve ever scrolled through TikTok’s #collegelife or #dormlife tags, you’ve probably seen the highlight reel of college life: picture-perfect dorm rooms, effortlessly stylish students walking to class with iced coffees in hand, and friend groups straight out of a sitcom. From aesthetic study sessions to wild weekend parties, TikTok paints college as an exciting, glamorous, and carefully curated experience. But does it really look like that in real life? Not exactly. While TikTok captures some aspects of college, it often exaggerates or omits the messy, unfiltered reality. Let’s break down the biggest differences between TikTok’s version of college and what it’s actually like.
Expectation: Aesthetic Dorms Straight Off Your Pinterest Board TikTok dorm tours showcase string lights, plush bedding, color-coordinated décor, and spotless organization. Every inch of space seems optimized for coziness and productivity, making it look like a dream home away from home. Reality: Cramped Chaos with Questionable Air Quality Most freshmen move into tiny, outdated dorms with cinder block walls, questionable carpets, and communal bathrooms that make you rethink ever going barefoot. Sure, some students go all out with their setups, but keeping a dorm this pristine is nearly impossible— especially when you’re sharing it with a roommate whose idea of “clean” is secluding their dirty laundry and dishes
weekend is an endless cycle of fun, complete with neon lights, great music, and an effortlessly cool friend group. Reality: Some Great Nights, Some Netflix Nights Yes, parties exist, but they aren’t always the cinematic experience TikTok makes them out to be. Sometimes they’re overcrowded and sweaty, sometimes they get shut down by campus police, and sometimes you’d rather stay in and binge-watch a show in your pajamas. The reality? College social life is a mix of great nights out, awkward encounters, and plenty of quiet nights in. Not every college student loves a rager, and universities offer plenty of other extracurriculars to keep you occupied. Expectation: Instant Best Friends and a Built-In Support System TikTok often shows college students forming deep friendships right away— laughing in dining halls, going on spontaneous road trips, and having heart-to-hearts at 3 a.m.
in perfect handwriting, using pastel highlighters, and sipping matcha lattes while classical music plays softly in the background. The vibe? Calm, productive, and stress-free. Reality: Late-Night Cram Sessions and Academic Panic In reality, college academics are a whirlwind of last-minute cramming, panicking over forgotten deadlines, and bargaining with yourself about how little sleep you can survive on before an 8 a.m. lecture. Study sessions often involve messy notes, half-drunk energy drinks, and the crushing realization that you should’ve started studying weeks ago. Pro tip: Try to establish a solid study routine early on. If done correctly, you’ll have a full four years to experience everything college has to offer. Why not do it with a pretty GPA? Expectation: Parties Every Weekend, Social Life on Fire From Greek life ragers to themed dorm parties, TikTok makes it seem like every
to their side of the room. Expectation: Effortless Academic Success
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Reality: It Takes Time to Find Your People—And That’s Okay! Making friends in college isn’t always instant. The first few weeks can feel lonely, and it takes effort to find your group. With time, shared experiences, and some trial and error, you will eventually find your people. Editor’s note: I met my first college best friend in our dorm’s elevator! She noticed we both walked to the same science class every morning and asked if I wanted to sit together. The rest is history! Moral of the story? Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Expectation: Balanced, Productive, Instagram-Worthy Life According to TikTok, college students somehow manage to maintain perfect routines: waking up early, working out, making healthy meals, staying on top of assignments, and still having time for a vibrant social life. Reality: Chaos, Procrastination, and Cereal for Dinner In reality, most students are just trying to survive. Sleep schedules are unpredictable, motivation comes in waves, and “meal prep” sometimes means eating instant ramen for the third time in a week. College isn’t a perfectly curated routine—it’s messy, spontaneous, and full of ups and downs. The Verdict? College is What You Make It TikTok’s version of college isn’t completely false—it just leaves out the harder, more unglamorous parts. The reality is: college is a mix of stress and excitement, independence and uncertainty, unforgettable moments and everyday struggles. It’s not a movie, but that’s what makes it real. And that’s the best part. College isn’t about fitting into a perfect aesthetic—it’s about discovering who you are, finding your people, and embracing the highs and lows that come with it. Some days will be tough, but others will be incredible—the kind of moments you’ll look back on and smile. The reality of college isn’t always picture-perfect, but it’s yours to shape. So go in with an open mind, take the pressure off trying to make it look like TikTok, and focus on making it an experience that’s meaningful, exciting, and uniquely yours.
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Swim Lessons for All Ages BY JULIANNA STEEN
“ S ink or swim,” the old adage goes. My family recently had dear friends who discovered their toddler after he had fallen in the pool when unsupervised. Thankfully, he was resuscitated and survived, but it was a scary and uncertain few hours. Swim lessons can sometimes seem like something meant for “little kids,” but the truth is that you’re never too old to learn. Knowing how to swim is an essential skill that can save your life. According to CDC Drowning Prevention, “Every year in the United States there are over 4,000 unintentional drowning deaths.” People of all ages are dying every year—and many of these deaths are preventable if people would learn how to swim. Once you learn how to swim, you can then protect yourself and others. Here are just a few of the reasons why swim lessons are important for every age group.
Infants & Toddlers (6 months–3 years) The CDC statistics prove that “more children ages 1–4 die from drowning than any other cause of death.” Putting your baby in swim lessons is crucial because it teaches them basic survival skills like floating, turning over, and holding onto the wall in the pool. Plus, it reduces the fear of water early on, enabling them (and you) to feel a sense of comfort and familiarity when they are in the water.
Young Children (4–12 years) Not only is swimming a good way to be active, it can also train your kids swimming techniques and coordination, building up their confidence and water independence. Swimming is not just a “fun” problem, it can be lethal, as almost all children are expected to interact with water, especially during the summer months. Sadly, the CDC reports that “drowning is the second leading cause
of unintentional injury death for children ages 5–14.” Equipping your children with safety skills will give you both peace of mind while they’re playing in the pool. If you know they can swim well, you’ll also feel more comfortable to send them on pool playdates when you’re not available to watch over them. Teenagers Even if your teen has a basic grasp on
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how to stay afloat, becoming trained in lifeguarding, CPR, or water rescues can open doors to potential summer jobs or hobbies they may really enjoy. They can also use their swim skills to participate in competitive swimming opportunities. The water can be a place of immense insecurity, so working to improve skills can boost your teen’s self-confidence, particularly in social settings. Adults Water is not without risk, even for adults. Learn to enjoy the water safely so you can play freely with your kids in the water. There are also physical benefits to using swimming as a form of exercise, including joint health and stress relief from water therapy. (Not to mention swimming laps is an excellent workout!) If you haven’t spent much time in the water before, think of the swim lessons as a form of safety, both for yourself and your family. If something happens to your kid in the water, you want to be prepared to jump in and save the day. Seniors It can be scary to get into your older years and not know how to swim. This fear can really inhibit your freedom, leading you to avoid pools, lakes, and other bodies of water. But there are more benefits than just your ease of mind and mental wellbeing; swim lessons can also be a low-impact, full-body workout that relaxes your muscles and is gentle on your joints. Additionally, swimming can improve blood circulation and balance, reducing the risk of falling. Regardless of your age, swim lessons can be extremely helpful, making them a wise and practical choice for people in all stages of life. In addition to swimming in the “classroom,” you can also learn water safety skills on RedCross’ free Swim app. Check your local YMCAs and community centers for swimming class availability. Swim schools are also popular and an excellent place to take your babies through elementary school- aged kids. Give yourself and your kids the opportunities to enjoy water recreation by cultivating the lifelong skill of learning how to swim now, no matter how old (or young!) you are.
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Types of Mothers -in-Law
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O ut of all the fish in the sea, you caught a good one! And while you had a choice in whom you married, you don’t have a choice in who their parents are. Navigating mothers-in-law tends to be tricky business. Knowing what type of mother-in-law you are dealing with can help you understand how to keep things pleasant. What type of in-law do you have, and which one will you be in the future? Know-It-All-In-Law She is the mother of your favorite person
trips, and more for your little ones, all thanks to Grandma. She may even spoil you from time to time with little treats— you did play a small role in creating her favorite people, after all. She may not have had the means or the time to spoil her own kids this much, so now this Grandma shows love by doing whatever she can to make her grandkids happy. Just remember, boundaries are okay! Tell this Grandma that “yes,” she can buy your kids a drum set, but they must live at her house. One-in-a-Million MIL She accepts you with open arms and genuinely cares about your well-being. This is the jackpot of all mothers-in-law, so go ahead and thank your lucky stars if this is your MIL. She may call you up to go shopping and take you to lunch just to gab, and she offers to drive the kids to practice or watch the kids so you and your partner can go on a much-needed date night. She was a great mom, and that makes her an intuitive mother-in- law who knows just how to help. If she lets the kids stay up a little too late, you know you have to let it slide because she is so much better than those monster- in-laws you have heard so much about. Be sure to let her know how much she is appreciated and communicate how grateful you are for her. Truant Mother-in-Law Tardy. Absent. Mother-in-law, who? Don’t dwell on this dud, and remember: It’s her loss. She may be “too busy” or, honestly, who even cares about her excuses. The
little family you have created is amazing, so focus on who does show up for you and your crew. If you catch her posting your beautiful babies on social media, flaunting how great of a grandmother she is, take a deep breath and exhale out the anger. You can’t change her. Learn from her mistakes and make sure you don’t follow in her footsteps in the future. Be the best in-law ever when you become one, even if it is just to spite her. Heavenly Mother-in-Law Take some time this month to remember the woman who raised your spouse. Share memories that make you laugh, smile and yes, maybe even cry when thinking about her. Consider who she was and celebrate her accordingly. Was she outdoorsy? Take a hike. Did she love to bake? Get in the kitchen. Was travel more her thing? Maybe take a small trip in her honor. While she may be gone, don’t let this mother-in-law be forgotten this month and beyond. While walking on eggshells should not be required to navigate a mother-in-law relationship, simply handling with care may keep things positive for everyone involved. Look to your partner for support and advice— they have known your MIL longer, after all. And remember that relationships are a two-way street, the burden of maintaining a good relationship shouldn’t fall all on your shoulders. Focus on what you can control, which is your outlook, your energy and your own happiness. Best of luck!
on the planet! She is also the creator of that person’s favorite meal. She is even happy to share the recipe with you, but when she samples the dish you made from her recipe, she will let you know that something isn’t just right in your version. From the moment of an announced pregnancy, this gem will willfully share her abundance of expertise in baby names, sleep, feeding, changing diapers, sibling relationships, pediatrics, discipline, and then move onto marriage, cleaning, cooking, and… you get the point. At the heart of it, the know-it-all mother-in-law just wants someone to acknowledge how great of a mom she was and still is. It was her identity, and with her birdies out of the nest, who is she now? Throw her a bone every once in a while and rave on how amazing her child turned out and what an excellent spouse she raised for you. It is okay to gently remind her that while you may never live up to her perfect example, it is your turn to give this whole marriage and You have heard of a Yes Day, well how about the Yes Grandma? This mother- in-law simply cannot say no to her precious grandbabies’ angelic faces. Basically, this mother-in-law breathes for her grandbabies to the point that when she walks through the door, she shoves people out of the way to get to her grands. Having a “Yes Grandma” means an abundance of toys, clothes, treats, parenthood thing a try. “YES” Grandma
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May 2025
out & about
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Titanic: An Immersive Voyage This extraordinary expedition takes you to the depths of the Titanic’s history. Life-sized recreations of rooms, immersive video animations, and 3D views all in one place. May 1-June 2. expo-titanic.com/new-orleans
2 Something Rotten!
Two brothers set out to write the world’s first musical in this hilarious mash-up of sixteenth-century Shakespeare and 21st-century Broadway. May 11-25. rivertowntheaters.com
The Wiz 3
This vibrant revival of The Wiz reimagines The Wizard of Oz with a soulful ‘70s soundtrack and a powerful modern twist. May 13-18. saengernola.com
Mid-City Bayou Boogaloo 4
5 This event offers a weekend of hot air balloon glows, tethered rides, live music, carnival attractions, food and craft vendors, and a rodeo. May 30-June 1. wpballoonfest.com Washington Parish Balloon Festival
This vibrant three-day festival celebrates Nola culture with music, art, and food, as patrons picnic on land or float around Bayou St. John. May 16-18. thebayouboogaloo.com
Events may change after publication deadline. Please phone ahead to confirm important information. HEADS UP!
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01 THURSDAY Crescent City Farmers Market Weekly at Lafitte Greenway Plaza. 3-7 p.m. crescentcity Through May 18 at Le Petit Theatre. Various showtimes. $22-87. lepetittheatre.com Gulf Coast Hot Air Balloon Festival Through May 3 at OWA Parks & Resort Festival Grounds, Foley, AL. Free. gulfcoastballoonfestival.com farmersmarket.org Doubt, A Parable
New Orleans Jazz & Heritage Festival Through May 4 at the Fairgrounds. $50+. nolajazzfest.com Swim For Brooke Kick-Off Party Port Orleans Brewing Company. 6-9 p.m. swimforbrooke.com
zoo-to-do Nature Explorers Big Branch Marsh National Wildlife Refuge, Lacombe, LA. 9:30-10:15 a.m. Free. fws.gov Red, White, and Blue Airshow Through May 4 at Monroe Airport, Monroe, LA. $15-30. redwhiteandblueairshow.com 03 SATURDAY 5th Annual Big Easy Crawfish Cook-off The Kamp, Harahan, LA. $20+. 1-5 p.m. patriotnationmc.com Family Garden Walks Weekly at Longue Vue House and Gardens. 11-11:45 a.m. Free. longuevue.com First Saturday Art Walk Magazine Street. 5-8 p.m. Robert E. Smith Library. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free. events.nolalibrary.org Swamp Lotus Forest Therapy Longue Vue House and Gardens. 10:30 a.m. to Noon. $25. longuevue.com Teen Kitchen Throwdown: Teen Pastry Class Algiers Regional Library. magazinestreet.com First Saturday Family Story Hour
titanic.com/new-orleans 02 FRIDAY Abita Brewery Food Truck Roundup
Abita Brewing Company, Tap Room & Gift Shop, Covington, LA. 5:30-8:30 p.m. Free to enter. abita.com First Friday Tea Time Longue Vue House and Gardens. 1-2 p.m. $30. longuevue.com Hancock Whitney Zoo-To-Do Audubon Zoo. 8-11 p.m. Ages 21+. $195+. audubonnatureinstitute.org/
Thibodaux Firemen’s Fair Through May 4 at Thibodaux Fire Dept. Fairgrounds, Thibodaux, LA. Free. firemensfair.com Titanic: An Immersive Voyage Through June 2 at Scottish Rite Temple. $23-32. expo-
Hacock Whitney Zoo-To-Do. See May 2.
11 a.m. to Noon. Free. events.nolalibrary.org 04 SUNDAY Crescent City Farmers Market Weekly at Tad Gormley Stadium, New Orleans City Park. 8 a.m. to Noon. crescentcity farmersmarket.org Free Family Sunday
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NOLAFAMILY.COM | MAY 2025 25 Maritime Museum Louisiana, Madisonville, LA. Noon to 10 p.m. Ages 13+: $20. Kids 12 & under: Free. maritimemuseum louisiana.org Mom’s Market The Music Box Village. Noon to 5 p.m. facebook.com/events New Orleans Ballet Theatre Presents: Giselle Through May 11 at Orpheum Longue Vue House and Gardens. 1-3 p.m. $85. longuevue.com Huey P. Long Bridge Run Bridge City, LA. 8 a.m. $45. hueyprun.com Magazine Street Champagne Stroll Magazine Street. 6-9 p.m. Free. magazinestreet.com Mandeville Food Truck Festival 720 Lafitte St., Mandeville, LA. 4-8 p.m. Free. facebook.com/events Maria Bermudez Flamenco Sonidos Gitanos Jefferson Performing Arts Center. 8 p.m. $40-75. NOLA Gold Rugby. 6 p.m. $25+. nolagoldrugby.com Something Rotten! Through May 11 at Rivertown Theaters, Kenner, LA. Various showtimes. $41-45. rivertowntheaters.com West Jefferson Family Fest West Jefferson Medical Center, Marrero, LA. 5 p.m. facebook.com/events 10 SATURDAY American Heart Walk Covington Trailhead Museum and Visitors Center. 8 a.m. to Noon. Free. www2.heart.org Garden Workshops: Mother’s Day Flower Arranging jeffersonpac.com Maritime Music & Art Festival
Longue Vue House and Gardens. 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Cinco De Mayo Fest. See May 5.
Crescent City Farmers Market
The October Nights: Calling All Lovers Tour Saenger Theatre. 8 p.m. $79+. saengernola.com WYES Goes Country & Western WYES Paulette and Frank Stewart Innovation Center for Educational Media. 7-11 p.m. $125+. wyes.org 09 FRIDAY KID smART’s Best Fest Zony Mash Beer Project and Courtyard. 4:30-6:30 p.m. Free. kidsmart.org Master P: Birthday Bash 4 Smoothie King Center. 8 p.m. $59+. smoothiekingcenter.com NOLA Gold vs Miami Sharks
Free. longuevue.com Remi Wolf - The Big Ideas Tour
Weekly at Uptown Square. 8 a.m. to Noon. crescentcity farmersmarket.org Shinedown: Dance, Kid, Dance Tour Smoothie King Center. 7 p.m. $55+. smoothiekingcenter.com Storytime at the Museum Every Tuesday at The National WWII Museum. 10 a.m. Free. nationalww2museum.org 08 THURSDAY Growing Up Part 2: The Talk Worley Hall, Manning Family
Orpheum Theater. 8 p.m. $39+. ticketmaster.com Tom Jones: Defy Explanation Saenger Theatre. 8 p.m. $87.50+. saengernola.com 05 MONDAY Cinco de Mayo Fest Lafreniere Park, Metairie. 4-10 p.m. $25+. cincodemayofest.com 06 TUESDAY
Children’s Hospital. 6:30-8:30 p.m. $20. manningchildrens.org
WEDNESDAY Music for Shakespeare New Marigny Theatre. 6-8 p.m. $40+. lpomusic.com 15 THURSDAY Infant and Child CPR Worley Hall, Manning Family Children’s Hospital. 6:30-9 p.m. $35. manningchildrens.org Leon Bridges: The Leon Tour Orpheum Theater. 8 p.m. $59+. ticketmaster.com Northshore Classics: Music for Shakespeare Fuhrmann Auditorium, Covington, LA. 7:30-9:30 p.m. $24+. lpomusic.com The Sleeping Beauty - Grand Kyiv Ballet
Mother’s Day Sip & Sail Sunset River Cruise
Jefferson Performing Arts Center. 7 p.m. $40. jeffersonpac.com 16 FRIDAY Mid-City Bayou Boogaloo Through May 18 on Bayou St. John. $39.50+. 4:30 p.m. thebayouboogaloo.com Something Rotten! Through May 18 at Rivertown Theaters, Kenner, LA. Various showtimes. $41-45. rivertowntheaters.com The Black Jacket Symphony Presents Jimmy Buffett Jefferson Performing Arts Center. 8 p.m. $35-88. jeffersonpac.com 17 SATURDAY 6th Annual Build and Boil Presented by Entergy 2831 St. Claude Ave. Noon. facebook.com/events ART&SOUL “Golden Gala” New Orleans Center for Creative Arts. 6 p.m. $50+. noccafoundation.org Doggie Day Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Library. 2-3:30 p.m. events.nolalibrary.org Girls on the Run Spring Season Celebratory 5K Joe W. Brown Park. 9 a.m. $20+. gotrnola.org Growing Up for Girls Worley Hall, Manning Family Children’s Hospital. 10 a.m. to Noon. $20. manningchildrens.org NOLA Food Fest Congo Square Louis Armstrong Park. 1-8 p.m. facebook.com/events 20 TUESDAY Car Seat Fitting Station Manning Family Children’s
Theater. 2 p.m. & 8 p.m. $19+. neworleansballettheatre.com Sierra Ferrell: Shoot For The Moon Tour Saenger Theatre. 8 p.m. $48+. saengernola.com 11 SUNDAY A Special Brunch for Mom Le Croissant, Hilton New Orleans Riverside. 9:30-11:30 a.m. $50-75. eventbrite.com Mother’s Day Brunch at The Roosevelt The Roosevelt, New Orleans. $39+. sevenrooms.com Mother’s Day Sip & Paint Party Power Poe Studios, Kenner, LA. 7-9:30 p.m. $2-40. eventbrite.com
Paddwheeler Creole Queen. 6-9 p.m. $55+. eventbrite.com 13 TUESDAY NOCCA Foundation Concert Series New Orleans Jazz Museum. 2-3 p.m. Free. nolajazzmuseum.org The Wiz Through May 18 at the Saenger Theatre. saengernola.com Teen Volunteer Day Milton H. Latter Memorial Library. 4-5 p.m. events.nolalibrary.org 14
The Sleeping Beauty - Grand Kviv Ballet. See May 15.
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25 SUNDAY Billy vs. Elton: A Concert Tribute to
NOLAFAMILY.COM | MAY 2025 27 Symphony Book Fair Through June 1 at UNO Lakefront Arena. 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. lpomusic.com Billy Joel and Elton John Jefferson Performing Arts Center. 7:30 p.m. $35-75. jeffersonpac.com 28 WEDNESDAY Ryan Bingham and The Texas Gentlemen The Fillmore New Orleans. 7 p.m. $59.50+. livenation.com 30 FRIDAY Jean Lafitte Seafood Festival Through June 1 at Jean Lafitte Auditorium and Grounds. Fri.: 5-11:30 p.m., Sat.:11 a.m. to 11:30 p.m., Sun.: 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. $35. lafitteseafoodfest.com Washington Parish Fairgrounds, Franklinton, LA. $5-150. wpballoonfest.com 31 SATURDAY Killers of Kill Tony: Stand Up Comedy Sets Saenger Theatre. 7 p.m. $48.28+. saengernola.com Paws in Motion 5k Gretna City Hall, Gretna, LA. 7-11 a.m. $17+. litosdreamhomes.org Sensory Balloon Festival Through June 1 at Washington Parish Friendly Mornings The National WWII Museum. 8 a.m. to Noon. nationalww2museum.org
Jean Lafitte Seafood Festival See May 30.
Candlelight: A Tribute to Queen and More The Sazerac House. 9 p.m. $40+. feverup.com Gonzales Jambalaya Festival Through May 25 at Lamar Dixon Expo Center, Gonzales, LA. $5-15. jambalayafestival.net Something Rotten! Through May 25 at Rivertown Theaters for the Performing Arts, Kenner, LA. Various showtimes. $41-45. rivertowntheaters.com 23 FRIDAY New Orleans Greek Festival Through May 25 at the Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral. gfno.com
parking garage, 1st floor. 9-11 a.m. Free. manningchildrens.org Kulturabend - An Evening of German Culture St. Louis Room, Deutsches Haus. 7-8:30 p.m. deutscheshaus.org NOCCA Foundation Concert Series New Orleans Jazz Museum. 2-3 p.m. Free. nolajazzmuseum.org 21 WEDNESDAY Teen Volunteer Day East New Orleans Regional Library. 4-6 p.m. events.nolalibrary.org 22 THURSDAY
24 SATURDAY Artist Workshop: Painting New Orleans at Night Ogden Museum Of Southern Art. 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. $45-50. ogdenmuseum.org Arts Market New Orleans Great Lawn, New Orleans City Park. 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. neworleanscitypark.org Frankie Valli & the Four Seasons: The Last Encores Saenger Theatre. 7:30 p.m. $72.59+. saengernola.com NOLA Gold vs Utah Warriors NOLA Gold Rugby. 6 p.m. $25+. nolagoldrugby.com Teen Volunteer Day Algiers Regional Library. 2-4 p.m. events.nolalibrary.org
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