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MAY 2025 • ISSUE 418
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IN EVERY ISSUE 4 @BRPARENTS.COM 8 A NOTE FROM MOM 46 THINGS TO DO 54 THINGS WE LOVE 56 THE LAST WORD 58 SNAPSHOTS CONNECT 14 BOOK CORNER 16 CRAFT CORNER LIVE 20 MOM NEXT DOOR 22 THRIVE 24 FAITH 10 COMMUNITY 12 EDUCATION
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ON THE COVER 2024–25 Cover Kid Solomon G. is a bright, compassionate, and fun-loving second grader. After a trip to Uganda with his family, Solomon was moved by what he saw. On his own initiative, he decided to make a difference in their lives by committing to ongoing prayer and sponsoring a scholarship to help cover a student’s tuition. Solomon’s kindness and generosity are inspiring, and our future is brighter with him in it. FEATURES 36
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28 NAVIGATING STANDARDIZED TESTING: SAT & ACT 101 Standardized testing won’t be so intimidating with these tips. 32 THE COLLEGE EXPERIENCE: TIKTOK VS. REALITY Discover the unfiltered side of college life versus what we see on social media.
SWIM LESSONS FOR ALL AGES Splash into swim safety by taking swimming lessons and discover that you're never too old to learn. 40 5 TYPES OF MOTHERS- IN-LAW This offers a humorous take on the types of mothers- in-law. Which one is most like yours?
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a note from mom
M y husband loves to tease me with a line I allegedly said nearly two decades ago: “Let’s have kids—it’ll be fun!” For the record, I have zero recollection of ever saying that. I’m guessing I was temporarily sleep-deprived, caffeine- deprived, or just plain delusional. Fast forward 18 years, and here we are—knee-deep in the world of teen emotions, middle school meltdowns, and things I truly never saw coming. Nobody tells you when you’re holding that fresh-smelling, burrito-wrapped baby that one day you’ll be Googling things like “how to help your kid with social anxiety” or “how to explain ADHD to a 10-year-old without crying.” Spoiler alert: You’re going to cry. Probably in the car. Probably while pretending you’re just enjoying your coffee quietly in the driveway. What really hits you—somewhere around third grade—is that your child’s mental health isn’t just about school stress or screen time. It’s about the entire emotional ecosystem they live in… and yes, my fellow parents, we are the ecosystem. Turns out, those little eyeballs and ears are always on. Always. They see how we react to spiders (sorry for the screaming), to stressful phone calls, to that 43rd request for a snack. They hear our muttering when we stub a toe, and yep, they know exactly how often we say “I’m fine” when we’re very obviously not fine. And I’ll be honest—my kids inherited more than just my hair color and knack for sarcasm. They got a dash (okay, a dollop) of my anxiety. I wish I could go back and rewrite some of those early years—maybe pause before overreacting, maybe breathe more “Let’s Have Kids —It’ll Be Fun” (Famous Last Words)
and yell less. Maybe actually listen to my husband once in a while when he suggests I “chill.” (We’re working on that.) Now, as I enter the final stretch of parenting “children” before they legally become adults (cue nervous laughter), I’m trying harder than ever to show up differently. I’m managing my own anxiety with a little more grace and a lot more self-awareness— because if they’re going to learn how to handle big feelings, they’ve got to see it modeled. Do we still have meltdowns? Absolutely. Do we have fewer of them than before? Praise be, yes. We’ve learned to break up homework into chunks. We take breaks when needed. And sometimes we just admit, “Hey, this is hard, and that’s okay.” It doesn’t always go smoothly, but there’s definitely less crying— and not just from me. So, in honor of National Mental Health Awareness Month, here’s my little love letter to every young parent out there: Your mental health matters too. Not just for your own sake, but because your kids are soaking up your energy like little emotional sponges. If I could go back and whisper in my younger self’s ear, I’d say, “They don’t just watch what you do, they feel what you feel.” And also, “Maybe don’t scream about that spider—it’s just a spider.” But mostly, I’d remind myself (and you): It’s never too late to model calm, to apologize, to try again, and to live the motto I now say to my kids all the time: “Just go with the flow.” (And maybe have a backup plan for when the flow turns into a flood.)
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ADA-ACCESSIBLE PARK REOPENS IN PRAIRIEVILLE Pack your picnic basket with your kiddos’ favorite snacks—it’s time to enjoy a day at the park! The newly renovated Oak Grove Park has reopened in Prairieville, and it’s now bigger and more inclusive than ever. This all-abilities park features a poured-in-place fall zone, a wheelchair ramp for access to elevated playground structures, lower-level play features, a wide slide, and is fully ADA-accessible. It offers a safe place for kiddos to build friendships, make memories, and spend time with family and friends. Ready to go? Oak Grove Park is located at 37433 LA-42, Prairieville, LA. ■ ascensionparish.net
BURDEN WELCOME CENTER TO OPEN IN SPRING 2026 Ground has officially been broken at the Burden Museum & Gardens for the new Welcome Center—a long-awaited addition that will transform the visitor experience. The new facility will serve as the gateway to the 440-acre property, guiding guests to the LSU AgCenter Botanic Gardens, the LSU Rural Life Museum, and Windrush Gardens. It will also highlight sustainable stormwater management, blending modern design with Burden’s rich history. The Welcome Center is scheduled to open in spring 2026. ■ lsu.edu/botanic-gardens
Summer just got even better! Knock Knock Children’s Museum will now be open on Mondays during the summer, giving families and kiddos a fun way to escape the summer heat. Beginning June 30 and running through August 11, the museum will be open on Mondays from 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Knock Knock Children’s Museum features interactive and educational exhibits, programs, and resources for families to enjoy together. ■ knockknockmuseum.org KNOCK KNOCK CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OPENS ON MONDAYS THIS SUMMER
Our Lady of the Lake, part of the Franciscan Missionaries of Our Lady Health System (FMOLHS), has expanded its services in Ascension Parish. The new Our Lady of the Lake Cancer Institute St. Elizabeth Infusion Center brings life-saving treatments to the heart of the community, offering patients advanced care in a comfortable and welcoming environment. The state-of-the-art facility features 15 infusion chairs within a 4,109-square-foot space. The expert care team is dedicated to providing personalized treatment to all patients receiving chemotherapy, non-chemotherapy medications, or blood products. Designed with patients’ comfort in mind, the center offers both private and open infusion areas to accommodate individual preferences. ■ ololrmc.com/cancer OLOL BRINGS NEW SERVICES TO ASCENSION
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Lacumba III, the newest jaguar cub named after Southern University’s historic mascot, has officially made her debut at BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo. She is now on exhibit for families to stop by and visit. The name Lacumba, which means “heart of Africa,” honors the university’s rich history. Lacumba III’s name was selected through a community-wide voting process, where supporters could cast their vote in exchange for $1 donations to the Baton Rouge Zoo Foundation. ■ brzoo.org LACUMBA III MAKES DEBUT AT ZOO
REAL ID REQUIRED FOR DOMESTIC FLIGHTS Beginning May 7, 2025, Louisiana residents will need a REAL ID-compliant driver’s license or ID to board domestic flights or access federal facilities, The compliant ID will feature a gold circle with a star cutout in the top right corner. Travelers who do not present a compliant license or an acceptable alternative may not be permitted through TSA security checkpoints. Other acceptable forms of identification include a U.S. passport or military ID. ■ expresslane.org/realid
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EBR HIGH SCHOOLERS WIN AT SKILLSUSA
Students in Episcopal School of Baton Rouge’s ESTAAR program have been busy! Four seniors and six juniors traveled to Ruston, Louisiana, to attend the Louisiana Junior Science and Humanities Symposium, sponsored by the Department of Defense and hosted by Louisiana Tech’s College of Education and Human Sciences. The symposium is a statewide STEM event where high school students present their research. All four Episcopal seniors and one junior presented their projects to a panel of judges. Each presenter delivered an excellent presentation and skillfully answered challenging questions from the judges. EPISCOPAL STUDENTS ATTEND LOCAL SYMPOSIUM
The talented students of the EBR Career and Technical Education Center delivered impressive performances at SkillsUSA, a state- level competition between high school and vocational school students, held in New Orleans. Winners included Deldress Long of Belaire High School, who earned gold in the Electrical Motor Systems event. Silver medals went to Makayla Phillips of McKinley Senior High School for Architectural Drafting and Calvin Vanner of Liberty High School for Programming. Damarion Lacey of Broadmoor High School took home a bronze medal in Photography. Chase Chriss of Northeast High School also participated in the Photography event.
Scotlandville Magnet High School received multiple awards in its first year of participation in the Health Occupations Students of America (HOSA) Conference. HOSA is an internationally recognized student-led organization endorsed by the U.S. Department of Education and the Health Science Education Division of ACTE. Its mission is to empower HOSA-Future Health Professionals to become leaders in the global health community through education, collaboration, and experience. Among the school’s accomplishments: Miracle Poché was awarded Most Outstanding HOSA Member for Region 2; Coach LaDonna Washington was named Most Outstanding New Chapter Advisor; and Scotlandville Magnet was recognized as Most Effective New HOSA Chapter for the 2024–25 school year. SCOTLANDVILLE MAGNET ACHIEVES SUCCESS AT HOSA
Parkview Baptist School (PBS) fifth grade students attended the Louisiana Renaissance Festival, where their classroom learning was brought to life in the most exciting way. Through hands- on experiences with historical crafts, music, performances, and authentic recreations of Renaissance-era food, clothing, and traditions, students were fully immersed in the culture and daily life of the time period they’ve been studying. It was a day of discovery, fun, and unforgettable learning—connecting academics to real-world experience in true PBS fashion. PARKVIEW 5TH GRADERS TRAVEL BACK IN TIME
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St. Joseph’s Academy and Catholic High School’s Black Box Productions Company performed the 2012 revised version of Godspell in the Academy Arts Center Black Box Theater. Written by Stephen Schwartz and John-Michael Tebelak, Godspell is based on the Gospel of Matthew and explores current issues through parables and songs. Cast members used these elements to highlight the struggles and situations faced in today’s world. The show featured an exciting score, and audiences were both entertained and inspired as the cast led them through a wide variety of emotions using humor, creative storytelling, and poignant moments of sadness and loss. ST. JOSEPH’S & CATHOLIC STUDENTS PERFORM GODSPELL
Woodlawn Elementary School’s Art Department celebrated “Arts in Schools Month” by hosting a free painting workshop for students, parents, and faculty. The “Blue Dog Your Dog” arts workshop was a great success and a lot of fun for everyone involved. Attendees created paintings of their pets using colors they felt best expressed their pets’ personalities. The results were both colorful and creative. The event not only showcased talent but also fostered a strong sense of community. WOODLAWN CELEBRATES “ARTS IN SCHOOLS MONTH”
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W e love teachers! Let’s show our appreciation for the many wonderful educators in our life who have pushed us to be our very best with patience, optimism, and encouragement. Where would we be without them?
YOUTH Little ones will love these picture books about teachers who make a difference! Mr. S. by Monica Arnaldo This hilarious picture book highlights the many roles teachers play as a class of children enter the classroom on the first day to find the name Mr. S. on the board and a large sandwich on the teacher’s desk! As the day goes on and the debate rages about the possibility of a sandwich being the teacher, keep an eye on the window for another story entirely! Lila Greer, Teacher of the Year by Andrea Beaty As Lila moves to a new town, she worries about all the possible “what ifs.” Her new teacher invites Lila to help in the classroom, which gives her an opportunity to make friends and realize that the “what ifs” lead to new experiences. This lesson eventually carries her into her adulthood and inspires her own career choice: teaching! Because I Had a Teacher by Yamada Kobi This beautifully illustrated picture book
celebrates the many positive impacts a teacher has on their students. How will this unruly class make it through the school year? Find out in this chapter book! The Unteachables by Gordon Korman Anger management issues, misfits, delinquents, kids who’ve never learned a thing, that’s all this class is…and then they meet a teacher with an even worse attitude than theirs! When everyone has written them off, students and the teacher, can they find their own path to redemption? Kids will appreciate the humorous challenges of a first-year teacher in this illustrated graphic novel. Mr. Wolf’s Class, Volume 1 by Aron Nels Steinke This sweet and funny graphic novel follows first year teacher, Mr. Wolf, as he meets his wild new class. Watch out for chaos as personalities clash, show-and-tell gets out of hand, and a student even goes missing!
Learn about the true impact that a teacher can have on students in these non-fiction titles. Mary McLeod Bethune: A Great Teacher by Pat McKissack This wonderful biography celebrates the work and achievements of the incredible Mary McLeod Bethune, who not only taught but also fought to bring her students justice and equality from the classroom all the way to Washington D.C.! What Do Teachers Do All Day? by Emily Jankowski Mahoney Have you ever wondered what teachers do when you aren’t in class? This easy-reader non-fiction book gives a sneak peek into a few of the many behind-the-scenes tasks teachers do to help students succeed! TEENS AND TWEENS So often, teachers make a huge difference in the lives of teens, giving them confidence to face the world while staying true to themselves. Bluefish by Pat Schmatz Travis is missing his old home in the country, and he’s missing his old hound,
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Rosco. Now there’s just the cramped place he shares with his grandpa and the dreaded routine of a new school. But that’s before Travis meets Mr. McQueen, who doesn’t take “pass” for an answer—a rare teacher whose savvy persistence has Travis slowly unlocking the ability to read. And it’s before Travis is noticed by a girl, whose wry banter and colorful scarves belie some hard secrets of her own. Travis is learning about trust and connection that make all the difference. The Wednesday Wars by Gary D. Schmidt Meet Holling Hoodhood, a seventh grader at Camillo Junior High, who must spend Wednesday afternoons with his teacher, Mrs. Baker, while the rest of the class has religious instruction. Mrs. Baker doesn’t like Holling—he’s sure of it. Why else would she make him read the plays of William Shakespeare outside of class? Plus, he’s dealing with a bully; angry rats; and a baseball hero signing autographs the very same night Holling has to appear in a play in yellow tights! As fate sneaks up on him again and again, Holling finds motivation in the most unexpected places and musters up the courage to embrace his destiny, in spite of himself. The Skin I’m In by Sharon Flake Miss Saunders, whose skin is blotched with a rare skin condition, serves as a mirror to Maleeka Madison’s struggle against the burden of low self-esteem that many black girls face when they’re darker skinned. Miss Saunders is tough, and through this, Maleeka learns to stand up to tough-talking Charlese.
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Spring Bloooms & Blossoms
BY AMANDA MILLER PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM 8. Gently separate each layer of tissue paper, pulling them upward toward the center. 9. Adjust the petals until the flower is full. 10. To add leaves, cut leaf shapes from green construction paper. Attach them to the stem with glue. PRESSED FLOWER BOOKMARKS Materials ■Fresh flowers and leaves ■Parchment paper or wax paper ■Heavy books ■Cardstock ■Clear adhesive laminate sheets or contact paper ■Scissors Directions 1. With your chosen flowers, place them between two pieces of parchment paper or wax paper. Press them flat by placing them inside a heavy book. 2. Let them dry for 1–2 weeks. If you’re short on time, use an iron. 3. Cut the cardstock into rectangular strips (approximately 2 x 6 inches). 4. Once pressed, carefully arrange the flowers and leaves on the bookmark base. Be sure to leave space around the edges. 5. Cover the entire bookmark with clear adhesive laminate sheets or contact paper. 6. Press firmly to remove air bubbles and seal the flowers securely.
L et your creativity blossom this month with these flower-inspired crafts— perfect for sharing with loved ones or keeping as charming keepsakes for yourself. TISSUE PAPER FLOWERS Materials ■Tissue paper (assorted colors) ■Scissors ■Pipe cleaners, floral wire, or twist ties ■Green construction paper (optional for leaves) ■Ruler (optional for measuring) Directions 1. Choose 4–6 sheets of tissue paper in your desired flower colors. 2. Stack the sheets neatly on top of each other. 3. Cut the stack into a rectangle or square. For larger flowers, aim for approximately 8 x 12 inches. For smaller flowers, use 4 x 6 inches. 4. Starting at one of the shorter ends, fold the tissue paper stack back and forth in 1-inch accordion- style pleats until you reach the other end. 5. Wrap a pipe cleaner or floral wire around the center of the folded tissue stack. Twist it tightly to hold the layers together. 6. Leave a long end on the pipe cleaner to use as a stem. 7. Use scissors to round or point the ends of the tissue stack. These will be your petals!
FLOWER VEGGIE BOARD Ingredients ■Red and yellow bell peppers ■Baby carrots ■Snap peas ■Green onions or chives ■Hummus or ranch ■Other materials: serving platter and miniature serving bowls
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Directions 1. Slice the red and yellow bell peppers into thin strips. These will be the petals for two of your flowers. 2. Place three small bowls of dip in the center of your board. This can be hummus or ranch, whichever you prefer! 3. Around each bowl, arrange the veggie petals in a circular shape. The baby carrots can remain whole. 4. Place green onion or chive stems extending downward from each bowl to create the flower stems. 5. Arrange the snap peas along the bottom of the board to resemble grass. FLOWER SKEWERS Materials ■Green grapes ■Pineapple ■Blueberries ■Honey ■Wooden skewers ■Small flower-shaped cookie cutter Directions 1. Slice the pineapple into thin rounds, about 1/2 inch thick. 2. Use a small flower-shaped cookie cutter to cut the pineapple slices into flower shapes. 3. With a dab of honey, “glue” a blueberry in the center of each pineapple flower. 4. Thread 5–6 green grapes onto each wooden skewer, leaving about 1 inch at the top. 5. Add the pineapple flower at the top of the skewer.
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F or Louisiana’s First Lady Sharon Landry, family and community come first. Despite the titles that come with being the wife of Governor Jeff Landry, she remains deeply rooted to the joys of Louisiana life—family gatherings at the camp, casual meals on paper plates, and time spent on the Bayou. As a devoted mother, wife, and a leader in her own right, she is passionate about helping families thrive in Louisiana. Sharon Landry, First Lady of Louisiana BY AMANDA MILLER PHOTOS BY JASON COHEN PHOTOGRAPHY WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE FAMILY TRADITION THAT CELEBRATES LOUISIANA’S CULTURE? SHARON: My favorite holiday is Thanksgiving, because there’s not a lot of pressure. We go to our hunting camp, and the Landrys and the LeBlancs come. Everybody brings a dish, Jeff and his brothers cook the turkeys, and everybody’s together, visiting out on the Bayou and eating on paper plates. It’s really casual. It’s just about giving thanks for all that God has given us and feeling blessed. IF YOU COULD PLAN THE PERFECT FAMILY DAY, WHAT WOULD IT INCLUDE? SHARON: Usually cooking with the family out by the water. My son loves to wake board; also boating—either on the Bayou or at the beach—fishing, just being surrounded by family and friends. WHAT’S A FUNNY OR MEMORABLE PARENTING MOMENT YOU’VE HAD WITH JT?
Occupation: Wife and mother, and previously worked in the medical field Husband: Governor Jeff Landry Child: Jeffrey (JT), 20 Hobbies: Tennis, reading, service, and spending time with family and friends
SHARON: As a mother, you just hope that you teach them to be kind, to be good, to always give back to the community. You want them to grow up in a better place than you were, and that’s what Jeff's doing, that’s what I’m doing. We’re trying to make the state better. We want people to stay in the state. We want people to come home. Our whole theme of the inauguration was “Come Back Home.” We want to instill in them to stay here, to raise a family here, and the strong roots that we were taught. AS FIRST LADY, WHAT INITIATIVES SUPPORTING LOUISIANA’S FAMILIES? SHARON: When we started the Love One Louisiana Foundation, we didn’t want to focus on just one group. I wanted to reach across all of Louisiana on all its issues, because there are so many needs in the state, whether it comes to single mothers, education, health care, tragedies like January 1, or hurricanes for providing shelter and food. That’s why we called it Love One Louisiana, to encompass all of Louisiana. If something comes up and we want to help, we reach out and support them in their needs. We just started the foundation in January, so we’re just kicking it off. The tragedy on January 1 really kicked us into high gear, so we’ve raised money, and we’re working on getting that to the victims and the injured right now. ARE YOU MOST PASSIONATE ABOUT WHEN IT COMES TO
SHARON: There are so many, but one I can remember is [when] Jeff took JT, when he was five, six, or seven, to a hunting ranch in Texas. I was not there; it was a father- son trip. They had a pool out there and were redoing it, but they had put water in it and all this blue dye, and JT just accidentally fell in, and he came out looking like a little blue Smurf. So I said, well, that’s what happens when you leave them with the husband. They get free rein, and they love it. I’m sure it was accidental but intentional to get in the water and go swim. HOW HAS RAISING A FAMILY IN LOUISIANA SHAPED YOUR VALUES AND PARENTING STYLE? SHARON: I come from a family with five kids, and my parents were great role models and examples towards me and my family, as well as Jeff’s parents. He comes from four, and he’s the oldest. Me and my twin sister are the babies. I think [having] real strong family roots, being there, being present, teaching them to be good stewards of the state and to always give back to the community, and to leave the state better than we found it [is important.] You always want to give your kids more than you had and to remind them to give back and help a community in service. WHAT LESSONS ABOUT KINDNESS AND COMMUNITY DO YOU HOPE TO PASS ON TO JT?
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SHARON: That they have a safe community, where they have opportunities and can reach their goals, no matter what background they come from, and that they feel loved.
we’re still doing that. He’s in college now, and so I was always home. When Jeff considered running for governor, I asked him to wait until JT graduated high school, because I knew in high school, Jeff would come in to play more. I always say I had him for about 15 years, and in high school, he needed his father. He needed the father figure, and so we agreed, and Jeff didn’t decide to run until JT’s senior year. He’s the most important thing in our lives, and we needed to keep the family together, be there for him, and [for him] to know that he came first. WHAT DOES “HOME” IN LOUISIANA MEAN TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY? SHARON: Home is back in Acadiana, back in Broussard, back at the camp. We have a camp in Catahoula, which is 20 minutes from our home in Broussard, so that’s home, and being either one of those places with family and friends, hanging out. The mansion is the work home, so we have lots of homes, and we try to make all of them as comfortable as possible and welcoming to everyone that wants to come visit. WHAT ARE YOUR HOPES FOR THE NEXT GENERATION OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES?
Rapid-Fire Questions Favorite date night... at home cooking on the back porch or by the fire at the camp. One word to that best describes your family... chaos. Favorite television show to watch... Friends. Favorite food... Cajun. Hidden Talent... dancing.
WHAT’S ONE PIECE OF ADVICE YOU’D GIVE TO FELLOW MOMS ABOUT BALANCING FAMILY, WORK, AND SERVICE? SHARON: Family is the most important thing to me. Being a parent is the hardest job you can ever have, and it always comes first to me: God, family, then your job. With Jeff working and traveling, my main focus was to be there with JT. We had one child and I didn’t have another one to try out; I have to get this one right. It was really important for me to stay home, be with him through school, and all his extracurricular activities, being a caregiver, a scheduler, counselor—and
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Strengthening Community & Changing Lives
BY AMANDA MILLER
T he Gardere Initiative was founded in 2006 in response to the rising crime and social challenges in the Gardere community. After Hurricane Katrina, many displaced residents from New Orleans settled in the area due to its affordable housing and the presence of family members already living there. However, tensions rose, and the area saw seven homicides in 2008. In order to “address the clash between the 225s and 504s,” the churches came together, establishing two annual events: the Back to School Extravaganza and Love Fest. These events proved fruitful, but the organization knew that in order to create
application, it asks, ‘What do you hope to gain?’ One of our sixth graders said, ‘Mrs. Murelle, I’ve been wanting to come to this program since I was in the third or fourth grade.’ He knew that once he finished the sixth grade, he would be able to work, and The initiative’s impact is undeniable. In the last 20 years, crime in the area has decreased by 70 percent. Young attendees have gone on to achieve success, and many students have remained with the initiative to inspire the next generation. However, despite its longevity, the Gardere Initiative still strives for growth and is seeking a larger space to accommodate the increasing number of children and families wanting to get involved. None of it would be possible without the compassionate team members behind the Gardere Initiative who have created a safe space for everyone in the Gardere community. Their love for the families and the community is the driving force behind the organization’s success. GET INVOLVED that’s how we grow them.” A LASTING IMPACT Volunteers play a crucial role in the initiative, and they welcome anyone willing to join to mentor, tutor, or simply show up for children in need. As Dr. Harrison encourages, “When we took the first step, then everyone else fell in line. Take your community back and make it what you want it to be.” For those interested in volunteering or sending donations, visit the Gardere Initiative online at gardereinitiative.org.
lasting change, they needed to do more. Dr. Murelle Harrison, Ph.D., the Executive Director, shares, “We always knew that if we really wanted to make a difference, we needed to be in the community, and we secured a place with the help of funding from the South Burbank Crime Prevention and Development District, and we officially opened where we are in January of 2014.” PROGRAMS & INITIATIVES Gardere Initiative has helped transform the lives of many families through their programs, all with the goal of addressing the social determinants of health that are affecting the families in the area. Cindy Sonbuchner, the Operational Director, shares, “We have an after-school program, as well as holiday programs when they’re on school breaks. We have an eight-week summer program in which we provide free swim lessons and enrichment activities. We also have a youth development program throughout the year. The way the Gardere Initiative works is that we really grow our children over time. They start at three years old, and they look forward to elementary school when they graduate sixth grade, because they know that they can apply to work in our summer program. We have monthly youth meetings for them and then hire about 50 of them to work in the summer. We also have financial literacy programs for adults and community events every month in which we bring resources and opportunities.” The initiative receives many applications, a testament to the incredible environment they are creating for these families. Dr. Harrison recalls, “On our
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Listen with Love BY SHERI WOHLFERT PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM
Our days are filled with noise, and as much as we’d love to tap the “mute” button on the world some days, since there doesn’t seem to be one, we’re left with the task of choosing which sounds get our attention. As parents, the voices of our children should be at the top of the list. We must make a distinction, however, between “listening” to those voices and “hearing” them. Truly hearing—not only the words, but the emotions and needs that accompany them—matters greatly. Here are some thoughts about quieting the noise to hear our kids. PRIMARY REASON Listening with love was one of St. Benedict's first rules of warm welcoming hospitality. He knew that one way to make people feel loved, valued, and included as children of God was to stop and truly hear what they were saying. HIT THE BRAKES Giving someone your complete attention for just a small blip of time can let them know that they matter, and sometimes that is the most healing balm we can apply to a sad, worried, or wounded day. IT’S ALL IN THE EYES Hearing involves looking! The extra feeling,
"Listen with the ears of your heart." –St. Benedict of Nursia
all better,” or “Even if you don’t have the words to explain it all right now, I’ll be right
meanings, and needs that might not be found in the words can be found in the eyes. Stop. Sit down, stand up, or kneel so you can make eye contact and see what they might not have the words to say. REWIND, REPEAT, AND RETHINK Ask questions if you don’t understand, such as, “What were you doing before this happened?” in order to gather some backstory and rethink things looking at it from their perspective. An event that may feel minor to an adult can feel like a catastrophe to a young child or a teenager. It’s always a good idea to sum things up and repeat what you think you heard to make sure the focus is on what really happened to them and not your judgments on the situation. HEARING CAN BE A FULL-CONTACT SPORT As much as we want to make things better, sometimes there just aren’t words to do that, but our presence can fill the gap. It’s okay to wrap them in your arms for a hug and say, “I wish I could make this
here when you’re ready.” EARS OVER OPINIONS
We aren’t always going to agree with our kids and they don’t always need us to tell them how we’d have done it differently. Learning how to be a great human is a process of trial and error, and our kids need to know we love and support them through both. The most helpful advice and opinions The Holy Spirit is the giver of words and wisdom. This simple three-line prayer can be repeated again and again to help us listen with our heart and offer the words that can truly help our children: “Come Holy Spirit. Come now. Come as you wish.” Let this powerful little prayer tumble through your head the next time someone wants to talk with you and God will guide what you hear and what you say. are served upon request. HEARING SUPERPOWER
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Navigating Standardized Testing: SAT & ACT 101 BY SANONNA AL TAWEEL
F or students, the idea of taking their benefits, how to prepare for them, and available testing resources can make the entire process much less intimidating and set students up for educational success. standardized tests can often feel daunting. However, understanding the types of tests,
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data analysis. Some questions require a calculator, while others are “no-calculator” questions. 3. Essay (Optional) The essay portion is optional, but some colleges require it. In this section, students are asked to analyze a passage and construct an essay that explains how the author builds their argument. The SAT is scored on a scale from 400 to 1600, with separate scores given for the reading and writing section (up to 800) and the math section (up to 800). The essay score is separate and is graded based on a rubric that assesses writing skills and argumentation. The ACT is structured similarly to the SAT but with a few differences. The ACT assesses students in four areas: 1. English This section tests grammar, punctuation, sentence structure, and rhetorical skills. 2. Math The math section covers topics such as algebra, geometry, and trigonometry. It is more focused on mathematical problem- solving than the SAT. 3. Reading This section tests reading comprehension, similar to the SAT, where students must
analyze passages and answer questions about them. 4. Science The ACT includes a unique science section that evaluates a student’s ability to interpret, analyze, and reason through scientific data and experiments. This is the ACT’s most distinctive feature from the SAT. The ACT is scored on a scale, with each section scoring between 1 and 36. The average of these four sections gives the overall composite score, which ranges from 1 to 36. The ACT also offers an optional writing section (the essay), which is scored separately. BENEFITS OF STANDARDIZED TESTING While standardized testing often gets a bad rap, there are significant benefits that these exams provide to students and schools. Measuring Student Knowledge and Skills One of the biggest advantages of standardized testing is its ability to objectively measure a student’s academic knowledge and skills. These tests provide clear data about where a student stands academically in comparison to national or regional standards. This allows educators to identify strengths and areas for improvement in their students.
Standardized tests are assessments that are administered and scored in a consistent, uniform manner across all test-takers. The goal of these tests is to evaluate a student’s academic abilities, knowledge, or potential in specific subjects under controlled conditions. They are designed to ensure that every student takes the same test, under the same conditions, and is scored according to the same criteria. THE SAT & ACT The two nationally-recognized standardized tests for college admissions are the SAT (Scholastic Assessment Test) and the ACT (American College Test). Both exams are used by colleges and universities across the United States to assess a student’s readiness for higher education, helping admissions officers make objective decisions about applicants. The SAT is broken down into three main sections. 1. Evidence-Based Reading and Writing This section tests reading comprehension and writing skills, focusing on the student’s ability to analyze written passages and answer questions about them. 2. Math The math section covers a range of topics, including algebra, problem-solving, and
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College and Career Readiness Standardized tests like the SAT and ACT are crucial tools in assessing whether a student is ready for the challenges of higher education. College admissions officers rely on these tests to get an objective measure of academic ability and preparedness. Similarly, many employers use standardized tests as part of their hiring process to assess job-related skills. Identifying Learning Gaps For students, standardized tests can help pinpoint gaps in knowledge. Recognizing these gaps allows for targeted interventions, helping students stay on Preparation is key to performing well on these tests. Here are some proven strategies that can help students get ready: Know the Test Format Take time to research the specific test you will be taking. Understand the format, timing, and types of questions you will encounter. This will allow you to feel more confident and less anxious on the test day. Make a Study Plan track academically. HOW TO PREP FOR THE SAT AND ACT
A well-organized study plan can make a huge difference in preparing for standardized tests. Set aside regular study time in your schedule, and divide your study sessions into manageable chunks. Practice with Sample Questions One of the best ways to prepare is by practicing with sample questions and past test papers. You can find official practice tests and questions through the test administrators’ websites. Take these practice tests under timed conditions to simulate the actual test experience and to help build familiarity with the content. TEST PREP RESOURCES Here are some of the best resources available to help students prepare for the SAT and ACT. Official Test Prep Materials Start with the official prep materials provided by test creators. The College Board (for SAT) and ACT offer free and paid resources, including practice tests, study guides, and prep courses on their websites. Online Study Platforms Platforms like Khan Academy offer free video lessons and practice exercises tailored to the SAT. Magoosh and Quizlet also provide comprehensive study
resources, including practice questions, flashcards, and video explanations. Test Prep Books Books from trusted publishers like Kaplan, The Princeton Review, and Barron’s are widely used for standardized test preparation. Copies of these books are often available to check out for free at your local library. Tutors and Prep Courses If you prefer one-on-one attention, consider hiring a tutor or enrolling in a prep course. Tutors can provide personalized help, focusing on your specific weaknesses. Study Groups and Peer Support Don’t underestimate the power of studying with others. Joining a study group or participating in online forums can provide motivation, helpful tips, and different perspectives on problem-solving. Standardized testing is a challenging yet essential part of the educational journey. Whether preparing for college admissions, state assessments, or subject-specific tests, understanding the types of exams, the benefits they offer, and how to best prepare for them can set students up for success.
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The College Experience: TikTok vs. Reality I f you’ve ever scrolled through TikTok’s #collegelife or #dormlife tags, you’ve probably seen the highlight reel of to experience everything college has to offer. Why not do it with a pretty GPA? BY MADISON VOORHIES PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM
questionable carpets, and communal bathrooms that make you rethink ever going barefoot. Sure, some students go all out with their setups, but keeping a dorm this pristine is nearly impossible— especially when you’re sharing it with a roommate whose idea of “clean” is secluding their dirty laundry and dishes to their side of the room. Expectation: Effortless Academic Success TikTok’s “studytok” scene is full of students taking meticulous notes in perfect handwriting, using pastel highlighters, and sipping matcha lattes while classical music plays softly in the background. The vibe? Calm, productive, and stress-free. Reality: Late-Night Cram Sessions and Academic Panic In reality, college academics are a whirlwind of last-minute cramming, panicking over forgotten deadlines, and bargaining with yourself about how little sleep you can survive on before an 8 a.m. lecture. Study sessions often involve messy notes, half-drunk energy drinks, and the crushing realization that you should’ve started studying weeks ago. Pro tip: Try to establish a solid study routine early on. If done correctly, you’ll have a full four years
Expectation: Parties Every Weekend, Social Life on Fire From Greek life ragers to themed dorm parties, TikTok makes it seem like every weekend is an endless cycle of fun, complete with neon lights, great music, and an effortlessly cool friend group. Reality: Some Great Nights, Some Netflix Nights Yes, parties exist, but they aren’t always the cinematic experience TikTok makes them out to be. Sometimes they’re overcrowded and sweaty, sometimes they get shut down by campus police, and sometimes you’d rather stay in and binge-watch a show in your pajamas. The reality? College social life is a mix of great nights out, awkward encounters, and plenty of quiet nights in. Not every college student loves a rager, and universities offer plenty of other extracurriculars to keep you occupied. Expectation: Instant Best Friends and a Built-In Support System TikTok often shows college students forming deep friendships right away— laughing in dining halls, going on
college life: picture-perfect dorm rooms, effortlessly stylish students walking to class with iced coffees in hand, and friend groups straight out of a sitcom. From aesthetic study sessions to wild weekend parties, TikTok paints college as an exciting, glamorous, and carefully curated experience. But does it really look like that in real life? Not exactly. While TikTok captures some aspects of college, it often exaggerates or omits the messy, unfiltered reality. Let’s break down the biggest differences between TikTok’s version of college and what it’s actually like. Expectation: Aesthetic Dorms Straight Off Your Pinterest Board TikTok dorm tours showcase string lights, plush bedding, color-coordinated décor, and spotless organization. Every inch of space seems optimized for coziness and productivity, making it look like a dream home away from home. Reality: Cramped Chaos with Questionable Air Quality Most freshmen move into tiny, outdated dorms with cinder block walls,
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spontaneous road trips, and having heart-to-hearts at 3 a.m. Reality: It Takes Time to Find Your People—And That’s Okay! Making friends in college isn’t always instant. The first few weeks can feel lonely, and it takes effort to find your group. With time, shared experiences, and some trial and error, you will eventually find your people. Editor’s note: I met my first college best friend in our dorm’s elevator! She noticed we both walked to the same science class every morning and asked if I wanted to sit together. The rest is history! Moral of the story? Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Expectation: Balanced, Productive, Instagram-Worthy Life According to TikTok, college students somehow manage to maintain perfect routines: waking up early, working out, making healthy meals, staying on top of assignments, and still having time for a trying to survive. Sleep schedules are unpredictable, motivation comes in waves, and “meal prep” sometimes means eating instant ramen for the third time in a week. College isn’t a perfectly curated routine—it’s messy, spontaneous, and full of ups and downs. The Verdict? College is What You Make It TikTok’s version of college isn’t completely false—it just leaves out the harder, more unglamorous parts. The reality is: College is a mix of stress and excitement, independence and uncertainty, unforgettable moments and everyday struggles. It’s not a movie, but that’s what makes it real. And that’s the best part. College isn’t about fitting into a perfect aesthetic—it’s about discovering who you are, finding your people, and vibrant social life. Reality: Chaos, Procrastination, and Cereal for Dinner In reality, most students are just embracing the highs and lows that come with it. Some days will be tough, but others will be incredible. The reality of college isn’t always picture-perfect, but it’s yours to shape. So go in with an open mind, take the pressure off trying to make it look like TikTok, and focus on making it an experience that’s meaningful, exciting, and uniquely yours.
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