spontaneous road trips, and having heart-to-hearts at 3 a.m. Reality: It Takes Time to Find Your People—And That’s Okay! Making friends in college isn’t always instant. The first few weeks can feel lonely, and it takes effort to find your group. With time, shared experiences, and some trial and error, you will eventually find your people. Editor’s note: I met my first college best friend in our dorm’s elevator! She noticed we both walked to the same science class every morning and asked if I wanted to sit together. The rest is history! Moral of the story? Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Expectation: Balanced, Productive, Instagram-Worthy Life According to TikTok, college students somehow manage to maintain perfect routines: waking up early, working out, making healthy meals, staying on top of assignments, and still having time for a trying to survive. Sleep schedules are unpredictable, motivation comes in waves, and “meal prep” sometimes means eating instant ramen for the third time in a week. College isn’t a perfectly curated routine—it’s messy, spontaneous, and full of ups and downs. The Verdict? College is What You Make It TikTok’s version of college isn’t completely false—it just leaves out the harder, more unglamorous parts. The reality is: College is a mix of stress and excitement, independence and uncertainty, unforgettable moments and everyday struggles. It’s not a movie, but that’s what makes it real. And that’s the best part. College isn’t about fitting into a perfect aesthetic—it’s about discovering who you are, finding your people, and vibrant social life. Reality: Chaos, Procrastination, and Cereal for Dinner In reality, most students are just embracing the highs and lows that come with it. Some days will be tough, but others will be incredible. The reality of college isn’t always picture-perfect, but it’s yours to shape. So go in with an open mind, take the pressure off trying to make it look like TikTok, and focus on making it an experience that’s meaningful, exciting, and uniquely yours.
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