belonging? WHAT creates
TERMS
PEOPLE CREATE BELONGING. Ever wondered why some people seem just that little bit more magnetic for you? That bit more appealing? Science tells us that these are people we see as having a ‘desirable personality’, in other words they have a personality with heart. KNOW THIS. Having similar interests, attitudes, values and social skills do help create connection, but they are far less important than a personality with heart.
WHAT IS BELONGING?
I belong here It is the feeling of being part of something where you are included and accepted. Somewhere you feel welcome.
WHAT IS YOUR PERSONALITY?
TRY IT NOW
My habits of being Your personality is not the whole you. It is simply the sum of your habits - your habits of thinking, doing and feeling that have evolved from your DNA and your environment and experiences.
And the great news is that your personality is not fixed from birth. Every day we can add more warmth and more kindness to our personalities and every day we can choose to show how much we like another person.
DO THIS
Lead with liking Be the first to show you like someone - try it with the next guest, the next team member, the next person you see. And guess what, science tells us they’ll like you straight back.
18 | ONE: PEOPLE CRAVE BELONGING
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