Heartist 2022 Book

THE LITTLE GESTURES THAT SHOW WE CARE Research has found love is shown in four simple cues:

-FREDERICKSON, 2020

The second is your frequency of using open and friendly hand gestures as you chat with them. Pointing or finger wagging doesn’t count. 2. Open Hands

The third cue is how often you lean towards the other person. 3. Lean

The fourth cue is nodding to show you value and accept them. 4. Nod

1. Smile

The first cue is how often you smile at the other person. No fake smirks, but a genuine eye-crinkling smile.

Used together these four cues are read by others as love. The more love we show, the more belonging we create.

Nod

Smile

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