Why do Children Keep the Abuse a SECRET?
Does not want to lose perceived benefits (e.g., gifts)
Feels like they participated in the abuse due to grooming and manipulation
Feels they will be blamed
Abuser is a family member or trusted adult
Fears judgment
Feels shame and embarrassment
“Didn't think anyone would believe me”
“It was my fault”
FEAR
Has either been threatened with violence or there is a threat of violence against his/her family, friends, and pets
They have been taught that their private parts are “gross” and that they shouldn’t talk about them
Believes that they are receiving love and acceptance from the offender
“Didn't want parents/friends to find out”
Does not think they have a safe adult to tell
Does not recognize that they have been victimized
Fears their life will change dramatically (e.g., fears family will break up)
Adapted from: protectchildren.ca
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