children feel more comfortable. Rather than jumping to conclusions, parents should focus on observable behaviors. The key is not to overwhelm the child with adult anxieties. “Our adult brain jumps three steps ahead when we get those worried thoughts,” she explains. Instead, ask simple questions and reflect on what you notice, giving the child room to share their thoughts without feeling judged. This approach fosters an open dialogue where children can express their feelings without fear of punishment or misunderstanding. The Role of Professional Support If parents are concerned about their child’s relationship with food, Dr. Hernandez advises starting with a pediatrician. A physical checkup can rule out or identify any growth or health concerns, and from there, a counselor specializing in eating disorders can provide support for mental health. Eating disorders often require a team-based approach, involving not just doctors and counselors but possibly occupational therapists, dietitians, or nutritionists. For children with sensory issues around food textures or smells, an occupational therapist might offer specific food therapy. A nutritionist can help reframe the purpose of eating, teaching children how
food supports their bodies. “It’s definitely a team effort,” Dr. Hernandez says. The Mind-Body Connection Mindfulness plays a significant role in helping children build a healthier relationship with food, and Dr. Hernandez sees it as a valuable tool in eating disorder treatment. “Mindfulness is paying attention in the present moment,” she explains. It can help children recognize patterns, like whether they’re eating because they’re hungry or because they’re bored, anxious, or overwhelmed. Mindfulness practices, like mindful eating or breathing exercises, can also support the mental health tools children learn in therapy. For example, by reflecting on how certain foods make them feel physically and emotionally, children can gain insights into their eating habits. Dr. Hernandez also encourages parents to model these mindful behaviors, such as narrating their own experiences with trying new foods. Children struggling with body image or eating habits often carry shame or embarrassment. To address this, Dr. Hernandez also recommends cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which helps children understand the connection between their thoughts, feelings, and
behaviors. CBT teaches children to challenge negative thoughts and replace them with healthier, more realistic perspectives. Another way to foster a healthy relationship with food is to make mealtimes positive family experiences. Dr. Hernandez suggests involving children in meal preparation, putting on music, and creating space for meaningful conversation at the table. “Use mealtime to connect— talk about the best parts of your day or the not-so-good parts,” she advises. Navigating your child’s eating disorder can be challenging, but early recognition and intervention are crucial for their recovery and long-term health. As parents, understanding the signs and symptoms of eating disorders and approaching conversations with care can make all the difference. Remember, you don't have to face this journey alone–seeking professional help from pediatricians, counselors, or nutritionists can provide the support your child needs to develop a healthier relationship with food. If you notice changes in your child’s eating habits or body image, reach out to a healthcare professional. Early action can pave the way to healing and a brighter future for your child.
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