RESPA SECTION 8 AND THE DIGITAL AGE M ortgage lending runs on relationships. Lunches with agents, happy hours, closing photos and friendly social media posts between mortgage loan originators (MLOs) and real estate agents all feel normal. They feel harmless. Often, they are.
But regulators see these moments very differently. While the industry sees friendships, regulators see patterns. Where the industry sees networking, regulators see influ- ence. And once money keeps flowing in one direction, their attention follows it. A single like on a social media post feels tiny. One little tap. Harmless. Nobody is getting hauled into a regulatory review over a single emoji. But regulators do not look at one action. They look at the trail it leaves. One like is nothing. Two likes are still nothing. But 50 likes between the same MLO and the same agent on posts about clos- ings, referrals and “best MLO ever” moments stop being innocent. Patterns speak louder than intentions. It is the digital version of a perfume trail on a jacket, a scrunchie left in the passenger seat or lipstick on a collar. One clue means nothing. But a whole set of clues tells a story. In the eyes of examiners, repeated likes become a “thing of value” because they show attention, signal endorse- ment and create influence. A single like is harmless. A trail of likes is evidence. And regulators are very good at following evidence. It follows the same rhythm as Bobby and Susie in high school. Bobby and Susie start getting cozy and smoochy because they think nobody is watching. But that is never how it works. The moment it happens twice, everyone sees it. And by the third time, the entire school has already decided they are a couple.
Regulators read digital behavior the same way. They do not focus on the first interaction. They focus on what it becomes, especially when it happens in the open. The internet puts everything in the open. It shines a bright light on every pattern. Everything is visible, traceable and recordable. This is exactly why an old saying still matters: “While swinging on the garden gate, love may be blind but the neighbors ain’t.” Regulators are the neighbors, and they notice the patterns long before the people creating them do. Happy hour adds another twist. An MLO buys the first round. The agent posts a selfie holding a beer large enough to need its own flotation rating. The caption reads, “Another smooth closing with the best MLO around.” The drink is not the issue. The public praise following the drink is what looks like marketing. And when this happens every Thursday in the same bar, examiners take note. MLOs see friendship. Agents see fun. Regulators see a pattern that refuses to hide. Closing photos create their own headaches. The most overused one is the “family holding oversized key” picture. The key is always so gigantic it looks stolen from the front door of a giant’s castle. The borrowers grin like they just won a reality show, the title agent lurks in the background hoping to be cropped out, and the MLO posts it online as if posing with a novelty prop were somehow meaningful for housing finance. ⊲
By Michael Eising Chief Compliance and Risk Officer
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