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May | 2025 | Volume 6 | Issue 5

62. 411 Bougie Bites 64. THE MONTHLY MIX Graduation Gifts 66.

10. POLITICS A State United Against Hunger 14.

COMMUNITY Class of 2025

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TXK ROOTS Rachel Griffin

42. LIFE His Life in Every Note 50. STYLE Intentional by Design

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24. cover/CULTURE Life of TXK Photo Contest 2025 Winners 38.

ENTERTAINMENT Good Evening TXK

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Advice for the Class of 2025...

CASSY MEISENHEIMER Your GPA will not be on your tombstone, but your kindness might be.

TERRI SANDEFUR Don’t let school get in the way of your education. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. —Mark Twain

ALANA MOREL Surround yourself with people who love you, choose joy even in tough times, and be kind to yourself and others.

KARA HUMPHREY Commit to the Lord

whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. —Proverbs 16:3

MATT CORNELIUS Experience teaches when wisdom is ignored. You don’t have to touch the fire to know it burns.

LEAH ORR Do yourself a favor and listen to the “Sunscreen Song.” It’s full of weirdly good life advice. Oh, and seriously… wear sunscreen.

BRITTANY ROBLES Master the art of introductions, don’t be afraid to fail, and travel as much as possible.

KRISTIN DAVIS Trust yourself, protect your peace, and go after what truly matters to you, not what others expect.

ALLY EVANS Be yourself,

ANGELA EVANS Protect your reputation and your peace. Both are hard to rebuild once damaged.

BAILEY GRAVITT Don’t rush to have it all figured out. You won’t. And even if you do figure it out, you’ll change.

TERRI GRAVITT Be willing to step out of your comfort zone if you want to grow.

unapologetically. The world adjusts to authenticity more than perfection.

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M ay has arrived, bringing warmer days and offering a special opportunity to honor some remarkable people—moms, teachers, nurses, and graduates. These individuals help shape our lives, and it is fitting that we pause to recognize their impact. Speaking from personal experience, being a mom is easily the most rewarding (and occasionally humbling) adventure life has given me. My own journey into motherhood began differently than I ever imagined, marked by the unexpected loss of my first son. This experience deepened my appreciation for the title of “mom.” There is nothing quite like hearing my boys call me “mom” and navigating all the chaos, noise, and occasional eye-rolls that come with raising teen boys. Motherhood is a calling that stretches and strengthens us in ways we never imagined. I often think of Proverbs 31:28, “Her children rise up and call her blessed,” as a reminder of the quiet, steady impact moms make day after day. To every mom reading this, your efforts may sometimes feel unseen, but they are building something lasting and beautiful. Just as we celebrate mothers, it is also time to congratulate our graduates. I have several friends whose kiddos are graduating this year, and seeing these “babies” all grown up and preparing to launch into the world

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makes me teary-eyed. It is with bittersweet joy we watch them become exactly who they were meant to be, while realizing just how quickly the years pass. I know I will be there soon with my own boys, and I am already bracing myself. Somehow, these kids grew up on me when I wasn’t looking. I am cheering loudly for each of them as they enter their next chapter, which is full of potential and hope. The future is wide open, and I can’t wait to see where their paths lead. This month’s issue is packed with stories that truly reflect the heart of our community. The entries in our Life in TXK photo contest blew me away—especially the shot of pelicans at Wright Patman Lake. Who knew we had National Geographic- level beauty right in our backyard? We are also honored to share a touching tribute to the beloved Ed Grissom, whose legacy has left a lasting impression on many in our local music scene. You will also find our local monthly favorite, Bailey Gravitt, a beautifully designed home full of character, and a recipe in 411 you will want to keep. We got a taste at the photoshoot, and I’m telling you, it is hands-down the best chicken salad I have ever had. Thank you, as always, for reading, and remember to shop local!

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A STATE UNITED AGAINST HUNGER BY ARKANSAS STATE REPRESENTATIVE CAROL DALBY

A s your representative, one of my top priorities is to ensure that every Arkansan has access to the food they need to live healthy and fulfilling lives. In our great state, more than 567,000 people, about 18.6% of our population, experience food insecurity, meaning they don’t always know where their next meal is coming from. Tragically, this includes nearly one in four of our children. Our state’s food insecurity rate is the second highest in the nation, and it’s been steadily increasing since 2020. This issue is both pressing and personal, and the General Assembly is working hard to address it. As legislators, we understand that hunger is not just a matter of food—it’s a matter of health, education, and overall well-being. To that end, we have been working on a range of legislative actions to reduce food insecurity and improve access to nutritious food. Below are some of the key pieces of legislation that we are pushing

grocery taxes, so local governments can still fund vital services. However, this legislation is a step in the right direction by helping to make groceries more affordable for all Arkansas residents. The bill has been assigned to the House Revenue and Taxation Committee, and we are hopeful it will move forward quickly. The Good Neighbor Act: HB1682 A critical part of fighting hunger is ensuring that food donations flow smoothly from donors to food banks, which play a pivotal role in getting food to those in need. This is why we have introduced HB1682, the Good Neighbor Act. This bill would expand liability protections for food donors, including retail grocers, wholesalers, hotels, motels, restaurants, caterers, farmers, nonprofit food distributors, schools, churches, religious organizations, and hospitals. These protections ensure donors are shielded from legal repercussions when donating food in good faith to food banks or other charitable organizations. Food banks are lifelines for many Arkansans, and we want to encourage more donations to these organizations. By expanding liability protections, the Good Neighbor Act helps ensure that more nutritious food can be safely distributed to those who need it most. This bill has been assigned to the House Public Health, Welfare, and Labor Committee for review, and we are working diligently to get it passed. Free Breakfast for Students: Act 123 We know that children who are well-nourished are better equipped to succeed academically. Studies consistently show that

forward to combat hunger in Arkansas. Eliminating the Grocery Tax: HB1685

A major step forward in addressing hunger is reducing the burden of living costs on Arkansas families. In this session, we introduced HB1685, which aims to eliminate the state’s 0.125% sales tax on groceries. Govenor Sarah Huckabee Sanders recently announced this bill, which would return approximately $10.9 million annually to Arkansas taxpayers. For families who are already struggling to make ends meet, this tax break will ease the pressure on their grocery bills. Although this bill will provide relief to many families, it’s important to note that it does not affect county and municipal

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students who eat a healthy breakfast perform better on standardized tests and have higher overall academic achievement. To support our children, we passed Act 123 this session, which guarantees that every student in Arkansas will receive a free breakfast, regardless of whether they qualify for free or reduced-price meals under federal law. This legislation is already signed into law and will help ensure that no child starts their school day hungry. Act 123 is made possible by repurposing medical marijuana tax revenue to fund Arkansas’ free breakfast and lunch programs, as well as the Summer Electronic Benefits Transfer (EBT) program. In fact, Governor Sanders recently announced that the Summer EBT program will continue this year after serving nearly a quarter of a million children last summer. By providing nutritious meals year-round, we are helping to ensure that Arkansas students don’t

Additionally, Act 125 expands opportunities for small farmers by allowing the sale of unpasteurized milk at farmers’ markets or through direct delivery from the farm. This bill supports local farmers and helps diversify food options for Arkansas families, making it easier for them to access nutritious food produced close to home. A State United Against Hunger These legislative efforts are just the beginning. As we work through the 2025 session, our focus on addressing hunger in Arkansas remains a top priority. I’m proud to be part of a General Assembly that is taking meaningful action to tackle food insecurity and improve access to healthy food for all our residents. From eliminating the grocery tax to supporting food banks and local farmers, we are committed to making real progress in the fight against hunger. However, hunger is not a problem that

have to worry about where their next meal is coming from, allowing them to focus on their education and personal growth. Supporting Local Food Freedom: HB1149 and Act 125 We also recognize the importance of supporting local food production and ensuring that Arkansans can have greater access to fresh, locally grown food. This year, we passed two Food Freedom bills that empower Arkansas families and farmers to grow, sell, and access food more easily. HB1149 prevents counties and municipalities from imposing regulations on vegetable gardens located on residential properties. This bill upholds the rights of homeowners to grow their own food without unnecessary restrictions, helping to reduce food insecurity at the local level. Whether it’s a small garden or a larger community initiative, these efforts to grow fresh produce are vital for communities looking to fight hunger.

can be solved solely through legislation. I always look forward to working with Serving Up Solutions, an annual event where legislators serve meals prepared by Arkansas’ most talented chefs and bring together individuals committed to making a tangible impact. The proceeds go toward supporting the Hunger Alliance’s programs, providing essential grants to food pantries and food banks. Food insecurity is a challenge that requires community engagement, cooperation, and collective effort. If you are in need of assistance, I encourage you to reach out to local food banks, such as the Harvest Regional Food Bank, schools, and community organizations that are working tirelessly to help Arkansans in need. Together, we can build a stronger, healthier, and more prosperous state where no one goes hungry.

Arkansas State Representative Carol Dalby

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NAME Eric Ethridge AGE 41 DAY JOB Media Manager, City of Texarkana, Arkansas CAMERA Panasonic Lumix GH6

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OVERALL WINNER (ON THE COVER) This year’s overall winner captures a breathtaking moment of nature in motion—a stunning image of pelicans in migration at Wright Patman Lake. It is a reminder that beauty surrounds us in Texarkana, often when we least expect it. This photo stood out for its composition, timing, and the way it reflects the quiet wonder of life in TXK. With so many stunning pelican submissions, narrowing it down to just one was impossible, so here is a collection of some of our favorites. “Patman PeliKeys” by Eric Ethridge Prints available for purchase. Contact Eric Ethridge at eric449681@aol.com. INSPIRATION Wildlife photography has become my favorite hobby over the last ten years, but after traveling around the world to photograph African lions, grizzly bears, great white sharks, snowy owls, and other exotic creatures, I was thrilled to learn about the migration of the American white pelicans to our area—specifically Lake Wright Patman. This great convenience will allow me to photograph these massive, majestic birds every winter. I like to catch them at the spillway, where they herd together into very large groups. Even with the location being the same, I capture something different and unique every time I go—whether it is a different lighting condition or a unique behavior or movement that can make for a great photo.

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NAME Rodney Love AGE 70 DAY JOB Retired CAMERA Canon 50D

Night Photography Events, landmarks, people, and activities in the

Texarkana area that capture the essence of the city after dark. Due to low light conditions, night photography typically requires longer exposure times to capture more light, higher ISO settings, wider apertures, and manual focus for enhanced control and precision. “Texarkana Next Six Exits” by Rodney Love Prints available for purchase. Contact Rodney Love at 903-701-4731 or lovecanoneos@gmail.com. INSPIRATION I enjoy portraying motion in still photographs. I liked the idea of vehicles streaming toward our corner of the world.

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NAME Anna Haley AGE 18 DAY JOB Student/ Photographer CAMERA Canon R

Architectural Buildings, cityscapes, and/or landscapes, construction elements, architectural features, and facades in the Texarkana area. “Rust” by Anna Haley Digital downloads available for purchase at annahaleyphoto.com. INSPIRATION I wanted to capture the architecture that makes Texarkana so unique while also playing with leading lines and shadows.

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NAME Braylen Garren AGE 20 DAY JOB Creative Media Coordinator at Church on the Rock

Perspective Events, objects, locales, peoples, or activities in the Texarkana area that convey a sense of place. “Make it Rain” by Braylen Garren Prints available for purchase. Contact Braylen Garren at braylen.garren@gmail.com INSPIRATION At the time, I was a student journalist at my high school, responsible for covering school events. I observed the behavior of the student section as the night progressed and placed myself in a position to capture the excitement. My goal was to freeze the emotion of that moment in a single frame, and to capture a genuine moment of emotion while keeping the composition strong and intentional.

CAMERA Canon EOS 6D Mark II

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NAME Dr. Drew Morton AGE 41 DAY JOB Professor of Mass Communication at Texas A&M University-Texarkana CAMERA Canon Rebel T7i

Altered Image Photographs manipulated for artistic purposes by applying digital and/or traditional special effects (i.e., colorizing, toning, collage, photo composites, HDR, etc.) in the Texarkana area. “The Great Gig in the Sky” by Dr. Drew Morton Prints available for purchase. Contact Dr. Drew Morton at damorton@ucla.edu. INSPIRATION I got into photography as a teenager with a 35mm camera, and I was always drawn to capturing complex images— time lapses of traffic patterns, double exposures, and star trails. When I transitioned to digital in 2017 and took some partial eclipse photos, I realized how much easier this type of work had become and made a point to mark April 2024 on my calendar. I had never experienced a total eclipse before, and I practiced for a couple of weeks beforehand to make sure I was ready. The persistent clouds were the most frustrating part, but—as you can see—it all worked out in the end!

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HONORABLE MENTIONS These standout shots may not have taken home the top prize, but they left a lasting impression with their creativity, perspective, and vision.

(clockwise from top left) “Then and Now” by Nick Duke “The Historic 1894 Sign” by Kayleigh Moreland “Dancing with Light” by Braylen Garren “The Sunset Caboose” by Brandon Stocks|BS Photography

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little-kid joy we all used to have. Sometimes, it’s good to get a little messy. March 2022—My Gangsta Leprechaun Era This one lives in my Hall of Fame with its massive gold chain, orange beard, and a grill that made my gums feel like they were being punished. Matt gave this shoot the full Y2K treatment. Think early 2000s music video vibes, so of course, I was living for it. Painful? Absolutely. Iconic? Even more so. June 2022—Olan Mills Throwback… But Make It Camp We recreated an Olan Mills-style glamour shot with Zoey the wonder dog. I had never even heard of Olan Mills. It ended up being one of the cutest shoots I have ever done. Zoey sadly passed away in April, but I am so grateful I got to love on her and now have this sweet photo to remember her by. RIP, sweet Zoey! July 2022—Making a Splash After about six plunges and some synchronized breath-holding, we nailed this shot! Matt was submerged with his camera, full scuba mode. That shoot took longer than expected, but I would do it again in a heartbeat! June 2023—Chicken Run Me Holding chickens. That is the whole story. Except they wouldn’t stay still. They clawed me. They screamed. I screamed. It was slightly traumatic, but I can now say, with confidence, I have wrestled poultry. April/May 2024—Fire and Forgiveness These two were different. April’s shoot featured a burning paper covered in words people have said about me—labels I no longer wear. The fire fell in my lap mid-shoot, and it almost turned into a real problem, but that chaos was also kind of beautiful. That ripped-paper effect for May’s photo, revealing my dad’s face inside my chest, felt raw, honest, and I would probably say it was the most meaningful photo I have taken. Healing takes many shapes. Sometimes it looks like a tear down the middle. Each month brings something new. Working with Matt, Kara, and Alana on these pictures is creative brainstorming at its finest, and this team lets me show every side of myself. That is what photos do. They freeze the moment but let the meaning breathe. Pictures really are worth a thousand words—and then some.

GOOD EVENING TXK COLUMN BY BAILEY GRAVITT

Every month, when a new issue of Texarkana Magazine hits the stands, I hear the same thing…

shoot of my first full year with the magazine felt symbolic—like lighting the fuse on something new. It was the beginning of this entire journey, and I will always remember the feeling of that night—excitement, hope, and a little bit of nerves. February 2021—The Bachelor... of Texarkana The flowers I was surrounded by in this picture were located in the back room of a funeral home. Yep—a funeral home. I thought the irony was hilarious. It was my unofficial Bachelor promo and maybe one of the most absurdly fun shoots we have ever done. November 2021—Turkey Hands & Nostalgia We painted my hands like you do in kindergarten and pressed them into paper to make a Thanksgiving turkey. It was silly, playful, and reminded me to hold on to that

“Bailey, the article was great—but that picture, though!” Hey… fair enough! I mean, have you seen the photos? Each month, I get to work with the one and only Matt Cornelius, who is equal parts photographer and magician. Somehow, every single time, we walk away with a photo that is fun, bold, and completely different from the month before. And, most of the time, the photo ends up saying more than I ever could. So, in honor of this month’s Texarkana Magazine photo competition, I thought it was only fitting to celebrate some of my favorite photoshoot memories—complete with grillz, chickens, and a flaming crotch. January 2021—Spark the New Year Holding sparklers to kick off the first

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May 3 Jeremy Camp—These Days Tour Perot Theatre 7pm May 9 Heather Linn and the Deacons Joe’s Italian Bistro 6 pm

May 10 Lane Brickler Redbone Magic Brewing Company 7 pm May 16 Jase Bryant Band Whiskey River Country

May 21 Stefan Prigmore Fat Jacks Oyster and Sports Bar 8 pm May30 The Jake Lung Band Fat Jacks Oyster and Sports Bar 8 pm

May 31 Charlie Farley Whiskey River Country 9 pm

May 3 10 Annual Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival Spring Lake Park 11 am-6 pm May 3

May 10 Community Yard Sale Spring Lake Park 8 am May 10 Cars for a Cause Car Show 5610 Richmond Road 10 am May 10 Mom & Mini Yoga Texarkana Yoga 2 pm May 17 We Do Recover Spring Lake Park 11 am-8 pm May 17 Rev for the Brave Armed Forces Celebration Texarkana Harley Davidson 9 am May 19 5th Annual Drive Out Hunger Golf Tournament Northridge Country Club

May 20 Comedian Mickey Bell First Baptist Church 6 pm May 25

Memorial Gardens & Texarkana Area Veterans Council Memorial Day Service Memorial Gardens 2 pm May 26 American Legion Memorial Day Service Miller County Courthouse 11 am May 26 Vietnam Veterans of America #278 42nd Annual Memorial Day Service Korea/Vietnam Memorial at 7th Street & State Line Avenue 11:45 am May 26 Texarkana Funeral Home Memorial Day Service Hillcrest Cemetery on Hwy 67 West 2 pm

Walk for Life 5K Spring Lake Park 7:30-11:30 am May 7 Annual Health and Wellness Fair Southwest Center 10 am-2 pm May 7 Chamber of Commerce Women in Business Silvermoon on Broad 9 am May 8 Texarkana Family Feud: Battle for a Cause Texarkana, Texas Convention Center 6 pm May 9 Downtown Live! Downtown Texarkana 6-9 pm

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Ed Grissom playing at the Perot with the Temptations in January 2024.

favorite song, stayed with those he taught sometimes long after they left his classroom. Now, Grissom faces the greatest challenge of his life—Stage IV glioblastoma of the brain, and even now, he leads by example. This time, his lessons aren’t given in a classroom behind a desk or a podium but in how he demonstrates courage and faith in the face of his diagnosis. Glioblastoma multiforme (GBM) is the most common type of malignant brain tumor in adults. It accounts for nearly half of all cancerous brain tumors and affects more than 13,000 Americans each year. Most often, it strikes between the ages of 45 and 70, with the average age of diagnosis being 64. GBM is aggressive, fast-growing, and notoriously difficult to treat. Symptoms often come on quickly and may include headaches, memory problems, nausea, vomiting, seizures, changes in mood, changes in speech, and numbness. While there is no reliable cure, treatments can help ease symptoms and prolong life. For Grissom, the symptoms began with fainting spells, dizziness, and a frightening sense of disorientation, even when he was in familiar places. “My wife and kids convinced me something was not right and took me to Texarkana Emergency Center,

Grissom has performed at local bars and venues for nearly 15 years, playing with numerous bands, including Stateline Avenue, T Town Five, and the Texarkana Jazz Collective.

It is a powerful truth, and we have all experienced it. We turn on the radio or create playlists on our devices just to hear that perfect melody that calms us, lifts our spirits, motivates us to exercise, shifts our perspective, or even takes us back to another time or place. Just as music stirs us, so can a person. For years, Ed Grissom has been that kind of person. As a teacher, he did not just educate—he inspired. He led with wisdom and kindness and a belief in his students. He changed lives, and those changes were not just measured by grades or test scores but by the confidence he instilled in the students he touched. His influence, like a Music can change the world because it can change people. ” —Bono

where I was met with compassion and urgency,” he explained. “I feel certain they saved my life that day.” Born in August 1959 in Malvern, Arkansas, Grissom was raised in a household filled with music. “My older sister inspired me to join the band in the fifth grade,” he said, “and from there, I developed a love for playing the trombone throughout my school years and into my adult years. I

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Grissom, the middle child, with his parents, Martha and Elvis Grissom, and two siblings. His family fostered his deep love for music.

Grissom’s family gathered for a photo on Mother’s Day 2022. (l-R) Jenna Blue, Addie Blue, Matt Blue, Trenton Blue, Kathy Grissom, Ed Grissom, Jessica Grissom, and Robert Beasley. photo by Kate Silva

wanted to inspire others to love being in the school band like I did. I wanted kids to find their purpose through their love of music.” Throughout his life, Grissom learned to play multiple instruments beyond the trombone, including the piano and bass guitar. “If I had to choose, the bass guitar would be my favorite because it has given me the chance to play in a lot of fun jazz bands around town.” After graduating from Henderson State University in 1981 with a degree in Music Education, Grissom began his 44- year career as a band director at Sheridan Junior High School. His path eventually led him to Texarkana, where he accepted a position at Pine Street with Texarkana Independent School District. There, mutual friends introduced him to Kathy, the woman who would become his wife. Today, the couple has been married for nearly 37 years. Together, they have raised two daughters, Jessica and Jenna, in a home filled with the same joy and creativity that music has always brought to Grissom’s life. “Growing up, our house was always full of music,” Grissom said. “My parents (Martha and Elvis Grissom) instilled a love for it in me, and I’ve tried to do the same with my girls.” Throughout his career, Grissom taught in various schools and programs, always leaving a mark wherever he went. “I have taught some of the best musicians in the Ark-La-Tex,” he said proudly. Even after retiring from Pleasant Grove High School in 2015, Grissom found himself called back to the classroom in 2019 when he was asked

to return to Pleasant Grove and start a jazz band. For him, it was an easy “yes!” It was a dream gig for someone who sees jazz as a way of life. “Jazz is more than just a genre,” he said. “It’s a way to express yourself through your music, and to know I would get to teach this lifestyle to students was very exciting to me.” He also added a guitar class to the curriculum. “There’s no better street cred,” he explained, “than being in high school and knowing how to play the guitar.” “I want to thank Pleasant Grove for letting me take this dream and run with it.” Just as a melody in a song can be unpredictable and take us to all sorts of unexpected places, so is life. Grissom’s diagnosis came and, with it, fear and confusion. “At first, I was scared and became depressed,” he admits. “To know that I have an incurable and inoperable cancer was the hardest news to accept. But over the past eight months, my faith has helped me move forward. Trusting in God’s promise to me has kept me at peace… I’ve accepted this diagnosis through lots of prayer—my own and the prayers from my community. I’ve felt the love through every one of them. My hope comes from knowing that I have been promised eternal life in my healed heavenly body. My encouragement comes from my family, friends, community, and students who have made me feel loved, appreciated, and remembered.” Grissom is especially grateful for his family. “My wife has been my rock,” he said. “She cared for me and held true to her vows to me, in sickness and in health.

Grissom and his wife, Kathy, on New Year’s Eve 1987, before marrying on June 19, 1988. Today they are celebrating nearly 37 years of marriage.

I am forever grateful for her strength. And our children have stepped up and held our family together. This was not the life I promised them, but sometimes God has a different plan.” Grissom’s daughter, Jenna, explained, “To care for someone who once cared for me is one of the greatest honors of my life. Spending every chance I get with my dad since his diagnosis, we have created memories I will cherish and hold close to my heart forever. I am so proud of who my dad is and how strong he has kept his faith. I hope that one day there’s a cure for

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In September 2024, Grissom’s family took him to his favorite spot on Little Missouri Falls.

Maylee Waddill, a student of Grissom, was gifted his favorite bass guitar, a gesture that reflects his commitment to supporting young musicians.

this awful disease, and that no one ever experiences the heartache it brings.” For Grissom’s students, his legacy lives on in every note they play. Maylee Waddill, one of those students, said, “Mr. Grissom has been the greatest inspiration of my life, and I wouldn’t be who I am without him. He saw something in me that day we met that I had not yet seen in myself. He passed on the beautiful, creative spark he has along to me. That’s the greatest gift anyone can ever ask for.” In a special moment a few months ago, Grissom gave Maylee one of his favorite bass guitars. It was an act that left a deep impression on them both. “I owe everything I have accomplished and will accomplish to him because he believed in a young girl who wanted to play music,” she said. “I am incredibly thankful to have met such an amazing, inspiring, talented, and gifted man.” Jay Sutton, the current band director at Pleasant Grove, shares a unique connection with Grissom. He began his career at Pleasant Grove when Sutton was a freshman, so Sutton had the rare honor of working with him as both a student and a colleague. “Ed Grissom has been more than just a band director,” he said. “He has been a mentor, a friend, and a true inspiration. His love for music and his students has shaped not only our band but also the hearts of everyone he has taught. I am

lucky to have had him as both an instructor and a colleague.” Through all the hardship, Grissom remains focused on what matters. “I want to be remembered for the lessons I taught and the music I played,” he said. “I want my legacy to continue through my own children and the students I’ve had over the years. I think they’ve done a good job so far. I find great satisfaction knowing that someone has a love for music because I helped them find it.” One of Grissom’s favorite quotes comes from the movie Dazed and Confused . “You just gotta keep livin’—L-I-V-I-N.” It’s a simple but powerful reminder to face life head-on, even when it throws the hardest of trials your way. Grissom’s story is not just one of a teacher battling cancer. It is the story of a man who has spent his life making music, not just with instruments, but with compassion and joy. That melody lives on in every student he has inspired, every song he has played, and every life he has touched. Though the tempo may change, and the notes may soften, the song still continues in the halls of Pleasant Grove, in the hearts of his family, in the students he has taught, and in everyone who has been blessed to know him. Because people, like music, have the power to change the world. And Ed Grissom’s music will always play on.

Shannon Sandage, Ed Grissom, and Russell Roberts, “The Dream Team,” recreate a photo from August 2006. The updated photo was taken during Grissom’s induction into the Four States Bandmasters Hall of Fame in January 2025.

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TEXARKANA MAGAZINE T ucked inside the brand-new gated community of Deer Meadow Estates in Texarkana, Arkansas, this custom-built 2024 home is a shining example of intentional design and modern elegance. Crafted by TDC General Contractors, this home offers the perfect balance of privacy and neighborhood charm. From the moment you step through the statement-making front doors it is clear that every detail in this home was thoughtfully curated. A neutral color palette, a blend of textures and tones—like exotic quartzite countertops—bring a refined richness to the interiors. The open-concept living, kitchen, and dining area serves as the heart of the home, where windows invite in natural light and highlight the home’s effortless flow. A custom-built dining table serves as both a centerpiece and a conversation starter, while furnishings from Four States Furniture and finishing touches like pillows from Megan Lucas Design Co. elevate the space’s inviting aesthetic. Much of the inspiration for the home was drawn from social media, making each space feel both stylish and personal. Every inch of this home reflects quality and care. It is a modern-day dream home—where luxury meets livability and design feels deeply personal.

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PROPERTY HIGHLIGHTS LOCATION Deer Meadow Estates in Texarkana, Arkansas

INTERIOR BLINDS Two Blind Guys

FAVORITE PIECE Custom-built dining table from Silver Dollar Woodcraft

YEAR BUILT 2024

FAVORITE ROOM/AREA The open concept in the living/kitchen/dining area—we love all the natural light it brings in.

BUILDER TDC General Contractors

STONE & TILES Southern Carpets of Texas & The LightHouse & Flooring

FURNITURE Four States Furniture

COUNTERTOPS Alpha Stone TXK—Exotic Quartzite

PILLOWS Megan Lucas Design Co.

PAINT Chris Williams Painting

FRONT DOORS The Design Center at Red River Lumber

PAINT COLORS Sherwin Williams Alabaster (interior & exterior)

FUN FACT Our oldest child was involved in a lot of the interior design choices. It was fun to see her creativity and personal style come to life throughout the process!

Sherwin Williams Before the Storm Sherwin Williams Accessible Beige

LANDSCAPING Ismael Moreno Landscaping

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BOUGIE BITES TEXT BY ALLY EVANS RECIPES BY ANGELA EVANS PHOTOS BY MATT CORNELIUS

Air Fryer Bourbon Caramel Pecans Boil 2 cups pecan halves for 2—3 minutes, drain and dry. Toss with 2 tbsp Torani Bourbon Caramel Syrup + 2 tbsp sugar. Line air fryer with parchment, cook at 330°F for 15 minutes. Let cool until crisp. BUILD YOUR BOUGIE BOX Add these fresh & fun extras. • Cheese cubes (cheddar, Colby Jack, or pepper jack) • Cucumber rounds • Mini bell peppers • Grapes & Blueberries • A cute little cookie (because dessert deserves a moment) Pack everything into a small cake box lined with parchment paper or a bento-style box for that adorable picnic aesthetic. It keeps things neat, travels well, and feels like a present you get to eat! So grab your girl, your glam, and your goodies. This spring, make memories that taste just as good as they feel. Stay snacky, Bougie Grubs

Spring is here, and it is picnic season. Sunshine, blooming flowers, and that soft breeze are calling us to grab a blanket, a cute outfit, and our favorite girl (hi, Mom!) for a sweet little outdoor moment. You already know I’m bringing the snacks. Nothing says “bougie bonding” like a charcuterie-style picnic box packed with fun flavors and pretty presentation. Whether you are doing a backyard brunch, front porch picnic, or park adventure, this menu is simple, fresh, and oh-so fabulous.

CHICKEN SALAD, TWO WAYS (because variety is the spice of spring) Bacon Ranch Cheddar Chicken Salad • 1½ cups shredded chicken • ¼ cup ranch dressing • ½ cup shredded cheddar cheese • ¼ cup bacon bits • 2 tbsp green onions Mix, chill, and pair with crackers or croissants. Spinach Artichoke Chicken Salad • 1½ cups shredded chicken • ½ cup spinach artichoke dip • salt and pepper to taste Mix, chill, and pair with lettuce cups, cucumber slices, or as a sandwich. SWEET & SAVORY BOUGIE BITES Goat Cheese-Stuffed Strawberries Cut fresh strawberries down the center. Fill with soft goat cheese. Sprinkle with crushed pistachios. Drizzle with honey.

Bougie Grubs is the delicious creation of mother-daughter duo Angela and Ally Evans. Angela has long had a passion for crafting irresistible recipes, while Ally is following in her

footsteps as a student in the TISD Culinary Program. Together, they blend tradition and talent to serve up something truly special.

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MONTHLY MIX Graduation Gifts

Graduation season is here, and it is time to celebrate. Whether your grad is finishing high school, earning a college degree, or completing a special program, this milestone deserves to be recognized in a big way. We have gathered some of our favorite gift ideas—from personalized keepsakes to practical must-haves that are perfect for celebrating the Class of 2025. Shop local and show your grads just how proud you are.

1. Jon Hart Shag Bag $112, Large Square Duffel $354, Grande Bag $40, Berry Backpack $174, Men’s Duffel $495, Pearl Keychain $40, ID Wallet $57, Lilac Lunch Tote $112, available at Give Me 3 Texarkana 2. Tool Set $59.99, available at Texarkana Ace Hardware 3. Filson Lockback Knife $105, available at filson.com/engraving available at Alexander’s Jewelers 4. Personalized Playing Cards $22.50, available at taylorbeachdesign.com 5. Lavender Thorne Release Anti-Anxiety Roller $18, available at Dreidel Home + Sundry 6. Custom Towels, available for monogramming at Sew Fancy Embroidery 7. Hulken Original Folding Rolling Tote Bag (Large) $130, available at hulken.com

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Where was your favorite place to shop in Texarkana? I should probably say Walmart for this one, right? Were you a Hawk, Leopard, Razorback, or Tiger? I’m a Hawk who became a Razorback (in college). How do you describe Texarkana to your friends? It’s a very special place where lifelong friendships are the norm. What do you love about Texarkana? No matter how long you’re away, it still always feels like home. What would you change about Texarkana? Make it closer to Fayetteville. What is your nickname for Texarkana? T-Town is the classic nickname. What do you miss about Texarkana? Seeing my friends and family all the time. What words do you live by? I have a couple…

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” —Mary Oliver

TXK ROOTS Rachel Griffin

“Find out who you are and do it on purpose.” —Dolly Parton

After graduating high school, Rachel attended the University of Arkansas, where she met her husband, Graham. They now reside in Fayetteville with their children, Nash and Poppy, and their dogs, Hank and Waylon. Rachel has spent over 15 years at Walmart, working across marketing, merchandising, operations, supply chain, and eCommerce. She was recently promoted to lead strategy for Sam’s Club, where she is focused on shaping the future of the member experience and driving long-term growth. Throughout her career, she has been especially passionate about innovation, having led pioneering work in autonomous vehicles, electric vehicle procurement, and drone delivery. Outside of work, Rachel enjoys exploring Arkansas’s natural beauty—whether it’s kayaking, hiking, or working in the garden—and spending time with her family and friends.

TXK Roots is Texarkana Magazine ’s forum to highlight and honor Texarkana natives who have accomplished big things in the world. These folks may have relocated, but they took the values, education, work ethic, and creativity instilled in them by growing up in this unique border city and used these qualities to blaze extraordinary trails. We asked them to share their thoughts about growing up here. No matter how far from Texarkana they may find themselves, we will always consider them our neighbors and we are proud to claim them as forever members of our extended Texarkana community. After all, “everyone is famous in their hometown!”

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