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Bolton Bulletin The December 2024
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Inheriting the Past AND INSPIRING THE FUTURE
Yes, I do have a few special items that hold deep meaning, many of which I inherited from my mom. I have a nameplate from my great- grandfather’s time as an admiral in the Navy, which sits proudly on my desk, and wedding rings from generations past. My daughter, Meagan, has already asked for our family piano, the same one my children learned to play on. Most of what I’ll be passing down are memories captured in posts, articles, and photos. Each year, I create a printed book of all the social media posts I’ve shared about my family and our experiences. I hope that, someday, these collections will give future generations a glimpse into who we are and what our lives were like. It’s my way of preserving memories that may one day bring our family’s story to life for those who come after us. These are much like the scrapbooks my mom used to create, filled with letters, photos, ticket stubs, and other tangible memories from events and activities. Today, with electronics being one of the most powerful ways to store memories, this is also a reminder of the importance of keeping them preserved in other forms. Sorting through all these memories felt like we were really saying goodbye to our mother. It wasn’t when she got sick or even when she passed away, but in that moment, we finally found a sense of closure. I realized these memories are a bridge between generations — a way to honor those who came before us and to preserve something meaningful for those who will come after. Saying goodbye to my mom was truly a bittersweet process, filled with a mix of laughter, tears, and quiet moments that brought her spirit back to life for us, even if just for a little while. In piecing together her legacy, I hope to do the same for my own children: to leave behind moments that tell them who we are, where we came from, and the love that bound us all. After all, in the end, these cherished memories make our family timeless and connect us across generations. -Ruby Bolton
Memories are a timeless legacy — they carry our stories, values, and experiences from one generation to the next and keep loved ones alive in our hearts forever. Last month, I shared that my dad recently remarried. After my mom’s passing, he was ready to find companionship for this next chapter and decided to sell his home to move in with his new wife. This brought my siblings and me together to sort through hundreds of years of family memories — our mom had been the keeper of family history, with treasures passed down from her own parents and grandparents. We uncovered letters exchanged between my grandparents during WWII, ceremonial swords from Naval Academy graduations, and jewelry my mom inherited from her grandmother. Each piece has a story to tell. As we sorted through everything, we could feel the care and significance our mom had placed on preserving our family’s history. It was as if she were right there with us, passing each item along for us to appreciate. The experience was both sad and nostalgic, but it also sparked a question: What will I pass down to my own kids? What will they value one day, and how will I preserve memories for them?
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CANINE COUNSELORS THE ROLE OF COURTHOUSE DOGS
they also greatly emphasize how schools treat their puppy pupils. To become accredited, a school must also employ humane training methods, have a valid health care regimen, and employ well-trained and evaluated trainers. The accreditation process is essential because courthouse dogs are only assigned to a handler after at least two years of training. If you think in dog years, that’s the equivalent of a Ph.D. in being a fluffy, adorable companion. Handling Business Once a dog has graduated from an accredited dog school, it is ready to be assigned a handler. The handler essentially adopts the dog and is responsible for housing, feeding, and caring for the professional pup. The handler is typically a victim advocate, forensic interviewer, police officer, or attorney, as they most often interact with people needing the dog’s expert care. Handlers also can’t have other dogs in the home who are overly aggressive, and most handlers provide support to the courthouse dog during off-hours. A secondary handler is typically necessary, as they can accompany the dog when the primary handler is required elsewhere. The Drawbacks Issues can arise if court employees or participants are allergic to dogs. Dog dander, a common allergen, can be on handlers’ clothing, making them a hazard to those with strong allergies. Care must be taken to avoid contact between handlers, their dogs, and those allergic to the animals. Similarly, some people have intense phobias of dogs; in this case, similar measures should be taken to avoid contact between the dogs and these individuals. The Benefits Courthouse dogs can seem alien in the stuffy courtroom environment, but their benefits greatly outweigh any breach in tradition or hindrance allergies or phobias may cause. They can help vulnerable witnesses regain the confidence to share their stories, no matter how difficult, and persevere through a challenging situation.
The courtroom can be an intimidating place. The formality, seriousness, and importance of our legal system — paired with potential trauma — can make it a challenging environment for those called to testify. Scared witnesses, victims of crime, and experts who are just having a down day can all have trouble when taking the stand. However, recalling a traumatic event can be easier with the help of a well-trained dog snuggled up against you on the witness stand, providing the mental nourishment to get through it. Courthouse dogs are used throughout the United States, providing an invaluable service often overlooked or unknown despite their noble purpose. They are professionally trained animals chosen from the most friendly and compassionate pool of dogs to provide reassurance in high-stress situations. Here is what you should know about these unsung heroes. Accredited Companions Not just any dog can become a successful courthouse dog. First, it needs to meet the professional standards. Only the friendliest and most adaptable dogs can cut it in an accredited assistance dog school. These hallowed nonprofit institutions are accredited by Assistance Dogs International (ADI), the world’s leading authority in the industry. ADI has been an integral part of the process since 1986 and only awards accreditation to organizations that meet its rigorous standards. While the ADI evaluates a dog school’s organizational operations, treatment of clients, safety, cleanliness, and compliance with legal regulations, “Courthouse dogs are used throughout the United States, providing an invaluable service often overlooked or unknown despite their noble purpose.”
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Picky Eaters
TAKE A BREAK
HOW TO HELP KIDS ENJOY MORE FOODS
No matter where you go in the world, most kids are picky eaters. According to a study published in Frontier, about 54% of kids are reluctant to try new foods. In the U.S., many kids will scoff at anything but peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. In France, it’s probably peanut butter and creme fraiche. And good luck getting Scandinavian kids to eat anything that doesn’t taste like black licorice or pickled herring! In all seriousness, parents everywhere have a similar problem. So, what’s the solution? Small Steps Kids go through many different dietary phases as they grow up. While frustrating, it is common for young kids to go through their “picky eater” phase. Some common tactics parents employ to counter this, however, are counterproductive . For instance, making kids eat everything on their plates can be stressful and make them even pickier than before. Instead, serving smaller portions is more helpful, especially when the foods are unfamiliar. Role Models When it comes to food, parents should lead by example. Eating together as a family and demonstrating how you enjoy the foods you are trying to introduce to your kids can go a long way to getting them to try new cuisine. While you’re at it, describing what you’re serving is a good idea so the textures and flavors don’t catch them off-guard. Introducing New Foods Building on the previous tips, introducing new foods, even in very small amounts, can help expand a child’s culinary boundaries over time. Even if the child does not eat the food the first time you put it on their plate, or even the fifth time, they will naturally become more familiar and comfortable with it. Studies show that you may need to feature new foods on their plates up to 15 times before kids are willing to try them!
Creamy Thai Carrot and Sweet Potato Soup Inspired by CookieAndKate.com
Ingredients
• 1/4 cup almond butter • 3 cups diced carrots • 3 cups peeled, diced sweet potatoes • Salt and pepper to taste • Cayenne pepper (optional)
• 1 tbsp coconut oil • 2 cups chopped yellow onion • 2 cloves garlic, minced • 1 tbsp minced fresh ginger • 2 tbsp red curry paste • 4 cups vegetable broth, divided
Directions 1. Melt coconut oil in a large pot over medium heat. Add onion, garlic, and ginger and sauté for 5–6 minutes. Stir in curry paste. 2. In a small bowl, whisk 1/3 cup broth with the almond butter until smooth. Add the mixture to the pot, along with the carrots, sweet potatoes, salt and pepper, and remaining vegetable broth. Stir to combine. 3. Bring soup to a low boil over medium-high heat, then reduce heat, cover, and simmer for 15–20 minutes or until the potatoes and carrots are fork-tender. 4. Blend with an immersion blender until the soup is smooth. 5. Season with salt and pepper. Add a pinch of cayenne pepper for more spice if desired.
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE
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The Gifts We Leave for Future Generations
How Canines Bring Comfort to the Courtroom
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Creamy Thai Carrot and Sweet Potato Soup
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Conquer Picky Eating
Hospital Loses Part of Patient’s Skull
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ANYONE SEEN A SKULL? Hospital Misplaces Patient’s Body Part
hospital scheduled the procedure to repair Fernando’s skull for November 2022, issues arose that made it impossible for the hospital to fulfill its end of the bargain. The hospital made errors when identifying the bone flaps and had no idea which skull fragments belonged to Fernando. Eventually, hospital staff
All of us have had to search underneath the couch cushions for a missing wallet or TV remote, or we’ve had to scour the mall parking lot in search of our somehow misplaced car keys. I would almost certainly lose my head if it were not attached to my body. Which, as it turns out, is why I definitely should not work
informed the patient they could not find his bone flap and, as a result, they would be unable to put the missing pieces back in his skull.
at one particular Atlanta hospital. In September 2022, the Emory University Hospital Midtown staff allegedly misplaced something more important than the contents of a patient’s pants pocket. Following his brain surgery, Fernando Cluster was horrified to discover that the hospital had misplaced part of his skull . What a Headache Fernando underwent emergency brain surgery after suffering a stroke and subsequent cranial bleeding. As part of the surgery, surgeons removed a portion of Fernando’s skull, known as a bone flap, with plans to reattach that portion of his skull after he healed from his surgery. While the
Suing Over a Skull Consequently, Fernando and Melinda Cluster have filed a civil lawsuit against the hospital. The Clusters claim the hospital’s failure to find his bone flap led to an extended hospital stay, increased medical debt, and undue pain and suffering. Not to mention, of course, the alleged negligence in misplacing a patient’s skull . If nothing else, the Clusters have a remarkable story to tell and, most probably, a large settlement headed their way instead of a fully functional brain cage.
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