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IN EVERY ISSUE 4 @BRPARENTS.COM 8 A NOTE FROM MOM 42 THINGS TO DO 50 THINGS WE LOVE 52 THE LAST WORD 54 SNAPSHOTS CONNECT 14 BOOK CORNER 16 CRAFT CORNER LIVE 20 MOM NEXT DOOR 22 THRIVE 24 FAITH 10 COMMUNITY 12 EDUCATION
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ON THE COVER 2024–25 Cover Kid Dynasteé J. is bubbly and determined and loves sketching, dancing, and spending time with her youth sorority, Beta Delta Tau, as well as her family. During the photoshoot, she felt like she could truly express herself and showcase her vibrant personality. The experience reminded her that she can accomplish anything she sets her mind to—just like the inspiring characters in her favorite movies, Legally Blonde , The Rookie , and Clueless . FEATURES 36
28 MAXIMIZING PARENT-TEACHER CONFERENCES Make the most of conferences with these tips. By Amanda Ciani 32 TRAVELING ABROAD WITH YOUR FAMILY How to experience international travel as a family with ease. By Julianna Steen
HOW TO BUILD A STRONG COLLEGE APPLICATION Advice for future college students on how to craft a standout application. By Madison Voorhies
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FINANCE COLLEGE Discover what FAFSA is and how to navigate the process. By Sanonna Al Taweel
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Crib to College: A Parental Survival Guide
R aising kids is like assembling IKEA furniture without instructions—you’re just hoping it turns out functional in the end. And if you think the diaper stage is hard, just wait until you hit the college prep years. Honestly, I’d take late-night diaper changes over late-night college application stress any day. The real madness began freshman year of high school. Apparently, kids these days have to build a “college resume”—as if surviving puberty isn’t enough. Clubs, volunteer hours, leadership roles—who knew getting into college was like applying for a CEO position? When I applied, my biggest concern was remembering to mail the application on time. And let’s not even talk about choosing a major. I was still deciding between Taco Bell and McDonald’s for dinner, let alone my life’s career path. But my daughter? She’s had it figured out since day one. Meanwhile, I’m over here trying to decipher FAFSA forms like I’m hacking into the Pentagon. Between dual enrollment, SATs, ACTs, financial aid, and endless campus visits, prepping for college is practically a full-time job.
That’s why we’re kicking off a new series to help parents navigate this glorious chaos. Sure, schools have college counselors, but guess what? Parents are often left out of those meetings, which means your teenager—who once thought eating glue was a good idea—is now making major life decisions solo. Starting the conversation before high school helps kids build their academic “street cred” early and avoid taking random electives that won’t help them land a job (looking at you, Underwater Basket Weaving). Am I emotionally ready for my daughter to head off to college? Absolutely not. Will knowing she’ll be local for her first four years help soften the blow? Maybe a little. In the meantime, I still have my boys to prep for high school, so I’ll be in the trenches for a while. And when that first day of college comes? I’ll be the mom ugly crying in the parking lot—while secretly Googling “How to cope with an empty nest.”
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JONES CREEK REGIONAL LIBRARY INTRODUCES NEW SEED LIBRARY Library patrons have spoken, and a new Seed Library is now available at Jones Creek Regional Library. Patrons can visit the Seed Library for free, pack their seeds, and grow their gardens, just in time for spring. The program allows everyone to freely share seeds, education, and resources with the community. Each Seed Library has a variety of seeds available, including edible plants like vegetables and herbs, pollinator-friendly flowers, and native plants. ■ ebrpl.com
GIRLS EMPOWERED BOOK CLUB LAUNCHES IN BATON ROUGE A new nonprofit dedicated to empowering girls in third through eighth grade has launched in the Baton Rouge area. The Girls Empowered Book Club offers dynamic discussions and engaging, hands-on activities designed to inspire a love of reading and personal growth. Founder Kellie Bynum Lathan shares, “Our vision is to create a culture of girls who enjoy reading and understand the value literacy adds to a successful life. We focus on five core values: Leadership, Communication, Social Impact, Career Focus, and Character Development.” The club meets twice a month—both virtually and in person—on Thursdays from 6–8 p.m. In-person meetings are held at Greenwell Springs Road Library. ■ gebcbr.com
SENSORY-BASED HAIR CARE SPACE
Madeline Johnson, MA CCC-SLP, speech-language pathologist and owner of Miss Madeline’s, LLC, specializes in providing haircuts to children and adults with sensory and physical disabilities. Drawing on her family’s background in therapy, Johnson combines her expertise in speech therapy and cosmetology to create an enjoyable and stress-free experience. Clients, including those with Autism, Down syndrome, and Cerebral Palsy, benefit from a patient and tailored approach that prioritizes comfort and confidence. Currently, she offers “Sensory Sundays” at Salon du Sud on Bluebonnet and visits special needs programs at local schools. Visit her on social media to learn more and schedule an appointment. ■ instagram.com/missmadelines.hair
NEW BOOKSTORE TO OPEN IN APRIL
Calling all book lovers! A new bookstore is scheduled to open early next month on Highland Road. TBR Books and Tea will offer coffee, tea, and books—creating the perfect vibe for any bibliophile. Owner Jamie Freeman wants to provide a space where the community could gather in a welcoming environment and explore their love of books. The store will feature a variety of book genres for readers to enjoy, including popular picks and even some that fellow community members suggest. So, if you thought your TBR (to-be-read) list was long now, just wait! ■ instagram.com/tbrbookshop
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Young gamers can now listen to KIDZ BOP 50 while playing Roblox! To celebrate the latest album, the kid-friendly music brand has partnered with Gamefam to bring its tunes to the popular Roblox game, Really Easy Obby . During this musical takeover, gamers can experience a new Certified BOP obstacle course featuring themed areas inspired by new music. As players navigate the obstacle course, they can unlock power-ups, like speed boosts, and collect special items for added fun. Gamers can also collect music notes throughout the course to earn in-game rewards. ■ roblox.com KIDZ BOP 50 PARTNERS WITH ROBLOX ’S REALLY EASY OBBY
COFFEE CHAIN COMING TO BATON ROUGE
Baton Rouge residents love coffee, and soon there will be another brew to choose from. Dutch Bros, a coffee chain founded in Grants Pass, Oregon, will soon open its doors on the north side of West Lee Drive. The proposed 950-square-foot coffee shop will include patio space but no interior seating, as it is drive-thru friendly. Known for its specialty coffee, blended drinks, and friendly service, the company has expanded its reach to 1,000 locations across the U.S. This marks Dutch Bros’ continued growth in Louisiana, bringing its signature energy and community- focused atmosphere to local coffee lovers. ■ dutchbros.com
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education CONNECT THE DUNHAM SCHOOL ADDS SECOND CAMPUS IN BATON ROUGE
PARKVIEW’S 8TH GRADE GIRLS BASKETBALL EXCELS
Parkview Baptist School’s Eighth Grade Girls Basketball Team is shining both on the court and in the classroom! With a strong 9–5 record and an impressive 3.8 team GPA, these student- athletes embody dedication, teamwork, and excellence. Their hard work, perseverance, and commitment to success inspire us all. They continue to grow, lead, and push each other toward greatness. Keep soaring, Eagles!
In August 2025, The Dunham School will expand, adding a second campus to accommodate the rapidly growing two- year-old program. The new location is close to the school’s main campus and is situated on Siegen Lane. In response to the need for a Christian academic program for preschoolers, Dunham expanded its offerings to include the program in 2021, operating at full capacity with a waitlist. The center’s relocation will allow the school to expand. Prior to opening, classrooms and playground spaces on the Siegen campus will undergo renovations. Early Childhood Director Morgan Barkas will oversee the new campus.
St. Joseph’s Academy senior Michelle Daigle has been named the 2024–25 Gatorade Louisiana Girls Cross Country Player of the Year. Gatorade Player of the Year is the highest honor in high school sports, recognizing the nation’s top high school athletes for their achievements on the field, in the classroom, and in the community. Daigle’s excellence has been evident throughout her high school career, earning multiple All-State recognitions and championships. MICHELLE DAIGLE NAMED GATORADE PLAYER OF THE YEAR
State Superintendent of Education Dr. Cade Brumley and East Baton Rouge Schools Superintendent LaMont Cole celebrated East Baton Rouge Schools’ successful implementation of state initiatives focused on high-dosage tutoring. Jefferson Terrace Principal Joy Watson emphasized the value of high-dosage tutoring, describing it as a “huge amount of prescription instruction directed toward students’ individual needs.” The instructional model provides students with approximately 120 minutes of focused support each week to help them prepare for grade-level content in both math and reading. HIGH-DOSAGE TUTORING RECEIVES HIGH PRAISE
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Glasgow Middle School recently participated in a large print book study conducted by Project Tomorrow®, a reputable education nonprofit, on behalf of Thorndike Press. The study revealed that large print books significantly enhance reading skills, comprehension, and confidence in readers of all ages and abilities. Students reported that large print minimizes distractions and improves focus, helping them engage more deeply with the stories. Erin Anding, school librarian and technology facilitator at East Baton Rouge Parish Public Schools, was surprised by the effect of large print on some reluctant readers during the study. “I did a double take, because I was surprised that certain students were volunteering to read out loud,” she says. LARGE PRINT BOOK STUDY CONDUCTED AT GLASGOW To enhance security at East Baton Rouge Parish Public Schools, school leaders are utilizing artificial intelligence. Superintendent LaMont Cole began testing the technology at four high schools in the area: Belaire Magnet High School, McKinley Senior High School, Scotlandville Magnet High School, and Woodlawn High School. Evolv Express’s AI-powered screening system uses radio waves to scan students for concealed weapons as they walk between two towers. The screener is used in more than 120,000 schools and various venues, including hospitals, theme parks, and offices. HIGH SCHOOLS IN BR TEST AI WEAPON SCREENERS
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W ho’s already planning their summer vacation? Encourage your family’s wanderlust with these books about travel for kids, teens, and adults!
YOUTH Help little ones learn about the big world with these picture books. Pig the Tourist by Aaron Blabey Pig the Pug is a menace, and no matter where he goes, chaos follows. Pig the Pug takes a vacation around the globe, causing destruction and mayhem with poor Trevor trying his best to clean up the mess. Will Pig ever learn his lesson? Sylvia Rose and the Cherry Tree by Sandy Shapiro Hurt A tree’s roots run deep, but what happens when that tree’s only dream is to uproot and see the world? Courageous Sylvia Rose enlists the help of her forest friends to fulfill a cherry blossom tree’s dream of traveling the globe, from the Eiffel Tower
It all started with a pig in a teeny hat. That led to the mysterious door. That opened to a secretive society. Sam and Evie will travel the world as they unravel the mystery of the lost map, missing explorers, and nefarious thugs that seem to find them at every turn. Kids will love reading this true story about competitive journalists and their exciting adventure. Nellie vs Elizabeth: Two Daredevil Journalists’ Breakneck Race Around the World by Kate Hannigan Join the adventure as Nellie and Elizabeth, two pioneering journalists, race against the clock—and each other—in a journey around the world. And in the 1800s, their only options are by train, by ship, or on foot.
to the Sydney Opera House. But are trees really meant to wander? What will your experienced readers find behind the secret doors in these chapter books? The Library of Ever by Zeno Alexander Lenora’s parents are off traveling the world while she’s stuck at home. Or so she thinks, until she discovers a secret door that takes her to a magical world where she can soar to the stars, travel to the future, and much more. But where there is magic, there is darkness, and Lenora must use all of her wits to face down the Nothingness that threatens to destroy her new magical world. The Explorers: The Door in the Alley by Adrienne Kress
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TEENS AND TWEENS Spark your teen’s spirit of adventure as they travel the world with these daring characters. 13 Little Blue Envelopes by Maureen Johnson When 17-year-old Ginny receives a packet of mysterious envelopes from her favorite aunt, she leaves New Jersey to criss-cross Europe on a scavenger hunt that transforms her life. Love and Gelato by Jenna Evans Welch After her mother dies, Lina travels to Italy, where she discovers her mother’s journal and sets off on an adventure to unearth her mother’s secrets. Heist Society by Ally Carter A group of teenagers use their combined talents to travel across Europe and the US to re-steal several priceless paintings and save 15-year-old Kat Bishop’s father, an international art thief, from a
vengeful collector. ADULTS
Adults will gain a wealth of knowledge and laugh along with Anthony Bourdain in this
comprehensive travel book. World Travel: An Irreverent Guide by Anthony Bourdain
Anthony Bourdain saw more of the world than nearly anyone. His travels took him from the hidden pockets of his hometown of New York to a tribal longhouse in Borneo, from cosmopolitan Buenos Aires, Paris, and Shanghai to Tanzania’s utter beauty and the stunning desert solitude of Oman’s Empty Quarter—and many places beyond. In World Travel, a life of experience is collected into an entertaining, practical, fun, and frank travel guide that gives readers an introduction to some of his favorite places— in his own words.
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8 St. Patrick’s Day Activities for Kids BY JANEEN LEWIS PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM
G oing green has never been food, culture, art, and tradition. Here are some ways to make it a blast for the entire family. so much fun! St. Patrick’s Day is a perfect excuse to celebrate
in shades of green. But green isn’t just for clothing! For fun, dye all liquids green— think milk and the toilet bowl water. Make your kids lime Kool-Aid or gelatin. Use face paint to decorate faces with shamrocks. Wear green beads and emerald costume jewelry from the Dollar Store. CREATE CLEVER CRAFTS For younger children, shamrock hats and headbands are easy to make, as well as rainbow-colored jewelry made with pipe cleaners and cereal or beads. For older children, mosaic shamrocks or tissue paper shamrock sun catchers are creative. Follow a “How to Draw” tutorial on YouTube to sketch a rainbow, shamrock, leprechaun, or Celtic cross. Paint Mason jars green and decorate with an Irish theme. Light them
up by putting battery-operated fairy lights or tea lights in the jars. A clover crown made with tissue paper or felt shamrocks is another fun option. Another easy idea is to supply kids with materials and see what they create! Material ideas: green paper, pipe cleaners, beads, gold and green glitter, glue, green and white foam cutouts, markers and paint, paper plates, felt squares of all the colors of the rainbow, and marshmallows. COMPOSE LUCKY LIMERICKS A limerick is a funny, five-line, one stanza poem. This nonsense form was made popular by English poet Edward Lear in the mid-1800s, but Limericks were probably named for the city and county of Limerick in Ireland. Encourage your kids to write
16 MARCH2025 | BRPARENTS.COM participate in the “wearing of the green,” dressing in shirts, dresses, and plaid kilts SHARE THE SIGNIFICANCE People across the globe celebrate the Feast of St. Patrick, the Patron Saint of Ireland, on March 17, the date of St. Patrick’s death. St. Patrick is believed to have been born in the late 4th century in Britain. When he was 16, he was captured by Irish raiders and taken to Ireland as a slave. Six years later he escaped and reunited with his family in Britain. After becoming a cleric, St. Patrick returned to Ireland. He is credited with successfully spreading Christianity in Ireland, where he started monasteries, churches, and schools. GO GREEN St. Patrick’s Day revelers usually
their own limericks. Visit poetry4kids. com for guidance. The website includes a free printable worksheet with the limerick rules and an example at the top, and lines for kids to write their own limericks at the bottom. FIND THE POT OF GOLD Plan a scavenger hunt with clues written on construction paper shamrocks. If someone in the family is skilled at writing limericks, they can craft clever clues. Scatter the clues around the house on a trail that leads to a black pot filled with gold candy coins. Split the candy among all the kids in the family so everyone gets a share of the loot. VISIT VIRTUALLY Even if you can’t go to a St. Patrick’s Day parade or celebration, there are still ways to soak up Irish culture remotely. Visit IB4UD at irelandbeforeyoudie.com and explore “10 Virtual Tours of Ireland’s Most Famous Landmarks.” See 360-degree views of cliffs, castles, St. Patrick’s Cathedral in Dublin, and emerald gardens and forests. CHECK OUT LIT UP LANDMARKS Since 2010, landmarks around the world light up on March 17 for a “Global Greening” initiative. Famous monuments and buildings lighting up green on St. Patrick’s Day include the Sydney Opera House in Australia, Sleeping Beauty Castle at Disneyland Paris, the Las Vegas Welcome Sign, the Great Wall of China, the Empire State Building in New York City, the Coliseum in Rome, Italy, and hundreds more. COOK UP SOME IRISH EATS St. Patrick’s Day wouldn’t be complete without trying traditional Irish cuisine. Allrecipes.com has several Irish recipes. Whip up some corned beef and cabbage, bake a shepherd’s pie, try your hand at soda bread, or slow cook Irish stew made with lamb chops or beef. If you can’t make a feast, why not delight the family with a dessert like white iced shamrock cookies? Or go decadent with Dublin Drop Cake, Irish tea cake, or Irish cream ice cream. Parents can top it all off with some Irish coffee. Make St. Patrick’s Day fun and festive, and start a new green tradition with your family this year.
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Shamerick Simoneaux BY AMANDA MILLER PHOTO BY JORDAN ARNOLD
Occupation: CEO of Paint and Jam, LLC; Mrs. Louisiana America 2024–25; and homemaker Husband: Mark, Sr. Child: Mark Anthony, 16; Aiden Michael, 13; and A’mar Auer, 3 Hobbies: Painting, going to the gym and working out, and dancing
20 MARCH2025 | BRPARENTS.COM and cleaning and all the things, I would have to say my village, and that consists of my sisters, my mother, my in-laws, and my husband. If it wasn’t for them, I wouldn’t be the super mom that I am. away, and if my village wasn’t there, I wouldn’t be able to do it. It’s not just a me thing, but in order to get that me time, so that I can jump back into my job of cooking S hamerick Simoneaux wears Mrs. Louisiana America, she balances family life with running Paint and Jam, a mobile painting party business that blends creativity, music, and community. She credits her village with helping her maintain her super mom status. With faith at the center of her journey, Shamerick is passionate about inspiring others to embrace their talents, follow their dreams, and create joyful moments. AS A MOTHER, ENTREPRENEUR, AND ARTIST, HOW DO YOU FIND BALANCE BETWEEN ALL YOUR PASSIONS? SHAMERICK: Balance starts with your village. I find balance, because sometimes I need to take a nap, take a break, and get many hats—CEO, artist, pageant queen, and mom. As the reigning
SHAMERICK: My mother is super fun, very silly, loves to dance, and very positive. WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST MEMORABLE PAINT AND JAM EVENT? SHAMERICK: When we did an event to give back to kids, that was the most rewarding. It’s just something about giving back to the community. Our motto is, “God created all of us to create,” so we believe everyone was made to be an artist, so no matter what your talent is. I just believe everyone’s an artist, and that was probably my most memorable, when we helped a nonprofit organization. WHAT ARE SOME WAYS YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND CONTINUE TO NURTURE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND KEEP IT STRONG? SHAMERICK: It’s about communication. If you don’t feel like today’s your day, you don’t have it all, or you need time, we communicate. We’ve had ups and downs, but I really feel like Jesus Christ was the glue to our marriage. Challenges come, but I really feel like communication was the key. If I’m not having a good day or he wants to question something, we sit down
HOW HAS FAITH PLAYED A ROLE IN YOUR JOURNEY?
SHAMERICK: I have an attitude that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. So with that, it’s just because of him that I’m able to do all the things that I’m doing. WHAT VALUES DO YOU HOPE TO INSTILL IN YOUR SONS AS THEY GROW UP? SHAMERICK: Always have faith. Always allow God to lead you. I’m raising boys so someday they’re going to aspire to be leaders, but I want them to know that it’s not about what they know and what they can do, but by God’s way, by letting God lead them. They’ve seen me through everything that I’m going through with the pageant, with my business; they watch their grandmother and their dad, and we all pitch in to help make this life that we have, and we’re very blessed. So I just hope that they see that and know God is the leader. IF YOUR SONS DESCRIBED YOU, WHAT WOULD THEY SAY?
WHILE RAISING A FAMILY? SHAMERICK: My advice to other mothers is to do it. A lot of times we overthink. A lot of times we find excuses, but if I told you the best part of you for your family is a full cup, because that’s the only way to pour into them, then what would you be doing right now? And no matter what it is, I need them to know that that’s why you’re here. That’s your purpose.
America, I could have just fallen out. I went to nationals in August and placed in the top 15 in the nation, which was a really rewarding experience. At nationals in the foyer was a flower arrangement of a peacock. I asked them if they had ever had the peacock before, and they said no, it was their first time. I had chills; it was a full circle moment. WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING PART? SHAMERICK: Having my children and husband witness my growth and how I’ve never given up. When I asked them [if I should do it], and they told me yes, I could have not done it, but I did it because they told me I could. So I said, I’m going to be an example for you, and then by doing it, and then winning? It was a bigger message to tell them never to give up. Have faith, have fun. Life is about creating joyful moments. Sometimes we’re happy, sometimes we’re sad, and that comes and goes, but when you have joy, that’s something from within.
and we make time. We put each other first. I know we have children and some people may put the kids before the husband and wife, but if we’re not one, then we can’t parent. WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO STEP INTO THE WORLD OF PAGEANTRY? SHAMERICK: In 2023, Miss Universe came to New Orleans, and I was in the opening number [dressed as] a peacock. At the end of that year, I said to myself, “I wish I would have done pageants.” I actually got an email [after] and it said, “if life happened and you’ve always wanted to participate in the Miss Louisiana USA pageant, this is your time.” I submitted an application and was chosen. I did not place or win, but I had a winning experience. Two weeks after the pageant, someone reached out and said, “I think you were in the wrong pageant. There’s a Mrs. Louisiana America pageant coming up in two weeks. Would you be interested?” At the time, I just wanted to have an experience of a pageant, but I said, okay, let me ask my children. Mark Anthony said, “I think you should do it.” So I did. When they said my name that I won Mrs. Louisiana
RAPID-FIRE QUESTIONS Q: Favorite local spot for date night… A: The Supper Club. Q: One word that best describes your family… A: Manifestive. Q: Favorite videos to watch… A: Pop the Balloon on YouTube. Q: Favorite food… A: Pasta. Q: Hidden talent… A: I can show love, serious love, to people who don’t like me.
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Turning Tragedy into Hope
BY MADISON VOORHIES
22 MARCH2025 | BRPARENTS.COM “We’re training them to pick up on warning signs from their peers, to trust their gut, and if one of their peers is struggling, to bring that to the attention of a trusted adult.” foundation is making a significant impact across Louisiana, particularly in Baton Rouge, through its Prevention in Every Parish initiative. PREVENTION THOUGH EDUCATION One of the foundation’s primary goals is to educate and empower young people to recognize warning signs in their peers. Through a partnership with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, the organization delivers mental health education programs in junior high and high schools. The program, titled “It’s Real: Teens and Mental Health,” teaches students how to identify warning signs in friends and encourages them to speak up. I n April 2023, Jordan and Lisa Tabor experienced the unimaginable—the loss of their 15-year-old son, Owen, to suicide. A beloved son, friend, and athlete, Owen was a sophomore at St. Michael High School in Baton Rouge, where he excelled both academically and athletically. His death left a community in mourning and his parents with a profound mission: to turn their grief into action. Just 15 days after Owen’s passing, they founded the Rain Will Bring Flowers Foundation, a nonprofit dedicated to youth suicide prevention through awareness, education, and support. Now, less than two years later, the “We’re not asking them to be mental health professionals,” Jordan explains.
Maravich Assembly Center (PMAC). The event featured former LSU and NFL star Ryan Clark alongside student-athletes and motivational speaker Emma Benoit, a suicide attempt survivor who now spreads a message of resilience and hope. Additionally, the foundation is launching an endowment to fund scholarships for high school seniors pursuing careers in behavioral health. By funding scholarships for students in this field, the foundation hopes to build a stronger network of mental health professionals equipped to support young people in crisis. Their flagship fundraiser, the “Flowers Bloom Hope” gala, will take place on April 12, 2025, providing essential financial support for the foundation’s initiatives. HOW YOU CAN HELP For Baton Rouge residents looking to get involved, Jordan encourages direct action: ■Introduce the foundation to your child’s school to expand the Prevention in Every Parish program. ■Volunteer to assist with training or operational needs. ■Make a donation to support outreach and education efforts. Above all, Jordan and Lisa’s message is clear: no family should have to endure the pain they have faced. “If a kid like Owen could fall victim to suicide,” Jordan says, “I really believe that all of our kids are at risk. We are dedicating the rest of our lives to [doing] our best to try and prevent another family [from having] to walk in our shoes.” To learn more or get involved, visit rainwillbringflowers.org.
The foundation has already reached 62,000 students, parents, and faculty across 19 Louisiana parishes, with the goal of training 100,000 individuals. Their efforts are already making a difference, as Jordan recalls receiving feedback from two schools that credited the program with As the foundation continues to grow, Jordan emphasizes the importance of local involvement. He encourages parents, educators, and community members in Baton Rouge and beyond to help introduce the foundation’s programs to more schools. Expanding access to these resources, he explains, is one of the most effective ways to make a difference. In addition to school-based education, Rain Will Bring Flowers is collaborating with high-profile figures and organizations to further its mission. Their partnership with the Joe Burrow Foundation will provide $1,000 grants to schools for student-led mental health awareness programs in honor of World Teen Mental Health Day on March 2. They’re also working to modernize saving students’ lives. EXPANDING IMPACT mental health screening tools in schools, developing an app that allows students to track their mental health and access crisis intervention resources in real time.
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24 MARCH2025 | BRPARENTS.COM The demands of life often leave parents tired, stressed and frustrated. We can’t allow ourselves to “be tapped out” and give in to our kids’ manipulative behavior, so we need to plan our response when the storm is calm instead of trying to paddle when the storms are raging. THE GREAT NEWS It takes two to tango and you control the T here are dozens of reasons seem like the toughest job on the planet! The common denominator to our tough days is often authority. The parents’ job is to establish and uphold it and the child’s role is to question and test it. More often than we’d like, the line between negotiation and manipulation can get a little fuzzy. Here are some tips for successfully managing conflict without emotional blackmail, whining, complaining, and habitual arguing. TRUTH #1 It’s natural for kids to throw temper tantrums, lie, have emotional outbursts and argue to get what they want. They will try anything to get a reaction that leads to an outcome in their favor. Your response to this truth can change everything! TRUTH #2 parenting is the greatest “gig” on earth, but there are also days it can When Kids Test the Limits of Parenting BY SHERI WOHLFERT PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM
music. As humans, we need to learn to make our needs known. We have to be able to negotiate, compromise, and problem- solve, and we begin learning how to do these important things as kids. Parents are the first teachers of these lessons. YES, IT’S EXHAUSTING Kids will push hard, and you are what they push against. Consistency, love, and persistent expectations of acceptable behavior are the greatest ways to show our love for our kids. KNOW YOUR TRIGGERS AND DON’T TAKE THE BAIT Kids figure out our weaknesses and they play on them. They can play the sad, unfair, “you don’t love me or my friends” card at just the right moment to break you down. Knowing ahead of time how you’ll maneuver in these moments will allow you to follow through in a way that helps your child learn and keeps you calm. IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU If your kids lie or talk disrespectfully, it is more about them testing boundaries and getting what they want. It really isn’t personal, so remember: You are the rock their waves of emotion crash against, and you need to remain strong and focused. Our kids can’t be the source of our
affirmations and friendship; we need to seek those things from other adults. THINK LONG HAUL, NOT SHORT GAME Fussing over candy, screen time, toys, attention, cars, and curfews are all part of normal and healthy growth and development. We want our kids to grow up to be confident problem-solvers capable of compromise and negotiation, and we also want them to have a voice. We can’t throw up our hands and wish they’d just stop testing us. Instead, prayerfully approach each of those situations and know they are part of raising great saints. ULTIMATE REMINDER As you prayerfully prepare your response plan, remember that our goal as Catholic parents is to make sure our kids are holy, healthy, and safe. Let these three things form your responses to conflict. They allow us to respond with phrases such as, “I want you to be healthy, so you won’t be eating a Twinkie for breakfast,” or “I do love you, and going to place X just isn’t safe,” or “God chose to make me your parent, so I need to do what’s best for you and let every other parent make the decision for their own kids.” A quick shout-out to the Holy Spirit for words and the Blessed Mother for intercession at the moment of conflict is always a powerful first step.
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MAXIMIZING Parent-Teacher Conferences
BY AMANDA CIANI
28 MARCH2025 | BRPARENTS.COM back to them as needed. This detailed outline of the year can help students stay on course while clearly laying out S tudents spend 30–35 hours a week at school. They are challenged and they grow, both academically and socially, too. The drastic changes that happen in one short school year can be seen in those adorable first day of school photos compared to the “Wow, look how much they’ve grown up” last day of school photos that parents take! And teachers are firsthand witnesses to all of it. Having an opportunity to chat with your student’s teacher is like taking a peek into your child’s school life. Get ready for that window into their world; with a little bit of preparation, you can make the absolute most of a parent-teacher conference. STAY IN THE KNOW Plan for success from day one. Hold onto those first-day-of-school syllabi and refer
LISTEN Really listen. Attempt to actively hear what is being said. This is easy to do when positives are being highlighted. Who doesn’t love a brag session on their child? If constructive criticism is being given, avoid going on the defense and coming up with excuses, or going on the offense and placing blame. Gather information and ask clarifying follow-up questions to confirm understanding. Teachers truly want their students to succeed and having an open conversation will allow for better collaboration between the teacher, the student, and their guardians. TALK Sometimes in life, what is going on at home can have an affect on how a student is behaving socially or performing academically at school. If there have been any major life changes that may be a catalyst for a behavior shift, take the time
expectations for coursework, grading and more. In regards to grading, many classrooms have up-to-date digital gradebooks which students, and their parents, can utilize to stay informed. Families can be mindful of their students’ absences and missing assignments, which could negatively impact a student’s grade. Of course praise can, and should, be given for good grades, but seeing a not-so-great grade is an opportunity to investigate what studying practices might work better the next time around. Already knowing how your student is doing in class takes away the element of surprise when it comes to the parent- teacher conference. It is true— knowledge is power. Having an idea of your student’s academic performance will allow you to sit back and listen to what the teacher has to say. Which brings us to the next point…
to inform your student’s teacher. Teachers may even be able to offer resources and guidance to help your student manage life’s circumstances while they are at school. PREPARE QUESTIONS IN ADVANCE Every child is unique. Their individual academic journey will shape the nature of the questions that may be asked during a parent-teacher conference. Some examples include: ■Is my student being challenged appropriately? ■What can I do at home to extend learning and support my child’s education? ■Would you recommend additional support for my student at this time? This could include gifted, enrichment or intervention services, speech therapy, occupational therapy, tutoring, etc. ■What are my students’ strengths in the classroom, socially/academically? ■What should my student be focusing on to improve their school experience? Day-to-day chats with your student can give you some insights about what life is like in the classroom, but parent-teacher conferences are a bit like being a fly on the wall where you gain even more insight about your kiddo. Take the time to ask questions and learn more about your child. MAKE A PLAN If teachers are meeting with many parents on a given conference night, individual parent-teacher face-to-face time may be time restricted. Be sure to ask for the teacher’s preferred method of contact and reach out in the future, if necessary. Also inform the teacher of how they can best reach out to you, if need be. Note: If you change address or get a new phone number during the school year, update your students’ main office! Finally, if additional discussion time is being requested, throw out some dates and put it on the calendar! A parent-teacher conference has the potential to be stressful for the teacher, the parent, and maybe even the student too. But if everyone is prepared and does their part, it will run smoothly! Be informed, yet open, communicate strengths and concerns. Overall, create an optimistic environment where it is known that everyone is working together to guide the student to learn, grow, and flourish. At the end of the day and at the heart of it, everyone is truly on “Team Student”!
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Traveling Abroad with Your Family BY JULIANNA STEEN
32 MARCH2025 | BRPARENTS.COM travel is the walkability of cities… but luggage wheels and cobblestone roads P lanning a trip to the grocery store with kids can be stressful, so the concept of organizing an international adventure with your entire family in tow? Talk about overwhelming (and perhaps slightly terrifying!). I won’t lie—it is a large endeavor to take on, but the blessings that come from travel far outweigh the work you put in it. Here are some practical tips and things to consider as you plan. CONSIDER YOUR FAMILY’S PRIORITIES Sit down and talk with your spouse and your kids about where they want to go and what they want to do. Travel advisor Ashley Homan puts it this way: “If you have kids with different interests, give kids choices… so each member feels like they have a say in what they do.” Make sure there’s something in the itinerary that interests everyone. Not only will it make the trip more fun, it will help clarify how you should allocate your time and planning. PACK LIGHT One of the most ideal aspects of European
PLAN AHEAD, BUT BE FLEXIBLE It can be tempting to stress if you don’t have every minute of every day planned out, but I’ve found that it honestly works better when you leave part of your schedule open. I hate to break it to you, but something will go wrong, no matter how diligently you plan. And you know what? That’s okay. Some of my favorite moments have been unplanned, whether it be stumbling upon a parade or a festival, discovering a really yummy gelato shop on my way home from dinner, or simply having fun talking with a friend while sitting on a bench by the water. Nevertheless, it is important to include some structure and plan ahead for attractions that typically sell out of tickets, restaurants that you want to eat at, and transportation, like train tickets. Flexibility is even more essential when you add kids into the picture. As Homan points out, “Don’t overschedule yourself. With younger kids and naptime, you’ve got to be flexible. Having a driver or a private guide can also be really helpful.” Her biggest tip when it comes to planning? “Pick one morning activity and leave the afternoon open or vice versa.” It’s not realistic to pretend your entire family will
don’t go well together. Not to mention trying to pull your heavy suitcase up hills and/or stairs to your accommodations or attempting to place it in the overhead compartment on the train. Homan explains it this way: “Don’t overpack: Less is more in this situation, especially if you have younger kids. You need to take into consideration getting on and off trains with the kids and your luggage.” Not to mention, you save time and money when booking flights! Though it may not be realistic to pack in a carry-on bag if you have to pack a stroller and diapers, the lighter your bag is, the easier it will be to lug around. If you have kids over age seven, allow them to bring their own backpacks and encourage them to only pack toys and electronics that they can carry on their own when they’re walking in the train station or airport. (Otherwise, you may end up with three backpacks!) Homan also recommends bringing laundry detergent pods so you can wash kids’ clothes in the sink and use the line in the bathroom to dry them. Lots of hotels and Airbnbs also have washers and dryers, and on cruises, you can pay them to do a load of laundry.
be happy to explore from sunrise to sunset. The “one-plan-per-day” rule will help you determine your “must-dos,” so you won’t miss out. Make sure to plan something the first afternoon you arrive so everyone stays awake—it will help make the time change transition smoother. (But give yourself and the kids grace, because it will take their bodies a few days to adjust to the new time zone.) DO YOUR RESEARCH When you’re trip planning, Pinterest, blogs, and travel forums will become your best friends. I typically look up the name of the country or city with a phrase like “best things to do in” or “best places to visit in.” Make a list of all of the things you are interested in, and if something is repeated multiple times, look into it further. I try to keep all of my trip information (flight and train times, attraction names and links, traditional cuisine to try, lodging addresses, and more) in a Google doc that I can refer to throughout the planning process and during the trip itself. (It is easy to access and share on a mobile device on- the-go. There are also websites that help you track everything if you prefer.) Another great source is sites like Viator and Airbnb Experiences that offer cooking classes, food tours, day trips, and other experiences, like sailing on a local’s private
boat. One of my favorite tools is the Rick Steves Europe free audioguide app, which has excellent walking guides. Research the weather in the time of year you’re going so you’ll be prepared. If you have flexibility and littles not yet in school, it is much cheaper, less crowded, and overall easier to travel in the “off-season.” ASK THE LOCALS Reach out to your host or hotel and ask if they have any local restaurant or activity recommendations. They know what they’re talking about, I promise. Most of my favorite foods and restaurants have been suggested to me. This tip extends to restaurant servers. I always ask for their favorite entreé, and almost without fail, it is the best thing I’ve ever tasted and I never would’ve ordered it without asking. When you’re there, learn a few basic phrases so the locals know you are trying. A little goes a long way. MAKE IT KID-FRIENDLY Remember: The more fun your kids have, the more fun you will have. Homan suggests hiring tour guides that specialize in kids, particularly in Europe. “They tell stories of ancient history in a way that makes your kids excited, which will make their experience that much better,” she promises. Her other biggest
recommendation is to bring new travel-friendly activities with you, like travel puzzles, games, or a fidget toy. “When we did Europe with the kids this past summer, I bought several city-specific travel scavenger hunts online for places we visited, like Rome. When we were at iconic spots like the Trevi Fountain, [my kids] had to look for certain things, and it was a great way to keep them engaged while we traveled,” she shares. Remember, at the end of the day, the point of a trip is ultimately to create lasting memories with the people you love. Moreover, bringing your kids on an international adventure is important because it expands their horizons and grows them into better people. Forbes even wrote an article titled Kids Who Travel STOP STRESSING AND HAVE FUN Do Better In School . The Family Travel Association’s 2023 U.S. Family Travel Survey confirmed that travel helps kids become more confident, more interested in other cultures, and helps them see the world from a broader perspective. So what are you waiting for? Traveling with your family is an investment you will never regret.
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BY MADISON VOORHIES PHOTO BY KLEINPETER PHOTOGRAPHY 2024–25 COVER KID DYNASTEÉ J. Strong College Application
36 MARCH2025 | BRPARENTS.COM athlete, artist, entrepreneur, or community volunteer, your experiences can shape a compelling application. Here’s how to craft an application that gets noticed. A pplying to college these days isn’t just about grades and test scores—it’s about telling your story. Colleges and universities want to see who you are beyond the transcript: your passions, leadership, and impact. The good news? You don’t have to be class president or win a national award to stand out. What truly matters is authenticity and commitment. Whether you’re an
1. BUILD A WELL-ROUNDED RESUME Think of your resume as a snapshot of your achievements, skills, and experiences. Start by listing academic accomplishments, leadership roles, extracurricular activities, and any special recognitions. Keep it clear, concise, and organized—admissions officers should be able to quickly grasp what makes you unique. Key components of a strong resume include: ■Academic achievements: GPA, test scores, honors classes, AP/IB courses
■Leadership roles: team captain, club president, student council member, etc. ■Extracurricular activities: sports, music, theater, debate, robotics, etc. ■Volunteer work: community service, local charities, advocacy projects ■Work experience: internships, part-time jobs, family business involvement 2. THE POWER OF EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES Colleges love to see students who pursue their passions outside the classroom. Quality over quantity is key—it’s better
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