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June/July 2025
A Scoop of Independence LIFE LESSONS FROM A SUMMER OF ICE CREAM
Few things are as satisfying as riding with the top down in a pristine ‘64 Chevy Impala in the summer on the way to make ice cream all day with one of your friends. I had great summer jobs when I was younger, including working for two ice cream companies — one in high school and one after my first year of college. The work was fun, honest, and a fond memory even years later. I probably gained 10 pounds getting to eat all the ice cream I wanted, but the lessons I brought home have lasted so much longer. Our first jobs are often some of the first foundational teaching experiences we have about working. I didn’t just learn handy skills like making soft serve or repairing things; I learned how to work with others and the value of a hard-earned dollar. My favorite summer job was at my second ice cream company, Greenwood Dairies in Pennsylvania. Mr. Greenwood was a local man who would hire one college kid to work for him every summer. When it was my turn, I worked alongside two full-time ice cream makers, and we spent the days making dessert. This was a real dairy that sold milk and heavy cream, with trucks that delivered dairy products right to families’ doorsteps throughout the community. To make the ice cream, we had to add flavors to these big vats of cream. You’re missing out if you’ve never had natural, fresh-made ice cream like that before.
summer job working for my friend’s father’s glass company, installing and fixing windows at storefronts. I learned how to cut glass and fix things, which I still use today. I’m never afraid to try a repair out myself because learning that trade gave me the confidence to at least attempt to fix something on my own. The worst thing that will happen is that we have to call in a professional, but I still enjoy the challenge. Growing up, my dad owned a small department store that sold women’s and girls’ clothes, so I began working at a young age. When I decided to start my other summer jobs, it wasn’t because my parents forced me; I just wanted to do it. It was exciting to put cash away in the bank, to have spending money for dates, and not have to ask my parents to borrow money. It was my first taste of independence. Summer jobs can teach us powerful lessons about responsibility and the importance of showing up. I took my job seriously because I wanted to get paid, and I realized if I didn’t show up, someone else would have to pick up the slack. Those early job experiences stuck with me. They were fun and valuable, and I still use those skills today. The only downside I can think of was those few extra pounds, but the memories and life values I earned were forever worth the calories.
It was fun, and it felt good to make something people enjoyed. Their claim to fame was huge softball-size cones of ice cream for 35 cents. What made it even better was that I got to work with a friend I’d known through high school who was a couple of years older than me. He lived just down the street, so he would drive me to the dairy in his gorgeous red and white convertible he washed daily. He later went on to become a magistrate in that same community. I learned a lot at that job beyond making ice cream. It taught me all about teamwork because a couple of people can get a lot of work done. When I was 16, I had another
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BACKYARD PROJECTS TO SPARK YOUNG IMAGINATIONS Playtime Gets a Boost
Are you ready to turn your backyard into the ultimate adventure zone for your little ones? Whether your kids are budding explorers, curious scientists, or future Olympians, a backyard project awaits to transform their playtime into a new level of fun. From toddler-size treasures to preteen-approved hangouts, we’ve got you covered with ideas for every age group that will let their imaginations thrive. AGES 0–2 For children 2 and under, the world is brand- new, and they are learning about everything. As you design a backyard play zone for them, focus on engaging their developing senses with sights, sounds, and textures. DIY sandboxes or water tables allow them to practice hand-eye coordination and expose them to the feel of water or sand. Both can
be built inexpensively and are safe tools for them to explore their motor skills by digging, scooping, or splashing. AGES 3–5 Toddlers ages 3–5 start using their imaginations to create, build, and pretend. You can inspire their inner architect, chef, survivalist, or artist by creating outdoor spaces that encourage their creativity to shine. Give them opportunities to draw or paint by making a chalk art wall where they can use washable chalk to doodle on a special spot in the sunshine. A playhouse or homemade fort allows them to create their own little world. You could set up a tent or build an outdoor fort from PVC pipe and canvas, or you can leave the construction work up to them by setting out oversized foam building blocks they can use to create their own play structure.
AGES 6–12 By the time kids reach 6, they’re starting to step into who they are and developing better coordination. This is a time for them to keep building their problem-solving skills, teamwork, and understanding of structured games. A backyard playset with swings, tunnels, and slides will help them burn off energy and keep them physically active. If you have a sturdy tree in your yard, a treehouse is a special place for them to experience nature and a little independence. If you want something less permanent, create a sports “field” with temporary grass, chalk, paint, and cones.
UNIQUE ADVENTURES WITHOUT THE PRICE TAG Beaches, Boardwalks, and Budget-Friendly Beats
You don’t need a trust fund or a tourist map to have an unforgettable summer in San Diego. Some of the city’s best and most unique experiences are hiding in plain sight, like catching a concert at the Rady Shell at
Jacob’s Park or enjoying one of the beautiful beaches. This summer, we’re skipping the obvious attractions and sharing local fun that’s different and budget-friendly! THE RADY SHELL You can enjoy the beautiful weather on the Bay while listening to incredible live music at The Rady Shell at Jacob’s Park. They offer a robust and varied line-up of concerts and events, and you can often catch a beautiful sunset before the music starts. Ticket prices vary, but you can get in for under $40 for most shows, and they host free concerts and events several times a year. It’s a uniquely San Diego experience for art lovers and people who want to enjoy being waterfront on one of the city’s most stunning bays. BOARDWALKS AND DOWNTOWN STROLLS The city is exciting to explore, even without spending much money. Downtown’s sprawling Gaslamp Quarter has many restaurants, bars, and shopping spots to
enjoy but is also an excellent place for a stroll. It’s home to historic landmarks like the Davis- Horton House and local art and sculptures like the “Flame Flower” in front of the Westin Gaslamp Quarter Hotel. The Mission Beach Boardwalk, along the Mission and Pacific beaches, is another scenic locale where you can enjoy biking, walking along the water, or people watching for hours.
NATURAL VIEWS Though San Diego is known for its
breathtaking beaches, you have many other ways to enjoy its natural beauty. There are many great mountain trails for hiking that give panoramic views of forests and lakes. Some of the most popular trails are Stonewall Peak, the Lake Cuyamaca loop, and the Sunset Trail near Mount Laguna. The region is home to more than 500 species of birds, and you can spot many of them at one of the wetland reserves like the Tijuana Estuary or the Famosa Slough in Point Loma. Just make sure to bring enough water and wear sunblock.
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HAVE A LAUGH
After an accident, there’s a long list of tasks to complete, and dealing with the insurance company is one of the most important and often frustrating. Their job is to protect their bottom line, not your best interests, so it’s essential to be mindful when talking to them. Whether you’re trying to get your car fixed or cover the cost of medical bills, knowing how to handle this process can make a significant difference in your claim. BE CAREFUL WITH WHAT YOU SAY. When you speak with an insurance adjuster, they are looking for details that could help them reduce or deny your claim. Statements you may not imagine could come across as an admission of fault or put your injuries into question. A simple “I’m sorry,” “I’m doing okay,” or “I didn’t see them coming” could be used against you, even if you legitimately are the victim in an accident. Use caution when speaking with insurers and the other driver on the scene. GATHER EVIDENCE AT THE SCENE. Though an accident can be stressful in the moment, try to gather evidence on the scene. Take photos or videos of any injuries, damages to your car or property, and anything that speaks to what occurred, like traffic signs or the road. Collect the contact information of the other person involved and any potential witnesses. Seek medical attention and contact the police so you have incident reports and medical records. The more evidence you can provide, the harder it will be for the insurance company to deny your claim. AVOID TAKING A QUICK SETTLEMENT. It’s common practice for insurers to offer you a quick settlement that likely does not reflect the full extent of your damages. They will often give you a low-ball offer and may pressure you to act soon to resolve the case. Once you accept the offer, you give up the opportunity to file a claim and receive full compensation. The settlement they want to give you does not consider any future medical bills or lost wages you may not fully understand right after an accident. One of the best things you can do after an accident is contact a skilled attorney. Contact the Law Office of Elliott Kanter for a free consultation. Say Less, Protect More Tips for Talking to Insurance Companies After an Accident
Inspired by AllRecipes.com
This light, flavorful dish of tender, marinated beef slices can serve as a protein- rich appetizer or a tasty entree for a summer evening. Teriyaki Beef Skewers
INGREDIENTS
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1 1/2 cups light brown sugar
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1/4 cup vegetable oil
1 cup soy sauce
3 large garlic cloves, chopped 4 lbs boneless round steak, cut into 1/4-inch-thick slices Bamboo skewers soaked in water
1/2 cup pineapple juice (optional)
1/2 cup water
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DIRECTIONS
1. In a large bowl, whisk brown sugar, soy sauce, pineapple juice, water, vegetable oil, and garlic together. Drop beef slices into the mixture and stir to coat. 2. Cover bowl with plastic wrap and marinate in the refrigerator for 24 hours. 3. Remove beef from marinade, shaking to remove excess liquid. 4. Thread beef slices on skewers in a zig-zag pattern. 5. Preheat grill to medium heat and lightly oil the grate. 6. Cook beef skewers for about 3 minutes per side until the meat is cooked through.
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE
HOW MY FIRST JOBS SHAPED MY WORK ETHIC
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TRANSFORM YOUR YARD INTO A PLAY PARADISE
SAN DIEGO SUMMER FUN FOR LESS
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TERIYAKI BEEF SKEWERS
WHY A QUICK SETTLEMENT COULD COST YOU
HOW BURNOUT CAN SIGNAL DEPRESSION
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CANARY IN THE COAL MINE? The Hidden Health Risks of Burnout
Do your job or housework leave you feeling burnt out? If so, you aren’t alone.
Career-driven people, overworked employees, and working people from all walks of life can experience alienation, extreme exhaustion, loss of meaning, and reduced performance, all hallmarks of burnout. The term was coined in the 1970s to denote the exhaustion often experienced by people in the helping professions. Burnout is not listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for Mental Disorders,
Inventory, a scale measuring a person’s level of exhaustion, cynicism, and professional efficacy, to diagnose burnout. Items include, “I feel emotionally drained by my work.” The symptoms of burnout can serve as the canary in the coal mine — an early warning that overload, overwork, or stress may be on the verge of harming your health. Consider an extended break from work to ease the strain. If your ennui deepens into low self-esteem, guilt, hopelessness, or thoughts of suicide, a vacation or long weekend isn’t likely to help. Clinical depression or anxiety requires different treatment by a therapist or mental health professional. The bottom line: If you’re feeling burned out, it’s time to put on the brakes, check out for a while, and tune in more closely to your overall well-being!
Burnout is a common affliction in our technological age. An estimated 48% of employees and 53% of managers claim they’re burned out, according to a 2022 Microsoft survey of 20,000 workers, and stress levels have worsened since then.
the professionals’ guide to diagnostic standards. However, the World Health Organization
recognizes it as a factor in people’s health. Some doctors use the Maslach Burnout
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