CoachApply Master for Jacksonville Public Library

Being Assertive vs. Aggressive

Suggested Strategy: Use a Define & Coach strategy to help the individual

distinguish the difference between assertive and aggressive, and where

they might currently stand between those two terms.

Suggested Questions:

→ Define & Coach: When thinking about being assertive without being

aggressive, how do you think you would specifically define what that

looks like?

→ Self-Actualized Question: What are you specifically willing to do to be

assertive, based on that definition, rather than aggressive in your sales

tactics?

Suggested Activities:

→ Role Play: Work with the individual to create scripted conversation

pieces that they can implement when being assertive in a sales

conversation. Then, have them practice the scripts with you as though

they were having an actual sales conversation, keeping in mind specific

situations where they would use these strategies with real customers.

After each practice conversation, have the individual give themselves

feedback on what they felt they did really well and what they would like

to continue to improve upon. Have them share with you how they think

they can specifically go about continuing to improve in these areas.

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