CoachApply Master for Jacksonville Public Library

Representative Socializing Too Much

Suggested Strategy : Focus on the effect that being too social can have

on both the representative you are coaching as well as their peers.

Help the representative find the ideal balance between social

conversation and focus on their work.

Suggested Questions:

→ Permission + The Sword: With your permission, and so that I do not make any assumptions because that would be unfair to you, I would like

to share some observations with you that I think will provide an

opportunity for you to grow in your position. (When permission is

granted) It is my perception that socializing often distracts you and

others from completing work.

→ Third-Party Question: What do you think your peers might say when asked about your ability to separate social conversations from work?

Suggested Activities:

→ Practice: Give the representative examples of situations where it might be tempting or easy to socialize (another representative starting a

conversation, something personal going on, etc.). Ask the

representative to role play the conversation or walk you through how

they would handle the situation.

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