We’ve all experienced bouts of bad mood and even occasional depression. While difficult to go through, it can be equally challenging to see someone we care about hurting and not know how to help. The main thing to remember is that providing support isn’t about fixing things; it’s about showing up in meaningful ways. Skip the pep talks and listen. For many of us, our initial instinct is to rush to lift our loved one’s spirits and help them break out of a bad mood. However, offering them space and a calm ear is often the best thing we can do. Friendly company can be comforting even if they’re not ready to talk. Just be sure they don’t feel pressure to do or say anything. This might mean bingeing a favorite TV show together or just being with one another in the same room. Focus on small gestures. Along with providing company, you can support your loved one with simple gestures — a phone call, handwritten note, or warm meal. These acts remind them that someone cares and that they are not alone. Continuing to show up for your friend even after the rest of the world has moved on can have an even greater impact. There’s no specific script to follow, but small efforts all add up and may matter more than you’ll ever know. If you have a friend or family member going through a hard time, validating their experience and being present for them can be all they need. While they may not remember what you said, they won’t forget you showed up and stayed when they needed you most. Being There for Someone Who’s Struggling Kindness That Lasts
MEET ZOE
FROM RECEPTIONIST TO PROBATE LEADER AND FUTURE LAWYER
We’d love to introduce Zoe, a rising star in the legal community! For about a year and a half, Zoe was one of our probate assistants, but that title only scratches the surface. Not only did she handle a significant portion of our active probate cases, but she also played a key role in supporting and overseeing the overall department. With around 60 active cases moving through the probate process, Zoe personally drafted all the court forms and key documents for about a third of them. She ensured everything is accurate and ready for attorney review before it heads to court. She also assisted other probate assistants with their cases and offered guidance and support across the board.
team member. By May, she was promoted to estate planning assistant, and just a few months later, she took on the challenge of leading our probate department solo. With such success, it’s no surprise she’ll be starting law school this August at California Western School of Law in San Diego, the same law school our founder, Andrea, attended! While she’s considering a future in the law field, Zoe is particularly interested in probate litigation, criminal law, and civil rights. Her experience here has given her a front-row seat to probate and the legal system. Outside of work, Zoe is all about sunshine, travel, and staying active. Born and raised in California, she feels most at home near water, especially the beach! She recently visited Europe for the first time
and now, with Paris and Belgium crossed off her list, Italy is up next! A lifelong athlete, Zoe now enjoys traveling and spending quality time with her family and friends. Zoe, we wish you all the best as you attend law school and look forward to seeing you achieve greatness! Cheers!
Zoe joined Shoup Legal in January 2024 as our receptionist and quickly proved herself a standout
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