A Love That Stood
the Test of Time
Story Idea Submitted by Andrea McDonald, Director of Sales at Cedarhurst of Owensboro
A LOVE REKINDLED
The first time Tim Holly laid eyes on Dorothy “Dot” Holbrook, it was the first night of their freshman year at Kentucky Wesleyan College. The school held a mixer for incoming students, and Dot, drawn to intellectual men, spotted Tim sitting on a piano bench, glasses perched on his nose. “He looked very intelligent,” she recalls with a laugh. “I didn’t know whether he actually was, but the glasses made him look that way, so I walked over and introduced myself.” Tim, immediately intrigued, asked her to join him for coffee after the event. And just like that, their story began. For three months, they were inseparable, dating exclusively but never quite labeling their relationship as serious. They were young, enjoying each other’s company without fully realizing what love was. Then, as quickly as it began, it ended. Dot, eager to experience college life and meet new people, broke things off. “I was barely 18,” she says. “I enjoyed dating Tim but also wanted to see other people. I didn’t think he was upset at the time. I didn’t know until 72 years later how much it really hurt him.” Tim put on a brave face. “I acted like it didn’t bother me,” he admits, “but it did. It bothered me extremely.”
Life carried them in different directions. Both married, raised families, and built fulfilling lives. But fate, or perhaps perseverance, had other plans. More than seven decades after their college romance, Dot and Tim reconnected on Facebook. “It was strange at first,” Tim says. “I expected a warm response! But after we talked for a while, I started playing songs for her on my guitar. That had been ‘our thing’ in college.” As they reminisced, they found common ground in their values, their faith, and their love for music. The bond they once shared had not only survived but deepened with time. In 2023, Tim made a trip to Kentucky for Thanksgiving and stopped in Owensboro to visit Dot. The moment he saw her, his old feelings rushed back. “The attraction I had for her 74 years ago was immediately back,” he says. “I asked if she would mind if I moved closer. The five-hour drive from Ohio once a month wasn’t working.” Dot agreed, and her children gave their blessing. Initially, they planned to live together, but life had one more curve ball to throw their way. Tim suffered a stroke, making independent living impossible. That’s when Dot began searching for a place that could provide the care he needed while keeping them close.
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