Make Your Divorce Different
A Chance for a Fresh Start
In many of the cases we represent, our clients are leaving a marriage that put them in the passenger’s seat. Their spouse has been the driver, controlling how things happen, and our client has found the courage to start over. Here’s what we want anyone in this situation to know: Your divorce can be different than your marriage. If your marriage was ruled by your controlling spouse, don’t let your divorce be. Here are a few things we recommend to set yourself up for a better divorce. TAKE THE REIGNS FROM THE BEGINNING At the start, make it clear that you will not let your spouse call the shots. This might be new for both of you, but be firm where you stand. The minute you allow your spouse to rule the divorce by controlling you, the harder the entire process will be. This is your chance for a fresh start, and you get to dictate what that looks like, not your spouse. LET YOUR ATTORNEY HANDLE THE HARD CONVERSATIONS You’re paying us the big bucks, so let us take care of the negotiations. If your spouse tries to approach you with demands or ultimatums related to the settlement, don’t engage them. Tell them they can contact your attorney. In this way, you show your spouse that you are running the show and they aren’t going to control you like they did in your marriage. Filing for divorce can be the start of a new life. Remember: You get to make the rules now. While you’re free to let the divorce play out like your marriage did, this is your chance to do it differently. If you want the divorce to go better than your marriage, let your lawyer be your voice.
LEARNING TO BE GRATEFUL SOME WAYS TO HELP CHILDREN APPRECIATE THEIR TEACHERS Teacher Appreciation Week runs from May 6–10 this year, and there are plenty of ways students of all ages can thank their educators for everything they do. Being a teacher isn’t an easy job, and the people who make it their profession are passionate about helping kids learn. Depending on how old your child is, they may need a parent’s help in showing their appreciation. Here are a few ways parents and children can appreciate teachers together. THANK-YOU NOTES This gesture is simple and sweet and can be very thoughtful. Telling a teacher what makes them outstanding can often be just as valuable as a gift. Help your child write an appreciative note and then write one yourself. Teachers often have to maintain the happiness of students, administrators, and parents. Your card could relieve some of the stress of that balancing act and let them know that you acknowledge their efforts. A HOMEMADE MEAL Making a homemade meal (or dessert) shows teachers that you went the extra mile to appreciate their hard work. Maybe you could make a favorite dish of yours or try to find a new recipe online. Either way, encourage your child to help you with the process so that the meal is truly a gift from both of you. DONATING SCHOOL SUPPLIES Many teachers use their own money to buy school supplies for their classroom. This is just one of the ways teachers go above and beyond on a daily basis, and buying some extra school supplies can help ease that cost. Take your child shopping with you and help them pick out supplies that you know their teacher will appreciate. Your children spend several hours a day with their teachers, so fostering relationships with them is vital. Use this day to help your children understand the importance of teachers, to teach them the power of gratitude, and to encourage them to show respect for everyone who helps them in life.
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