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Famous Works of Fiction Waterways, Crown land, and provincial parks are generally open for scattering ashes, though Jackson advised families to confirm first. “Most provincial parks permit it, but it’s always best to check. For municipal parks or public spaces, you’ll want to confirm with the municipality to avoid any surprises.” Environmental care is also a consideration. Families should avoid scattering near drinking water sources, docks, or swimming areas, and should never leave behind items like plastic flowers or notes. “We encourage people to scatter gently or to use biodegradable urns,” Jackson notes. “It’s about showing respect not only for the person, but also for the land and future visitors.” Understanding the Rules of Scattering Ashes in Ontario The decision of where and how to scatter a loved one’s ashes is deeply personal, but it’s also one that comes with questions about legality, permissions, and best practices. Heather Jackson, Manager of the St. Thomas Cemetery, shared important guidance to help families navigate this sensitive process. “In Ontario, there is no requirement for a provincial licence or permit to scatter cremated remains,” Jackson explains. “The only conditions are that it’s done respectfully, and not in locations where it is expressly prohibited.” Families may scatter ashes on their own property, on another person’s property with permission, or into provincial waterways such as the Great Lakes. When it comes to private land, the rules are straightforward. “You can scatter on your own property without any issue,” Jackson says. “But if you want to scatter on someone else’s land, you must have their explicit consent. If the landowner wants to allow multiple scatterings, the site would need to be licensed and operated as a cemetery.” Because scattering ashes can be emotionally charged, Jackson emphasized the importance of open conversations among family members. “Talk about your wishes early. If those conversations don’t happen until a will is read, it can be too late. A scattering garden, like the one here at St. Thomas Cemetery, offers families a permanent, peaceful option that avoids conflict and uncertainty.”Scattering gardens provide continuity for future generations and eliminate logistical concerns. “Families don’t need to worry about bylaws or permissions,” says Jackson. “It’s a tranquil space, maintained for remembrance.” Above all, etiquette matters. “Be discreet and considerate when scattering in public,” Jackson emphasizes. “Check wind direction, respect bystanders, and remember, it’s a moment of private remembrance.” By understanding the laws, showing environmental respect, and communicating openly, families can ensure their loved one’s ashes are scattered with dignity and care.

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