Viola’s willingness to give, even in death, encapsulates her empathic nature—a quality that defined her life. From an early age, Viola knew she wanted to be a nurse, inspired by a childhood memory of watching a nurse in a white uniform push a patient in a wheelchair outside a hospital in Topeka. That moment planted a seed of compassion and empathy in her heart, one that would flourish throughout her life. As Robert fondly recalls, “I think her kindness and feeling of compassion for others began at an early age. It did not matter where she was or with whom she might be relating; it was always in a spirit of respect and love.” Viola’s nursing career was distinguished by her unwavering dedication to her patients and her profession. She graduated from the Stormont Vail School of Nursing, where she was recognized as the “Best Bedside Nurse,” an award that reflected her exceptional ability to connect with and care for her patients on a deeply personal level. Her empathy was not just a professional skill; it was a core part of who she was. One of the most significant moments in Viola’s career occurred on the evening of June 8, 1966, when a tornado devastated Topeka. Viola was the house supervisor of the evening shift at Stormont Vail and played a crucial role in implementing the hospital’s emergency plan. She worked tirelessly through the night, caring for the injured and ensuring that the hospital could meet the demands of the crisis. Viola’s empathy extended beyond her professional life. At home, she was a loving wife, mother, and grandmother, always putting the needs of her family first. Robert reflects on their 77 years together with deep affection, recalling the many moments of shared joy and partnership. “We just loved being together,” Robert says. “We found enjoyment in helping each other with anything that would help the other. Even on the night of her fatal episode, she dried the dishes as I washed them. Sharing to the end.”
Viola’s legacy of empathy is also evident in her role as a mother and grandmother. She loved to sew and made dresses for her daughters and quilts for her grandchildren. She was an active member of her church, contributing to numerous causes and serving on various committees. Even after her retirement in 1993, Viola continued to find ways to serve others, volunteering at a thrift store and participating in a neighborhood craft group. Her dedication to her family, her profession, and her community left an indelible mark on those who knew her. Viola’s selflessness and compassion influenced her family deeply, inspiring two of her nieces to follow her and become nurses themselves. Viola’s final act of empathy and service was her decision to become an organ donor. Her liver, miraculously healthy at the age of 91, was transplanted into a man who
Viola would want you to know that you are never too old and it’s never too late to make a difference in someone else’s life. – ROBERT REMINGTON
now carries a part of Viola’s legacy with him. Robert believes that Viola would
want others to know the
importance of organ donation and the lasting
impact it can have. “Viola was always about saving lives,” he says. “She would want you to know that you are never too old and it’s never too late to make a difference in someone else’s life.” Viola Remington’s life was a testament to the power of empathy, a quality that she embodied in every aspect of her life. From her distinguished career as a nurse to her loving role as a wife, mother, and grandmother, Viola’s legacy will continue to inspire those who knew her and those who will benefit from her final act of kindness. In a world that often needs more compassion, Viola’s life reminds us of all the profound impact one person’s empathy can have on others.
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