BEING A BETTER ENTERTAINER 101
spends the highest, first. Do you keep contact cards? How do you label them? In your phone you can easily keep notes.
love it if you spoil me! Here’s my amazon wish list! Go nuts!! You’re the sweetest” (A good rule of thumb is to have a PO Box) And
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unfortunately there will come a time when that regular has run his course, pass him on to a friend. They don’t always last. Don’t get comfortable. I hate to even bring this one up but... Please tell me you aren’t pulling the pity story! Girl, stop! That’s embarrassing... to you, your club and everyone else. I nEed pAmPeRs fOr mY bAby I NeEd a BuS tIcKeT hOmE I AiNt mAkInG nO mOnEy DoNt dAnCe wItH hEr Ew… Just ew. You are supposed to be a fantasy, a muse! You making yourself look like a beggar?! Guys do not want to hear sob stories. They want to think they have captured the uncapturable. You’re supposed to be the baddest! How is the baddest on broke?! Or worse, talking about other dancers. Thats stank cooch energy! Time management is paramount. Are you wasting your own time? It’s always a gamble to come to work. Maybe you make money, maybe you don’t. But you CAN control how your time is spent. If you sit with a guest that you THINK might spend money but he doesn’t. That’s on you. Giving guests two to three songs max, is ideal. If you spend an hour on him, just for him to say no to a dance, that’s your fault. Make sure you are on top of your game. Pay attention to the songs, pay attention to the conversation. There are simple ways to start turning that into suggestions for dances. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes those gambles pay off. But more times than not, they don’t. Remember, nothing is real until it’s on your hand.
highlight a few things you can do for yourself that build money. Online has become a whole other world. But that’s okay. You can use that to your advantage. Do you have a stripper presence online? If not, you should build one. You don’t have to put your face out there, or even your tattoos. It’s possible to create a social media friendly profile that doesn’t show people who you are and still brings in guests to see you. There’s plenty of poses you can look up online to get an idea. Plenty of sites you can go on and fish BuT ThEy aLwAys wAnT tO tAlK tO mE... of course they do. Thats why posting daily and telling them the hours you’ll be in is important. They can talk in the champagne room! There’s nothing wrong with shooting the occasional message to them: “hey, thanks for writing, I’m going to be on at 7 tonight, I hope you come see me. Let’s do a champagne room so that you can have my undivided attention!” Or similar. Some guys can’t afford the higher end rooms, and that’s ok. “Hey, hope to see ya tonight, I’ll be in at 7, let’s do some dances!” Super quick, super easy, no pressure for you. And that’s it. If they want more attention, let them buy it! regular that you can guarantee some money from. Hit ‘em up! Hit ‘em all up. Make sure you line ‘em up. I used to tell mine to come in at different times. And, if they all do show up at the same time, spread out your time. I would cater to whomever How often do you “call in” your custies? Maybe you have a
Example: Robert, tall, tan, silver fox. Banker. Spent 400 tipped 50. Loves my red dress. This helped me remember our progress. And it gives you an angle to make contact more personal. Guys appreciate that. Maybe last time he talked about a big promotion he was up for. Ask him about it. It shows interest! After all, that’s important to you too. A great response to that would be: “That’s awesome, let’s celebrate with a champagne room!!” Or, if he didn’t get it... “That’s okay, they just don’t know how smart you are. Let’s go back here to the VIP and let me take your mind off of that”You can cater to his ego at the same time! How are you answering questions to keep regulars? I know often times regulars can start to become... ballsy... The audacity! They get comfortable, and they feel like they own you. Remember, professionalism, always. And in my experience, the truth always worked for me. Him: why are you sitting with him instead of me?! Me: because he is buying VIPs. While I enjoy our time together, I do have to make money. Would you like to take me to VIP right now so I can be with just you?! I would much rather be with you. Or... Him: how about I pay you X amount of dollars and you hang with me outside of the club Me: No thank you. But you’re welcome to come see me anytime. (A straight forward and simple answer) Ladies, “NO.” is an answer. Full stop. I’ve had guys offer to take me shopping, dinners etc. I’m sure you have too. Great thing about that is... online shopping!! “YESSSS! I’d
Are you maximizing your potential? Are you even making it worth your time? Are you wearing the best outfits? Setting yourself apart from everyone else? Are you talking to everyone on the club? Everyone? We had a regular that would come and just buy beer, never dances. But one day he came into some money. The only girl he spent it on was the girl that spoke to him and was nice to him, knowing he wouldn’t spend anything. She didn’t waste her time; she stopped by here and there and always checked on him. Are you dropping your bartender a couple dollars here and there, so she suggests you to guests, or calls you over to a guy she knows will spend? When I’m behind the bar, I always ask guys what type of girls they are looking for. A good bartender will do that. I hope these highlights help you. Know your worth, the add tax! 1. Money up front 2. Your heels do not equal consent
Love and stacks, Heaven You can follow me on tiktok: Heavenstarkvegas
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