‘Y es D ay ’ M agic LET YOUR KIDS RUN THE SHOW (WITH A FEW RULES!)
START WITH CLEAR GUIDELINES. Before the big day, sit down as a family and lay out the ground rules. Think of them as your Yes Day boundaries — they keep things fun and manageable. Common ones include: • The requests must be safe. • Everything must stay within budget. • All activities need to happen locally (or within a certain radius). • Everyone has to participate (no solo fun unless it’s reasonable). This sets the tone for creative, collaborative planning while avoiding unreasonable asks like “Let’s fly to Paris!” LET THE KIDS TAKE THE LEAD. One of the best parts of a Yes Day is watching your kids light up as they brainstorm what they want to do. Encourage them to write down a list of ideas in advance. You might be surprised — many kids don’t ask for wild, expensive things. They just want uninterrupted time with their parents, whether it’s building a fort, going to the park, or baking cookies together.
KEEP IT SIMPLE AND SATISFYING. A successful Yes Day doesn’t have to break the bank or wear everyone out. The joy comes from the freedom to choose and the feeling of being heard. You can cap the day with a movie marathon, a backyard campout, or letting your kids pick dinner (yes, even if it’s cereal and snacks). MAKE IT A TRADITION. Yes Days are more than a treat; they’re a relationship builder. When kids feel seen and empowered, it deepens trust and creates moments you’ll all remember. So, go ahead! Pick a day, set some ground rules, and get ready to say “yes” to the joy that only comes when you let go.
Imagine a day when your kids get to call the shots. Ice cream for breakfast? Sure. Pajamas all day? Why not. That’s the magic of a “Yes Day” — a full 24 hours where the answer to (almost) every request is a “YES!” It’s a chance to say goodbye to the daily “No, no, no!” and “Maybe later” and embrace spontaneity, laughter, and connection. But let’s be real: Without a few guidelines, a Yes Day would spiral into pure chaos. That’s why setting a few ground rules ahead of time can turn this fun tradition into a memory- making success for everyone.
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while in extreme debt? Not necessarily, thanks to an idea called Year’s Support.
petitioner’s economic standard of living. If a creditor felt the amount was too high, they could object or challenge the petition. A person must follow specific rules to receive a Year’s Support. First, they must file the petition within two years of the individual’s death. If a minor child is filing the petition, they must do it before their 18th birthday. They will also need to identify all the estate’s creditors, heirs, and beneficiaries, including their names and addresses. To file the petition, all you need to do is gather essential documents, such as the individual’s death certificate and estate planning documents, and submit your petition to the probate court. If you want to make the process easier and remove the risk of making a mistake, working with a lawyer is your best move. Give us a call today if you have any questions or need assistance!
When a loved one passes away, creditors are usually paid out of the estate before heirs or beneficiaries get their share. However, a Year’s Support can push the spouse or minor children to the front of the line, ensuring they receive enough to maintain their quality of life for the following year. It can come into play during specific situations, such as insolvent estates, small estates, missing wills, and the omission of a spouse in an estate plan. Before 1998, those petitioning for a Year’s Support would receive the same amount, regardless of the estate size or other specifics. They would receive $1,600, which isn’t much to live on, especially if you have kids at home. Thankfully, that set amount is no longer a thing. The court will determine the amount based on evidence relating to the
We’ve spent years building a life with our spouse and children, and we want to make sure they have everything they need to carry on with the same quality of life if something happens to us. But what happens if the estate value is lower than anticipated, and probate costs are looming? Will you be out of luck if your spouse passes away
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