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PREPARING FOR A CHILD- CENTERED CUSTODY HEARING Child custody hearings can be intimidating, emotional, and overwhelming, even when both parents want what’s best for their children. Being well- prepared can make a monumental difference in presenting your case clearly and confidently. Preparation is not about “winning” at all costs; it’s about showing the court you are a responsible, caring, and reliable parent. ORGANIZE YOUR DOCUMENTATION. One of the most important steps is gathering all relevant documents. This includes financial records, medical records, school reports, and evidence of your involvement in your child’s daily life. Keeping a log of your child’s routines, medical appointments, extracurricular activities, and communication with your co-parent demonstrates your commitment and consistency. Organized documentation helps the judge understand your role in your child’s life and makes your case stronger. UNDERSTAND YOUR CUSTODY GOALS. Before the hearing, clarify what outcome you hope to achieve. Are you seeking joint custody, primary physical custody, or specific visitation rights? Understanding your goals will help you communicate effectively in court and avoid being swayed by emotion or pressure. It’s also important to remain flexible; courts prioritize the child’s best interests, which may differ slightly from what you initially envisioned. WORK WITH YOUR ATTORNEY. We are your guide through the custody process. We discuss your case thoroughly, review potential questions you may face, and practice answering them calmly and respectfully. We can also advise on the documents you should bring, how to present evidence, and strategies for communicating effectively with the judge. STAY CALM AND PROFESSIONAL. Custody hearings can stir strong emotions, but it’s crucial to remain composed. Avoid negative comments about your co-parent, in court or in documents. Demonstrating maturity, cooperation, and respect can make a lasting impression on the judge. Remember, the court is focused on the child’s welfare, not adult conflicts. FOCUS ON YOUR CHILD’S BEST INTERESTS. Ultimately, your goal is to show that you can provide a stable, loving, and supportive environment. Highlight your involvement in their education, health, and emotional well-being. Emphasizing consistency, care, and cooperation will resonate with the court more than arguing or blaming the other parent. Focus on What Matters
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Apple-Cranberry Salad
This tangy and sweet apple-cranberry salad will steal the show at your Thanksgiving feast this year.
INGREDIENTS • 6 slices of bacon • 1/3 cup balsamic vinaigrette
• 3/4 cup dried cranberries • 1 Honeycrisp apple, peeled and thinly sliced • 1/4 red onion, thinly sliced • 1/2 cup feta cheese
• 1/3 cup olive oil • 2 tbsp raw honey • 8 oz fresh baby spinach, rinsed and dried
DIRECTIONS
1. In a large skillet, cook bacon until crispy. Remove it from the pan and set on a paper towel-lined plate to cool. 2. In a small bowl, whisk together balsamic vinaigrette, olive oil, and honey. Set aside. 3. In a large bowl, add spinach, cranberries, apple slices, red onion, and feta. Crumble bacon pieces over the top. Use salad forks to toss ingredients thoroughly. 4. Add dressing to the salad and toss again until well-coated.
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