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But that is only an average figure. How long it takes for an individual to form a habit depends on the person, the habit and the circumstances. In Lally's study, the participants took anywhere from 18 days to 254 days to form a new habit. So what’s in this for me? This means you do well to prepare yourself for the long haul. Set your expectations right. Be full aware it will take you anywhere from two months to eight to build a new behaviour into your life. Even so, don’t give up if you mess up during this very crucial period. The researchers found that “missing one opportunity to perform the behaviour did not materially affect the habit formation process.” In other words, it doesn’t matter if you mess up every now and then. It is Neuroscientist Elliot Berkman says breaking a bad habit is tougher. "It's much easier to start doing something new than to stop doing something habitual without a replacement behaviour." Unlike forming a good habit, experts say there’s no typical time frame for breaking a habit. It all boils down to a mix of personality, motivation, circumstances, and the habit in question. People who are self-motivated will succeed quicker. "People who want to kick their habit for reasons that are aligned with their personal values will change their behaviour faster than people who are doing it for external reasons such as pressure from others," says Elliot Berkman. He adds, “Long-time habits are literally entrenched at the neural level, so they are powerful determinants of behaviour. The good news is that people are nearly always capable of doing something else when they're made aware of the habit and are sufficiently motivated to change." The bad news? “Six months minimum, and that's only if you're committed to the change and you are conscientious in your practice of a strategy for change,” says Dr Timothy Pychyl. The bottom line: to break a bad habit you have to be motivated and be patient. The motivation will keep you going for the long months ahead. Try to use a “replacement behaviour” for the habit, but make sure it’s a positive one. And be patient. Just remember, you’ve had the habit for a long time, it will take a while to get rid of it. not an all-or-nothing process. Breaking a bad habit
Howdid NewYear resolutions start?
The tradition of New Year resolutions is said to date back more than 4,000 years to the Babylonians. To earn the favour of their gods, at the beginning of each year, the Babylonians would promise the gods that they would return borrowed objects and pay their debts. Why beginning of the year? To coincide with the planting season to help ensure for them a successful crop and an abundant harvest later in the year. Ancient Romans, too, began each year by making promises to the god Janus, after whom the month of January is named. In the Medieval era, knights gathered for a last feast at the end of the Christmas season each year to take the "peacock vow" which required placing their hands on the noble bird (hence the name of the vow) to reaffirm their commitment to chivalry. In present times, many Christians prepare for the year ahead by congregating at a special late-night church service called watch-night services, to send out the old and welcome the new year by reflecting on the year that’s ending and seeking spiritual guide and resolve to change for the better.
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