You and your child…
Ideas and tips...
Watch your child so that you can start to recognize their cues. They may use body movements, facial expressions, and sounds to show you how they feel. Imagine how your child experiences things.
How do you know when your child is happy, sad, frustrated, scared, or mad?
Validate your child’s feelings, and label them with simple words. For example, “I can see that you are frustrated because you cannot reach your toy.” If your child is happy, keep doing what you’re doing. If your child is upset, take a moment to comfort them. Remember to stay calm yourself. Try different ways to calm your child, such as holding them, rocking them, getting them a special toy or blanket, singing, or playing soothing music. Think of healthy ways to handle feelings: take deep breaths, count to four, blow bubbles, sing a song, or do a silly dance with your child. Ask if your child wants a hug. Take time to connect with your child: smile, talk and listen to them, read, sing, and play with them, enjoy a meal together. Turn off electronics more often so that you can focus on your relationship with your child.
How do you respond to your child’s feelings?
How do you help your baby or young child learn to calm down?
How do you show your child that they are important and loved?
How do you encourage the behavior you want to see from your child?
Keep in mind that if your child is tired, thirsty, hungry, or uncomfortable, they will not be on their best behavior. Take care of them before you try to teach them a new behavior.
Do you have any concerns or questions about your child?
Talk to your Early Start Team. We are here to help!
Remember
You are your child’s first teacher! Children learn the most from what other people do… especially you! Give yourself a break when you are having a hard time remaining calm. Be sure your child is safe and give yourself a minute to calm down. You might say “I need some time to think about how I can help you.” Take care of your own emotional wellness. If you have stress, depression, or anxiety, it affects your child. Get the help and support you need.
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