As mentioned, when you have cancer, feeling sexy / attractive to others may be important to you, whether you are single or not: your relationship status alone, should not determine the opportunity to discuss intimacy and sex, nor should it deny you any support you may need. Talking about intimacy and sex Trying to start a conversation with your medical team can feel uncomfortable, especially if the environment doesn’t offer privacy (for example, on a ward or open clinical area). Sexuality is a very private and sensitive topic and is influenced by our upbringing, the attitude of our friends, sexual orientation, culture and religious views. You can always ask for a private space to discuss personal matters, or ask if you can call or email them later with your questions. If you would like to talk to a professional about sex-related issues you can discuss this through your treatment team or arrange it independently. You can self refer for psychosexual support at most sexual health centres without having to involve your cancer team or GP. Available services may vary depending on your location, so check your local sexual health centre’s website or email them to find out how to make an appointment.
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