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24 What’s the Deal with Literacy in Louisiana Schools?
Does the Presidential Election Offer a Teaching Moment?
Navigating Social Media Safely: A Guide for Parents This School Year
Risky or Rite of Passage? Underage Drinking at Home
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Mom About Town
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“I’m Bored” Goes Back to School
B ack-to-school season has finally arrived, and if you’re anything like me, you’ve spent the last few weeks cramming in whatever vacation or quality time you can with your children before the lazy days of summer finally come to an end. It’s that magical time of year when parents are rejoicing over the end of “I’m bored!” and students are bracing themselves for the inevitable whirlwind of homework, early mornings, after-school activities or clubs, and the never-ending battle of “what do you want packed in your lunch today?” This year is looking so different in my house. My daughter will be bringing her brothers to and from school, at least until their sports start later in the fall. I’m kind of excited not to run carpool anymore; however, I will miss the daily bickering of who gets to tell me first about their day. It’s a short drive home, so in reality, by the time we get home, everyone is fighting and I have no clue what happened that day. I guess I should be relieved that I
will get some extra hours at work, and hopefully get my butt to the gym in the morning. But honestly, I will most likely still work my school schedule, so I can head home. As they get older, I feel my time getting limited, and it tears my heart apart. As the kids head back to class, let’s all raise a metaphorical glass to the joys and trials of the back-to-school season. Here’s to surviving the chaos, and perhaps more importantly, to pretending we’re not secretly excited to see the children stressed for once with having their responsibilities return. After all, it’s the small victories, like making it through the day without a caffeine IV drip, that make this season memorable. Prayers everyone has a smooth transition back to school and lots of prayers to the teachers who will be teaching these little minds.
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G oing back to school after a long summer is both exciting and scary, no matter how old you are. Here are some book recommendations from the New Orleans Public Library to ease those back-to-school jitters and get students of all ages back-to-school ready.
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YOUNG READERS Olu’s Teacher: A Story About Starting Preschool by Jamel C. Campbell & Lydia Mba This sweet, reassuring story about first-day-of-school- jitters follows Olu as he finds his fears allayed by his teacher, who is warm, approachable, and looks just like him. The First Week of School by Drew Beckmeyer Readers follow along as an ensemble cast of characters experience an extraordinary first week of school in this hilarious picture book that takes an unexpected turn when an out-of-this-world visitor shows up to class. Betty the Yeti and the First Day of School by Mandy R. Marx & Antonella Fant Betty the Yeti is nervous about her first day of school full of humans, but she learns that
being different is what makes her wonderful. MIDDLE GRADE Art Club by Rashad Doucet After the art programs are cut at his school, Dale Donovan recruits talented artists to create an after-school art club. The Liars Society by Alyson Gerber When the money for their school trip is stolen at their elite Boston School, Weatherby and Jack are invited to solve this high- stakes mystery–which would guarantee their entrance into the oldest, most powerful society in the world. The School for Invisible Boys by Shaun David Hutchinson What would you do if no one could see you? In this surreal adventure, a boy who is used to being overlooked literally becomes invisible, only to realize there may be far more
dangerous threats in his school than bullies. TEEN Advice to 9th Graders: Stories, Poetry, Art & Other Wisdom Drawing from the life experiences of teens, this anthology provides nourishment and support and increases awareness. In keeping with the title, most of the content is practical counsel: Seek out those who allow you to be true to yourself, maintain good study habits, get involved with clubs, and don’t give up. Where Sleeping Girls Lie by Faridah Àbíké-Íyímídé Sade Hussein is starting her third year of high school, this time at the prestigious Alfred Nobel Academy boarding school. After being home-schooled all her life and feeling like a magnet for
misfortune, she’s not sure what will happen. What she doesn’t expect though is for her roommate Elizabeth to disappear after Sade’s first night. Or for people to think she had something to do with it. Bunt!: Striking Out on Financial Aid by Ngozi Ukazu & Mad Rupert Molly Bauer’s first year of college is not the picture- perfect piece of art she’d always envisioned. One day, Molly discovers that her full-ride scholarship has vanished! Thankfully, she finds a loophole–if Molly and nine other art students win a single game of softball, they’ll receive a massive athletic scholarship. Can Molly’s crew of ragtag artists succeed in softball without dropping the ball?
Kacy Helwick is the youth collection development librarian for the New Orleans Public Library’s collections and acquisitions department. Marie Simoneaux is the media and communications coordinator for the New Orleans Public Library.
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12 SEPTEMBER 2024 | NOLAFAMILY.COM SoulGrow back to her roots in New Orleans. The journey back home was not without its challenges, including the took a dramatic turn after the loss of her mother in 2014. “After that, all I wanted to do was help kids and people feel like they still have a chance and like they are special,” Rosiere says. This desire to make a difference led her to Montauk, NY, where she initially started Camp SoulGrow. Despite the camp’s success in Montauk and two other New York locations, Rosiere felt a strong pull to bring Camp F ounded in 2014 by London Rosiere, Camp SoulGrow is a remarkable 501(c)(3) non-profit workshop camp dedicated to helping children gain self-esteem and connect with their community. This unique camp offers children a wide range of opportunities and adventures, designed with great intention, to connect them with local artists and businesses who serve as their mentors. Since its inception, Camp SoulGrow has conducted over 700 workshops and impacted more than 3,000 children, providing them with experiences that help them disengage from technology, discover new passions, gain confidence, and build lasting connections. So Long, New York! At the heart of Camp SoulGrow is the vision and determination of London Rosiere, who describes herself as the “Head Kid” of the camp. Rosiere’s journey to creating Camp SoulGrow is one of resilience and dedication, deeply rooted in her personal experiences. Her life CAMP SOULGROW BY MADISON VOORHIES
tragic loss of her brother in 2016 and the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic. However, Rosiere’s determination never wavered. “In October 2023, I thought it was time to get back to New Orleans and do what I was supposed to do,” she explains. Getting to Work Camp SoulGrow operates on a simple yet powerful philosophy: to create an environment where children can explore new interests, discover new talents, and learn to be open-minded, enabling them to become more creative, independent, and happier. “The number one goal is to help kids find self-esteem and to break their fears,” Rosiere emphasizes. “You can’t give someone self-esteem; you can’t buy it for them. But my idea was I could create opportunities for them to find it themselves, and then it’s real.” The camp’s workshops are designed to be hands-on and immersive, providing children with the chance to engage with their community in meaningful ways. From cooking Thai food at a local restaurant to volunteering with seniors, the workshops offer a diverse range of experiences that help children build confidence and develop new skills. “There’s a [huge] cycle of giving and growing,” Rosiere notes. “I watch kids from completely different walks of life come and try new things and make unconventional friends that last a lifetime.”
The camp is open to all children, regardless of cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds, and all workshops are free of charge. “I never want kids to feel like they’re inferior or less important,” Rosiere explains. This commitment to equality is reflected in the camp’s structure, where children of all ages and backgrounds come together to learn and grow as equals. Growing Together As Camp SoulGrow continues to grow in New Orleans, Rosiere has big plans for the future. She hopes to secure a permanent space for the camp and acquire a bus to make the workshops more accessible to children across the city. “Currently, we use the community as our classroom and the local people and businesses as our teachers,” she says. “The goal is to keep planning workshop after workshop after workshop and have the bus the way it was in Montauk.” Through Camp SoulGrow, London Rosiere is not only providing children with the tools to build self-esteem and confidence but also fostering a sense of community and collaboration that extends far beyond the camp itself. As Rosiere likes to say, “We don’t compete, we collaborate.” To keep up with Camp SoulGrow’s events and progress in making a name for itself, visit campsoulgrow.org, and follow their Facebook and Instagram pages (@ CampSoulGrow).
One of the most unique aspects of Camp SoulGrow is its commitment to inclusivity.
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mom about town
ANISSA COLEMAN
BY MADISON VOORHIES PHOTO BY IRIS MANNING
WHAT DOES A NORMAL DAY LOOK LIKE FOR YOU? ANISSA: A normal day for me: I’m up early; I get myself together; Then, I begin to get the kids ready and off to school. I do the pickups, the drop-offs. Once that’s done, throughout the day I’m hosting meetings, working, going to site visits, and working on my event planning projects I have in the queue. [That’s] how I spend the bulk of the day. The afternoons are filled with extracurriculars and post-work that I need to wrap up. My big thing is that we sit down together as a family. We do dinner together every night as a family, and we debrief our days because we have four people in this house who are doing four different things. That is the time when there are no phones or anything like that. We just check in with each other, and see what happened during the day. I also make sure that my husband and I sit down and spend some time together in the evening, just debriefing our days a little bit more in detail than we would have in front of the kids. Then, I go into my evening self-care routine and just decompress because my days are full. I start early, and sometimes I’m going late at night-- even with the different planning tools I put into place. So that’s how I spend my day; It’s usually a busy day. HOW DID YOU GET INTO LUXURY EVENTS AND WEDDING PLANNING? ANISSA: Long story short, I’ve always done events. I enjoy going to them and assisting with them. I got a lot of experience when I did it in the professional realm, working on and planning events for the institution where I was at. In doing that, It’s been Husband: Kevin Child: Logan, 17, and Luke, 9 Occupation: Founder/Lead Designer/Event Planner at Elegance by Ace Hobbies: Traveling, Wedding Planning, Self-Care, Home Renovating/Decorating Anissa Coleman masterfully balances her bustling luxury event and wedding planning career with her busy family life. As a dedicated mom and wife, Anissa starts her day juggling school drop-offs, client meetings, and creative projects. Yet, despite her packed schedule, she always makes time for family dinners and self-care. Anissa’s passion for creating unforgettable events extends beyond her work—she’s also dedicated to making cherished memories with her family through travel and quality time together. Her journey as a mom and entrepreneur is a testament to the power of passion, flexibility, and prioritizing what truly matters.
There is no rulebook for parenting. Most importantly, cherish the moments that you have, don’t rush through the process, and just be present. Because time goes so fast. “
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constant in my life. My children’s parties, planning my own wedding, and even my friends’ weddings and events are how the passion grew. Then it just spiraled into word-of-mouth and the client base just kept growing. We’ve been fortunate to be able to do stuff–not just indoors. We’ve been to [Los Angeles,] Chicago, and a few different places. We’ve done some large jobs out there and [have] been able to take it outside of home base. This passion naturally evolved into a career because of everything that I have done over the years in those various avenues. WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT YOUR CAREER? ANISSA: What I love most is the flexibility that it gives, but also the joy of creating dreams for my clients, getting their reactions, and then [meeting people], especially outside of [New Orleans]. Additionally, it’s rewarding for me because I’m able to show my children that they can achieve anything. They can see that, “Yeah, Mom is all about family!” When I travel, I usually take my kids with me to my weddings and events. I have been afforded the opportunity to take them, so they’re able to see that Mom works, but then they also get to see the other side and enjoy being in a different area. What I love most is just being able to do both-- be Mom and the professional person. I do try to make it a priority and try to make it an inclusive thing for everyone. WHAT ARE SOME JOYS AND CHALLENGES OF BEING A MOM?
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ANISSA: Some joys for me: most importantly, it’s being present for my children-- for their milestones, events, and whatever is happening in their lives. The challenges come with balancing my career with my family and my husband. I’ve developed tools to help manage that. I prioritize showing up for my family and checking in with my spouse throughout the day, despite our busy schedules. At the end of the day, what remains is that my family is my main priority. I look at the bigger picture, even taking on these events and taking on these clients; that’s why I choose how many clients I want to take. I don’t have to take every client that comes through here because I want to be present during these times. I’ve seen it in a professional realm where I’ve had some vendor colleagues who rethought their careers because now their kids are growing and they missed so much. I make it a point to be present. I really, really, really do feel like that’s what I pride myself on because I don’t get those moments back. HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR PARENTING STYLE? ANISSA: I lean more into traditional values. We have rules, we have manners, respect for others, and [self-respect]. As a family, we do attend church together; that’s very important in our home. I strive to create a safe space for my kids to be healthy and great humans, and not have to be stressed and overwhelmed with day-to-day happenings at home. We do make mistakes, but [my motto is] how we learn and how we recover. If I’m not here, my husband and I have instilled enough in them that they could lean on themselves to navigate life. I want them to have the best quality of life. WHAT PERSONALITY TRAITS OF YOURS DO YOU SEE IN YOUR CHILDREN? ANISSA: For my daughter, [she’s] nurturing. She’s so good with kids. Every time she’s around kids–especially little kids–they gravitate toward her. I call her the baby whisperer, because she’s always holding someone’s baby, and they’re going to sleep in her arms. That’s how I was as a child. I loved to be around kids and babies. My son is a little bit like me because I find him to be a little bit more outgoing. He is like a little social butterfly. He is that part of me, just because that’s who I am. Even though I have introverted qualities, I’m in an area where [if] you drop me in with a bunch of people, I’m usually very outgoing, and it’s easy
to talk to people. So I see that in him. Both of them, overall, I would say are compassionate and caring individuals. They’re always thinking about other people. HOW DO YOU MAINTAIN A WORK/LIFE BALANCE? ANISSA: At some point, you have to turn it (work) off. I do use the “Do Not Disturb” feature. I find that really helps with that work/life balance. It separates being at work and being home. When I’m home, I really try to be home, unless I have deadlines coming up, or things that I have to do that there’s no way around it. I give that credit to my husband because when I first started event planning, it was in the office at home-- I never shut it off. Ever. He brought it to my attention, and now, when I find myself at home, I’m home ; I don’t want to do any work. Before, I used to be in front of my computer all the time. Or, I would always have a phone in my hand or something like that. Like I’ve mentioned earlier, my family, my friends, and my clients respect my evenings. I have a jam-packed day; I’m pulled in all kinds of directions. So, I let people know that early on. I just really want to be present. DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR OTHER PARENTS? ANISSA: There is no rulebook for parenting. The biggest thing is that our children watch everything that we do. So I try to model my behavior, so that they see what I do. Most importantly, cherish the moments that you have, don’t rush through the process, and just be present. Because time goes so fast, and that’s what it has taught me with this 17-year- old. I think, “ Girl , I was just taking you home from the hospital!” Quick Q’s Guilty Pleasure …....... French fries Favorite Date Night …............... Spa day and dining out at our favorite restaurants Favorite girls night out …..... A nice, quiet dinner or trip Something that makes me laug h.....… My family-- they are always full of adventure Something I’m looking forward to ...… All of my children’s future milestones and the day they become parents themselves
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Does the Presidential Election Offer a Teaching Moment? BY AUSTRIA COHN PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM
A s the 2024 Presidential Election approaches, children will likely hear or learn about bits and pieces of the process. Whether the debate is playing in the background or students are learning about democracy in class, some young adults might show interest in the election. With the nation buzzing with conversation, the presidential election offers a time to teach young adults about democracy, critical thinking, and misinformation on social media. Teaching democracy to children can be as simple as telling them their voice matters. This can encourage children to voice their opinions on topics they’re passionate about, building confidence and a sense of empowerment. Children can also benefit from learning that their choices matter and impact their communities. For older teens who are showing Why Understanding Democracy Matters
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1. Encourage Critical Thinking: Teach children to question the sources of information they encounter online. Who is providing this information? What are their motivations? 2. Promote Media Literacy: Introduce the basics of media literacy, like recognizing biased or unreliable sources and understanding how to cross-check facts with reputable sites. 3. Discuss the Impact of Misinformation: Help them understand the real-world consequences of misinformation and the importance of making informed decisions. 4. Encourage Open Dialogue: Foster an environment where children feel comfortable discussing what they see online. As the country prepares for the 2024 Presidential Election, consider using this time as a teaching moment, where young adults earn valuable skills to help them later in life. Learning about democracy and social media misinformation will teach teens to be critical thinkers and help them understand that their voices and actions matter.
interest in the election, discussions about democracy can help them better understand the world and the country we live in. Depending on their maturity level, exploring concepts like freedom and comparing other countries to the U.S. can broaden their perspectives. Opinions Are Trending In today’s digital age, social media plays a significant role in shaping how information is consumed. While it can be a powerful tool for learning and connection, it also poses challenges, particularly when it comes to misinformation. For teens following the election, take the time to explain that it’s important to fact- check information seen on social media and explain how clips can be taken out of context to appeal to specific audiences. Moreover, technology is constantly evolving, and this includes “deepfakes,” which are realistic-looking videos or audio created by AI to make it seem like real people are saying or doing things they never actually did. Deepfake videos and sound bits are circulating social platforms, and it is becoming increasingly more difficult to determine what is real and what isn’t.
When discussing social media, it’s important to also discuss algorithms with preteens and teens. The algorithms that drive social media feeds are designed to show users content that aligns with their interests. Whether it’s a specific TV show, celebrity, activity, or opinion, algorithms are intended to keep users engaged and using the app. While this can make the online experience more engaging, it also means that people are often exposed to information that reinforces their existing beliefs rather than challenging them. Encourage young adults to research topics further and engage in conversations to understand different viewpoints instead of solely relying on social media for news. This will not only help them when they’re old enough to vote, but it will make them critical thinkers and well-rounded adults. Teaching Young Adults to Fact-check Given the prevalence of misinformation online, it’s crucial to teach children how to fact-check and verify information. Here are some practical steps parents can take to help their kids navigate the ever- changing digital landscape:
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Navigating Social Media Safely: A Guide for Parents This School Year
BY MADISON VOORHIES PHOTO BY FREEPIK.COM
22 SEPTEMBER 2024 | NOLAFAMILY.COM in the last year when lawmakers and former Gov. John Bel Edwards signed into law the Secure Online Child Inter- Did You Know? Louisiana found great legislative success A s the new school year begins, parents may face concerns re garding their children’s ed- ucation, well-being, and social lives. One area that continues to be of the utmost importance is social media. With platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat dominating the digital world, ensuring your child’s safety online has never been more critical.
action and Age Limitation Act. This law requires children 16 and under to get parental consent to create a social media account and includes safeguards for adult-minor messaging, minors’ personal data collection, ads targeting minors, and parental monitoring features. While social media is vastly evolving every day, this law should grant parents some peace of mind knowing they have rights when it comes to the safety of their child’s online presence. So, just take a deep breath, and don’t let the internet scare you. Here are other tips and strategies we gathered based on research by the
American Psychological Association and Norton Security to help you keep your child safe online as they return to school. 1. Open Communication Is Key The foundation of social media safety starts with open and honest communica- tion between you and your child. Encour- age your child to talk about their online experiences, both positive and negative. Let them know they can come to you if they encounter anything uncomfortable or confusing online.
2. Set Clear Boundaries
and Expectations Establishing clear rules about social media use is crucial. Discuss what types of content are acceptable to post and view. Make sure your child understands the consequences of sharing personal information (age, hometown, school information, etc.) or engaging in risky online behavior. Teach your child about the importance of privacy settings and how to use them effectively. They should understand that once something is posted online, it can be difficult–if not impossible–to completely remove it. Help them set their profiles to private and explain the dangers of accepting friend requests or follows from strangers. It’s also crucial to discuss online etiquette—how to commu- nicate respectfully and the impact their words and actions can have on others. 3. Educate on Privacy and Online Etiquette
These apps allow you to set screen time limits, filter content and followers, and even monitor messages in some cases. Popular social media apps, including Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, Facebook, and Discord all offer these features. 5. Keep Up With What’s #Trending Social media platforms and online trends are constantly evolving. New apps, challenges, and threats emerge regularly, and it can be difficult to keep up. You can join online parenting groups, follow child safety organizations, and read up on the latest news regarding social media trends. This knowledge will help you to better understand what your child is experiencing and how to guide them through it. 6. Encourage Critical Thinking Finally, one of the best ways to keep your child safe online is to foster critical think- ing. Encourage them to question what they see on social media and to think critically about the content they consume and share. Discuss the difference be- tween real and fake information and the impact of algorithms on what appears in their feeds. Teach them to recognize red flags, such as messages from strangers,
requests for personal information, or any- thing that seems too good to be true. By equipping your child with critical thinking skills, you empower them to make safer choices online. Educate, Educate, Educate! Cyberbullying–the use of technology to harass, threaten, embarrass, or target another person–is, unfortunately, a large ongoing issue in the United States and more prevalent than most parents may think. A 2023 report by the Cyberbul- lying Research Center found that out of 74 Louisiana adolescents surveyed, 62.8 percent reported they had been cyberbullied at some point in their lives. Parents must educate their children about cyberbullying so they can rec- ognize when it’s happening and feel empowered to discuss it or report it to a trusted adult. While social media offers numerous benefits, from staying connected with friends to exploring new interests, it also comes with risks that parents need to navigate carefully. As the school year be- gins, make social media safety a priority in your household. After all, a safe online environment is essential for your child’s overall well-being.
4. Monitor Without Micromanaging
As a parent, it’s natural to want to keep tabs on your child’s online activity. Tools like parental control apps can help you stay informed without being overbearing.
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What’s the Deal with Literacy in Louisiana Schools?
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24 SEPTEMBER 2024 | NOLAFAMILY.COM development, particularly for students in the early grades. Data indicates that children who were three and four years old during the height of the pandemic experienced significant disruptions literacy across its schools, focusing on early education and implementing comprehensive strategies to address literacy challenges. The state’s approach encompasses legislative actions, target interventions, and the engagement of educators and parents to enhance reading skills among students, particularly those in early grades. COVID-19 AND LITERACY GAPS The COVID-19 pandemic has had a profound impact on literacy T he ability to read and write is illiteracy is a widespread problem. According to the Louisiana Department of Education’s 2023 Fall Reading Report, 70.5 percent of Kindergarten students were below reading level, and 55 percent of children in grades K-3 were below reading level. In a state with a literacy rate of 72.9 percent, these findings are problematic and raise a lot of concern for the state of education in Louisiana. In recent years, Louisiana has made significant strides in improving something that most people take for granted, but in Louisiana,
in early language development due to reduced access to early care, less interaction with peers, and limited exposure to enriching environments. As a result, second and third graders, who were particularly affected, have shown slower progress in literacy compared to younger students who were less impacted. LEGISLATIVE INITIATIVES IN ACTION Since 2021, the legislature has passed many laws concerning literacy education. Louisiana state officials and policymakers have worked to increase literacy support throughout the state through these acts: Act 108 Regular Legislative Session requires early literacy training for K-3 teachers of reading, math, science, and/or social studies, including special education teachers, and principals and assistant principals of schools that include grades K-3. Act 438 of the 2021 Regular Legislative Session requires coursework in teacher preparation programs specific to the teaching of reading and literacy. Act 448 of the 2022 Regular Legislative Session requires kindergarten through third-grade teachers seeking initial licensure to pass an examination of the
teaching of reading that is scientifically researched and evidence-based. One of the most impactful legislative measures has been the introduction of mandatory Science of Reading (SOR) training for kindergarten through third- grade teachers and school leaders. The Science of Reading is an evidence-based approach that emphasizes phonics and systematic instruction in decoding words. Prior to this legislation, Louisiana educators employed various, sometimes inconsistent, methodologies to teach reading, leading to uneven outcomes. The 2021 legislation mandated SOR training, ensuring that teachers across the state are equipped with a unified and research-backed strategy to improve literacy. Dr. Jenna Chiasson, Assistant State Superintendent of the Louisiana Board of Education, states, “We’re really showing some signs of incremental progress with literacy, especially in our lowest grade levels.” She believes that one of the biggest impacts on Louisiana’s literacy has been thanks to our state’s legislation. “Some of the things that have been passed in legislation that I think have really had an impact already and will have an impact for years to come, include things like a required Science of Reading (SOR) training for
our kindergarten through third grade teachers and leaders.” The state has also established a statewide literacy screener, introduced for the first time in the 2023-2024 academic year. This tool assesses students in kindergarten through third grade three times a year—beginning, middle, and end of year—to monitor reading progress and identify learning gaps. The screener provides valuable data for educators, allowing them to tailor instruction to meet individual student needs and address literacy challenges promptly. Finally, one of the latest updates in legislation has introduced a policy for third-grade retention based on literacy performance. Starting this school year, students performing at the lowest level on the end-of-year third-grade literacy screener are at risk of being retained in third grade. The policy outlines provisions for good cause exemptions and mandates intensive interventions for students retained in third grade. This measure aims to ensure that students develop necessary reading skills before advancing to fourth grade. ONGOING LITERACY SUPPORT In addition to legislative measures,
Louisiana has invested in literacy coaching to support teachers in implementing effective reading strategies. The state has deployed approximately 300 school-based literacy coaches who work directly with teachers and school leaders to enhance their instructional practices. Another way students can receive support is through literacy tutoring. One such initiative is the Steve Carter Tutoring Program, which provides parents with vouchers for free tutoring services. Each tutor is screened through the system to ensure competency and expertise in various subjects. According to Kezne Cook, parent of four, Steve Carter has helped bridge the literacy gap that her oldest child experienced as a result from the COVID-19 pandemic. She states, “During COVID-19, my child missed crucial literacy building blocks that would have helped prepare him for the next grade. With the Steven Carter Tutoring Program, my son has made tremendous progress in his literacy skills and development.” Through Steven Carter, parents can find a quality, vetted tutor who has the qualifications to help children gain the skills they may be lacking. The Steve Carter Program is designed to assist students who are
below grade level in reading or math and aims to provide additional support to help them catch up. THE PATH TO LITERACY EXCELLENCE Current literacy data reveals that while there has been notable progress, significant challenges remain. The most substantial gains have been observed among kindergarten and first-grade students, who have benefited most from recent improvements. However, the shift from second to third grade continues to be a critical period, often marked by a decline in reading proficiency. This shift is attributed to the increased expectation that students transition from learning to read to reading to learn by the end of third grade. “We have a comprehensive literacy plan as a state and there has been a lot of momentum around this literacy work,” says Dr. Chiasson. “Educators and policymakers have come together to make these improvements in classrooms. It’s an exciting time to be in Louisiana. We’ve seen some steady progress and we have to stay the course if we want to see this progress continue.”
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BY AMANDA MILLER Risky or Rite of Passage? Underage Drinking at Home
28 SEPTEMBER 2024 | NOLAFAMILY.COM idea, and some who are even unsure after weighing both sides. However, this controversial topic includes many sides, and it’s important to take note of what the experts recommend. WAIT, IS IT EVEN LEGAL? “I would rather it be done under my roof than somewhere else.” When it comes to teens drinking under their own parents’ roofs, many parents share this same sentiment: they would much rather their teen drink around them at home than anywhere else. Other reasons behind their approval stem from removing the taboo of drinking, encouraging better habits for when they’re older, creating a safer and monitored environment while the teen is drinking, and remembering what drinking was like when “we were their age.” While many parents approve, there are just as many parents who are against the
Often before the conversation even begins, several parents wonder if teens drinking at home is even allowed. What may come as a shock to many is that underage consumption of alcohol is actually legal in many states, including Louisiana, when consumed in a private residence. Louisiana’s policy, which can be found in the Alcohol Policy Information System (a project of the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism,) also states that it is legal when consumed with a parent/guardian or spouse present. BUT AREN’T THEY STILL DEVELOPING? According to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), yes, and because of this, AAP urges parents to establish rules and prevent their teens from drinking because it’s a “critical time for brain growth.” Lynn R. Schechter, PhD, MPAP, a medical psychologist, explains, “Alcohol is a toxin, so it will impact the brain of any
person who consumes it. A human brain continues to develop for the first 25 years of life, and so that is, in theory, when it is more vulnerable to the impact of substances since neuronal connections are still forming. This is especially problematic because the frontal lobe, which is responsible for making good decisions, isn’t yet developed, and alcohol in the body can impede its development.” Knowing the effects alcohol might have on your teens ahead of time could also be a teachable moment. One local parent, Jacki S. (initial is used because of requested anonymity), shares, “Allowing your teens (older to high school/college teens) to taste various alcohols and drink in moderation teaches them to drink more responsibly and enables a parent to have productive conversations with their children before they leave home. I want to see how it affects my child so we can talk about it, particularly as it relates to making sure you have control over yourself, make
smart decisions, and not drive after alcohol has been consumed.” IS IT REALISTIC TO THINK TEENS WON’T DRINK? “As a psychologist (and as a parent) of course I have to say the answer is no. We know that teenagers drink and that they will do it whether we want them to or not. So, it makes sense that parents have had the mindset that ‘if my kid’s going to drink, I’d like to be around to supervise them and make sure they’re safe,’ or ‘I want to make sure they’re not going to drink and drive.’ Other parents may feel that it will remove what I’d like to call the ‘taboo appeal’ of drinking, which can sometimes lurk in the background of kids’ minds as they get ready to leave for college and they’ve been prohibited from drinking until they leave,” says Dr. Schechter. When polling parents on whether or not they would allow their teens to drink at home, many said yes because it lessens the appeal of drinking when they are older. Local mom Katherine G., agrees with this. “It’s the nature of maturing. Children
want to rebel against the boundaries that are set for them. If they have access to alcohol at home, it loses the ‘cool’ factor. My parents always said I could have it if I wanted, but I thought it tasted disgusting, and I would roll my eyes when my friends got hold of cheap beer. I happily passed on it because I had no interest at all. All of the wildest kids I knew growing up had the strictest parents.” Parents who are against teens drinking at home feel that by allowing them to consume alcohol at a younger age only puts them on the road to addiction and offers a gateway to other illegal activities. A research study in the Journal of Studies WHAT DOES THE RESEARCH SAY? on Alcohol and Drugs that spanned over 15 years found that “allowing adolescents to drink at home is neither inherently protective nor risky but depends on the family context.” One of these factors to consider includes whether or not there is already a family history of alcohol problems. However, in AAP’s Alcohol Use by Youth policy statement, lead author Joanna
Quigley, MD, FAAP, shares, “Alcohol paves a pathway for addiction when the brain is still maturing, affecting the area that governs decision-making. As parents, we don’t want to downplay those risks, but keep the conversations open and model healthy habits.” SO, SHOULD THEY OR SHOULDN’T THEY? If you’re looking for an easy yes or no, you won’t find it here. Considering the facts from the experts, as well as what is legal in our state, there unfortunately isn’t a yes or no answer. The decision will ultimately come down to what the parent feels is best for their teen. Dr. Schechter adds, “The decision of whether to allow teenagers to drink at home is not a simple one but a personal one, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer in my opinion. Parents should be aware of the power that they have to influence their teens’ attitudes and behavior even through early adulthood.” If you’re looking for more insight and help with navigating through the decision process, reach out to your child’s doctor or another parent you trust.
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2 Kenner’s Hispanic Heritage Festival This celebration recognizes and honors the culture and contributions of Hispanic Americans with live music, food, family fun, and more! September 14. kenner.la.us
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Shrek The Musical Visit the Saenger Theatre to see the tale of an unlikely hero on a journey with a wisecracking Donkey and a feisty princess who resists her rescue. September 6-8. saengernola.com
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PAW Patrol Live! Heroes
Calling all good citizens to the UNO Lakefront Arena! The PAW Patrol is yelping for help as they face their greatest challenge yet. September 14-15. arena.uno.edu
5 Celebrate 20 years of the Sydney and Walda NOMA’s Fall Festival
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Play Soirée is the Louisiana Children’s Museum’s biggest fundraiser, uniting community leaders to support LCM’s mission of addressing local education and child development challenges. September 21. lcm.org
Besthoff Sculpture Garden at NOMA’s free outdoor festival! Enjoy guided tours, art activities, live music, and more fun for all ages! September 28. noma.org
Events may change after publication deadline. Please phone ahead to confirm important information. HEADS UP!
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Southern Decadence Parade Rolls from Golden Lantern Bar. 2-4 p.m. Free. southerndecadence.com The Hunchback of Notre Dame Slidell Little Theatre, Slidell, LA. 2 p.m. $25-$35. slidelllittletheatre.org 03 Farmers Market Weekly at Uptown Square. 8 a.m. to Noon. crescentcityfarmers market.org Storytime Weekly at Main Library, Milton H. Latter Memorial Library, Norman Mayer Library, and Robert E. Smith Library. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free. events.nolalibrary.org TUES. Crescent City
Gardens. 12:30-3 p.m. $100. longuevue.com Shrek The Musical Saenger Theatre. 7:30 p.m. $29-$79. saengernola.com The 6th Annual New Orleans Tattoo Arts Festival Ernest N. Morial Convention Center. 2-11 p.m. $20-$40. Children under 12 Free. villainarts.com The Curtain Call Ball 2024 Le Petit Theatre. 6:30 p.m. $150-$250. lepetittheatre.com The Hunchback of Notre Dame Slidell Little Theatre, Slidell, LA. 8 p.m. $25-$35. slidelllittletheatre.org 07 SAT. Betsy Wolfe *Pants Optional Le Petit Theatre. 7:30 p.m. $17-$87. lepetittheatre.com Bridgerton Weekend Through Sept. 9 at Parisian Courtyard Inn Bed and Breakfast New Orleans. $85-$175. theparisiancourtyardinn.com Childish Gambino Smoothie King Center. 8 p.m. $54+. smoothiekingcenter.com First Saturday Family Story Hour Robert E. Smith Library. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free. events.nolalibrary.org Garden Workshop: Grandparent & Me Edition Longue Vue House and Gardens. 2-3:30 p.m. $85. longuevue.com Shrek The Musical Saenger Theatre. 2 p.m. and 8 p.m. $29-$79. saengernola.com Sitter Superstars, Safe and
Free Community Day: National Wildlife Day Longue Vue House and Gardens. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Free. longuevue.com Homeschooling Hub Algiers Regional Library. 5-6:30 p.m. Free. events.nolalibrary.org Storytime Weekly at Alvar Library, Central City Library, Children’s Resource Center Library, and Nix Library. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free. events.nolalibrary.org Tunes on the Turf Picnic Provisions & Whiskey. 5-7 p.m. magazinestreet.com 05 THURS. A Doll’s House Through Sept. 22 at Marquette Theatre. 2:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. $10-$58.90. Weekly at Lafitte Greenway. 3-7 p.m. crescentcityfarmers market.org Storytime Weekly at Cita Dennis Hubbell Library, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Library, Mid- City Library, and Rosa F. Keller Library. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free. events.nolalibrary.org YALA Baby Artsplay! Ogden Museum of Southern Art. 9:30-10 a.m. Free. ogdenmuseum.org 06 FRI. simpletix.com Crescent City Farmers Market First Friday Tours & Tea Longue Vue house and
Weekly at Tad Gormley Stadium, New Orleans City Park. 8 a.m. to Noon. crescentcityfarmers market.org Free Family Sunday Longue Vue House and Gardens. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Free for LA residents. longuevue.com Harahan Farmers Market Weekly at Zeringue Park, Harahan, LA. 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. facebook.com Nature Explorers
Bayou Lacombe Visitor Center. 9:30 a.m. Free. visitthenorthshore.com
The Curtain Call Ball 2024. September 6.
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events.nolalibrary.org Raising Emotionally Intelligent Children 210 State St. 6-7 p.m. Free. For children aged 2-6. chnola. org/theparentingcenter Toddler Tuesday Children’s Museum of St. Tammany. 10:30-11:30 a.m. cmstkids.org 11 WEDS. Friends’ Fest Carousel Gardens Amusement Park. 6-9 p.m. Members only plus allotted guests. neworleanscitypark.org Twilight at Longue Vue: Desire Path Spanish Court, Longue Vue House and Gardens. 5-7 p.m. $15. longuevue.com 12 THURS. Brett Young 2024 Fall Tour
the Performing Arts. 7:30 p.m. $41-$55. rivertowntheaters.com School of Rock The Musical Jefferson Performing Arts Center. 7:30 p.m. $30-$80. jeffersonpac.com 14 SAT. 26th Annual Haynesville Butterfly Festival Claiborne Parish Fair Complex, Haynesville, LA. 8 a.m. haynesvillela.org ART JAM Andre Cailloux Center for Performing Arts and Cultural Justice. 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Free. Great Lawn, New Orleans City Park. 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. neworleanscitypark.org Children’s Storytime Baldwin & Co. Bookstore. 10- 11 a.m. Free. eventbrite.com Hairspray Rivertown Theaters for the Performing Arts. 7:30 p.m. $41-$45. rivertowntheaters.com Iliza: The Get Ready Tour Mahalia Jackson Theater. 7 p.m. $39.50+. kidsmart.org Arts Market mahaliajacksontheater.com Jelly Roll: The Beautifully Broken Tour Smoothie King Center. 7 p.m. $120+. smoothiekingcenter.com Kenner’s Hispanic Heritage Festival Laketown. 5-10 p.m. Free. kenner.la.us Oktoberfest Port Orleans Brewing Company. 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. facebook.com/events
Dinosaurs at Audubon Zoo. September 12-November 17.
In Charge DreamLab, Gonzales, LA. Open to girls, grades 5-8. 9 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Free. gsle.org The 6th Annual New Orleans Tattoo Arts Festival Ernest N. Morial Convention Center. 11 a.m. to 11 p.m. $20-$40. Children under 12 Free. villainarts.com The Hunchback of Notre Dame Slidell Little Theatre, Slidell, LA. 8 p.m. $25-$35. slidelllittletheatre.org Tulane Green Wave Football vs. Kansas State Wildcats Yulman Stadium. 11 a.m. $50- $100. tulanegreenwave.com 08 SUN. Baby ArtsPlay! Let’s Move New Orleans Art Museum. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free. nolajazzmuseum.org Saints vs. Carolina Panthers
Caesars Superdome. Noon. $65+. caesarssuperdome.com Shrek The Musical Saenger Theatre. 1 p.m. $29- $79. saengernola.com The 6th Annual New Orleans Tattoo Arts Festival Ernest N. Morial Convention Center. 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. $20- $40. Children under 12 Free. villainarts.com The Hunchback of Notre Dame Slidell Little Theatre, Slidell, LA. 2 p.m. $25-$35. slidelllittletheatre.org 10 TUES. First Tee Golf Classic Bayou Oaks at City Park. 8:30 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. $250+. firstteenola.org Martes en Mid-City con la Familia/Family Fun Night Mid-City Library. 5:30-6:30 p.m. Free.
Fillmore New Orleans. 6 p.m. $49.75-$79.75. ticketmaster.com Dealing with Challenging Behaviors 210 State St. 6-7 p.m. Free. Open to children aged 3-8. chnola.org/ theparentingcenter
Dinosaurs at Audubon Zoo Through Nov. 17 at Audubon Zoo. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. $8-$35. audubonnatureinstitute.org Gayle & Tom Benson New Orleans Sports Foundation Hall of Fame Induction Caesars Superdome. Noon. $1,400+. honorsluncheon.com Symphonie Fantastique Orpheum Theater. 7:30-9:30 p.m. $35-$67. lpomusic.com YALA Baby Artsplay! Ogden Museum of Southern Art. 9:30-10 a.m. Free. ogdenmuseum.org
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