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his wealth skyrocketed. In those 20 years, he went from having less than a million dollars in the bank to acquiring a net worth of well over a half-billion dollars. Berkshire had become a holding company, and Buffett was buying interest in numerous businesses — all ones he read about extensively before making the jump. This was the age of Warren Buffet. And it all came back to reading to gain knowledge and understanding. That was one, if not the main, key to Buffett’s success. It’s a lesson we can all learn from and apply in our own lives. But there’s one more lesson from Warren Buffett I want to share. Next month, I will conclude our look at Buffett and his success, and I will share that final lesson.
Custody battles can be devastating. They generally happen when two parents are caught up in the emotion of the divorce. Each parent says they want what is best for their child, but the child often becomes a casualty of the battle. They end up being pulled in two very different directions, and this can do a significant amount of harm. Realistically, there is no expectation that two divorcing parents like each other. Tensions may be sky-high. But it is crucial parents truly put their child’s needs above their own — and avoid letting their child be used as a pawn. This can be accomplished through thoughtful co-parenting, and here are a few tips to accomplish just that. Relationships matter. While there may be tension between you and the other parent, it’s important to encourage a healthy relationship between your child and the other parent. This isn’t about sugarcoating anything; instead it’s more about keeping the other parent in their child’s life in positive ways. Communication is key. As part of the healthy relationship, each parent should always keep the other in the loop when it comes to appointments, activities (school or otherwise), and anything else on the child’s schedule. This is where having a shared online calendar can be hugely beneficial. The child comes first. When it comes to scheduling major life events, things can get tricky. If possible, consider scheduling major events such as the child’s birthday, graduation party, and prom, etc. in such a way that the other parent has the option to attend and share the moment with their child. Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but when it comes to the well-being of the child, it is crucial as they grow and develop. It takes effort, but your child will thank you for making an effort — even if they don’t say it out loud. Successful co-parenting can have positive effects on the child that they will carry with them in to adulthood and their future relationships. C o -P arenting and G iving M ore to Y our C hild
—John Bledsoe
Grilled Beef Ribs
Inspired by Saveur magazine
Nothing feels more paleo appropriate than digging into a giant rack of beef ribs. This largely hands-off recipe requires plenty of hands-on eating, making you feel like one of our cave dwelling ancestors.
INGREDIENTS
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1 5-lb. rack of beef ribs
Kosher salt and black pepper, to taste
DIRECTIONS
1. Heat a charcoal, wood-burning, or gas grill to medium-high. Once heated, move heat source to one side or turn off half of the burners to create an indirect heat zone. 2. Season ribs with salt and pepper and char on the hotter side of the grill, turning occasionally, for 12–15 minutes. Once charred, transfer to the other side of grill and cook until the thickest part of the rib reaches 130 F, about 2 1/2–3 hours. 3. Let meat rest for 15 minutes. If desired, serve alongside grilled veggies.
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