GROOMS: BEST MAN IN THE SPOTLIGHT
Expert tips for delivering an unforgettable speech
Is your best man worried about his big day speech duties? These expert tips could help ease his worries…
W hen it comes to best man duties, one of the most public speaking can be a nerve-wracking experience for many individuals. Tom McLaughlin, a public speaking expert and Director at conference speaker agency JLA, provides valuable tips on conquering the fear and delivering an unforgettable best man's speech. important tasks is delivering a memorable speech. However,
Overcoming Glossophobia Glossophobia, the fear of public speaking, affects approximately 25 per cent of the population. Tom understands the anxiety that comes with speaking in front of a large audience and offers practical advice on how to combat nerves on the big day. Simplicity is key: To emphasise that a successful wedding speech doesn't need to be overly complex, Tom advises best men to focus on simplicity by sharing a heartfelt anecdote accompanied by genuine emotion. This approach leaves a lasting impression on the guests without resorting to lengthy or embarrassing stories. Preparation is crucial: To deliver a shining speech, Tom stresses the importance of preparation. He recommends the Best Man spends ample time rehearsing the speech out loud and records himself practicing. This allows him to identify areas for improvement and to refine his delivery. Creating note cards also serves as helpful reminders, ensuring he stays on track even if there's a momentary lapse in memory. Length and impact: Keeping the speech concise is key to maintaining the audience's attention. Tom suggests aiming for around five minutes, within which essential points can be covered and guests can be captivated. Prioritising quality over quantity is crucial for making a memorable impression. Flow and engagement: Tom highlights the
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significance of a clear and natural flow in the speech. Starting with a compelling statement or thought-provoking question instantly engages the audience. Addressing guests as a collective fosters a sense of inclusivity. It's important to avoid getting sidetracked, as a focused structure ensures coherence and impact. Finally, though having a drink before the speech may calm the nerves, make sure your Best Man doesn’t go overboard. Excessive alcohol consumption before speaking can lead to a rambling and disjointed delivery. Good luck!
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