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Bolton Bulletin The August 2023
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Help Me Welcome a Great Attorney and An Even Better Friend Introducing Bruce: Bolton Law Firm’s Managing Attorney
Having the opportunity to work alongside some of the best talent is amazing — especially when they are a lifelong friend. I’ve known Bruce, the managing attorney at Bolton Law Firm, for 20 years. We have had several cases against each other throughout our careers, and his skill, prowess, preparedness, professionalism, and ability to argue his points to the court has always impressed me. Over time, we became friends, and before or after a trial, we’d sit in the courtroom and chat. Last August, an amazing opportunity presented itself. Bruce and I were both attending the Advanced Family Law seminar in San Antonio, and as you would expect from old friends, we started chatting. Throughout our time together, I found myself thinking how much I would like to add Bruce to my team. We had a lot of similar cases, and the thought of adding another attorney with experience comparable to mine was very attractive. I threw the suggestion out as a joke, just to see how Bruce might respond. I told him he would love living in The Woodlands much more than his current downtown location. Instead of laughing it off, he said, “That’s an interesting suggestion.” We agreed to go out to lunch the week we both got back into town. It didn’t take long for us to hammer out the details. He has now been with Bolton Law for nearly a year and helps to balance the attorneys’ caseloads. He is also available for guidance whenever an associate is facing a situation that is unfamiliar to them. He’s a fabulous resource for our less-experienced attorneys and embraces teaching and coaching. Bruce has been practicing law for 30 years now — he was a solo practitioner for about 26 years and served as the head of the family law department at another firm before we welcomed him aboard. Bruce’s parents were divorced, and being divorced himself, he understands just how important it is to have a family law attorney on your side whom you can trust and rely on.
“I believe that God gave me some skills and I try to use them as best as I can to help others,” Bruce says. “Family law can present some unfortunate situations, but it’s my calling to create a better path for those families and to always put the best interest of the children first. I love being a part of Bolton Law Firm — making a difference in the lives of others motivates me, and I enjoy my job. I’m usually the first to arrive and the last to leave.” Outside of work, Bruce loves to play golf. He’s a left-handed golfer, and while he enjoys the game, he wishes he could play better. “A bad day on the golf course is still a really good day,” he says. He enjoys his dogs, used to race sailboats, and views his job as a hobby, too! Bruce, we are thrilled you decided to join the team. You are a blessing, a wealth of knowledge, and a skilled professional! -Ruby Bolton
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A Textbook Won’t Do You Justice! Why Traveling Is the Best Form of Education
You gain a deeper appreciation for history. When you walk through important historical locations, you understand the past better because you’re living it! You’re walking the same
As you mark your calendars with upcoming holidays, get-togethers, events, and school activities, there may be one you’re missing: American Adventures Month. This monthlong event encourages you to be adventurous and travel so you can better understand the world around you. While you can research online or open a book to learn more about any part of the world, nothing beats visiting these places yourself. Here are three reasons why traveling is the best form of education.
roads or staring at the same landmarks that civilizations from centuries ago did. When you immerse yourself in the history of a place, you can better understand why its origins are meaningful. You leave your comfort zone. Traveling somewhere new can be nerve-wracking! You won’t know the best mode of transportation or know anyone there — you may not even speak any native languages! By leaving what makes you comfortable, you’ll learn to depend on yourself and embrace change and uncertainty. These skills can and will help you in all aspects of life.
You learn more about people. When you travel to other states or
There isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach to parenting, so when you become a parent, you’ll likely employ techniques you learned from family or friends and what you learned on your own. Naturally, these techniques and your preferences may differ from what your loved ones did for their children, and sometimes, it can be difficult for them to adjust. Because of this, how do you set boundaries with family members regarding your children? Be direct when communicating boundaries. Don’t assume your loved ones know or understand your parenting style. Instead, clearly state your rules, values, practices, and expectations when others are around your children. When creating physical boundaries, you can say, “Please don’t give my child soda when they visit. That’s something I don’t want them to have.” For emotional boundaries, you can say, “Please don’t force my child to hug you. If they refuse, give them their space without compromising their feelings and comfortability.” Develop a strategy for handling pushback. “I did this with my kids, and they turned out fine!” You may have heard this quote when vocalizing your wishes to loved ones about how to treat your children. If they question your tactics, practice what you will say so you’re not caught off guard. But most importantly, remember why you’re establishing these boundaries ‘But I Did This With My Kids!’ How to Set Boundaries With Your Family internationally, you can learn a lot about the culture of these places by speaking to residents. They can suggest historical places for you to visit that teach you about their heritage, lifestyle, and what life was like for their ancestors. You will think about things you’ve never considered before and have a deeper appreciation for the views of others.
So, travel this month and learn something new! We understand you can’t drop everything just to hop on a plane to another country, so try venturing to a nearby city you’ve never visited and learning about its history.
and upholding those values. If your loved ones fail to respect your wishes, don’t be afraid to reinforce those boundaries — it’s okay to say no! Give your family time to adjust. Changing and creating new habits is challenging, so give your loved ones time to adjust to your boundaries. However, if you’re continuing to reinforce your wishes and still meeting pushback and disrespect, it’s okay to distance yourself or cut ties. You have to put what’s best for you and your family first. If you have any questions or concerns about establishing boundaries with your loved ones, contact a marriage and family therapist to assist you. They can provide more insight and resources to help you during this time.
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If you wanted to pinpoint a civilization that has impacted our society and government in more ways than one, ancient Greece should be one of the first civilizations you think of. The ancient Greeks made significant contributions to philosophy, mathematics, astronomy, medicine, literature, and so much more. Today, No Food, Beverages, Gum, or High Heels Allowed! How Greece Is Preserving Its Ancient Sites
TAKE A BREAK
you can still visit their magnificent monuments and tour ancient sites — it will surely make you feel like you’ve returned to ancient times!
HOISIN-GLAZED PORK CHOPS
However, if you plan on traveling to Greece, there are a few things you need to know. For example, in 2009, Greek authorities implemented a law stating that you cannot wear high heels while walking around these historic sites. Because these monuments are centuries old, they have experienced a lot of wear and tear. And visitors (or locals) wearing stiletto heels can damage these sites even more with their spiked heels. But that’s not the only law Greek authorities instituted in 2009. You also can’t bring food, drinks, or gum to most of these historical sites. The Odeon of Herodes Atticus in Athens, Greece, was built in 161 A.D. To this day, it continues to be a stadium for live performances, festivals, and other activities. But in 2009, Greek authorities and the venue’s maintenance crew knew something needed to change. As the crew cleaned up the stadium, they discovered nearly 60 pounds of chewing gum beneath the marble seats. Because of this incident of littering — and many others — Greek officials came up with a solution, and new laws were created. If we want to preserve the history of these places and the culture of the ancient Greeks, continue learning more about them, and use their buildings and stadiums, then we must follow the preventive measures the modern Greeks put in place. So, if you plan on traveling to Greece to see the iconic Parthenon temple, the Odeon of Herodes Atticus, the Temple of Apollo, the Temple of Zeus, or other locations, be sure to wear your comfiest shoes, and eat and drink before visiting!
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These savory and sweet pork chops are covered in a flavorful hoisin glaze and take only 30 minutes! Ingredients
• 2 garlic cloves, minced • 2 tsp minced ginger • 1/3 cup hoisin sauce • 2 tbsp rice vinegar • 2 tbsp water
• 4 boneless pork chops (about 2 lbs) • 3/4 tsp salt • 2 tbsp sesame oil • Cilantro (optional)
Directions 1. In a small saucepan over medium heat, simmer garlic, ginger, hoisin sauce, rice vinegar, and water. Whisk occasionally until mixture is fully incorporated (about 4 minutes). Set aside. 2. Lightly salt pork chops. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, add sesame oil and wait until smoking. Place pork in skillet and cook until browned (3-4 minutes on each side, depending on thickness of pork chops). 3. Remove pork chops from skillet and transfer to a cutting board. Let rest for 5 minutes. 4. Drizzle hoisin mixture over pork chops and top with cilantro if desired.
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE
We Are Proud to Introduce Bruce, Our Managing Attorney
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Ditch the Textbook — Go Travel Instead
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Boundaries Can Be Met With Pushback — Are You Ready?
Hoisin-Glazed Pork Chops
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You’re Forbidden From Wearing Heels in Greece? Beyoncé Owes the IRS How Much Money?!
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Even Beyoncé Owes Them Money! YOU’RE NOT ALONE WHEN DEALING WITH THE IRS
After filing your taxes, a thought that may race through your mind is, “I hope the IRS doesn’t come after me.” Thousands, if not millions, of people are in the same boat — including celebrities. Many celebrities have been in trouble with the IRS, such as Mike “The Situation” Sorrentino, Shakira, Ozzy and Sharon Osbourne, Nicolas Cage, and more.
However, we can add another A-List celebrity to this list who filed a petition against the IRS: Beyoncé Knowles-Carter. On Jan. 18, 2023, Beyoncé received a Notice of Deficiency, which outlined the amount of money she owed to the IRS. The organization estimated the singer owes $805,850 in taxes and $161,170 in penalties for 2018 plus $1,442,747 in taxes and $288,549 in penalties for 2019. That’s almost $2.7 million that the “Crazy in Love” artist must pay! Beyoncé filed a petition against the IRS’ claims on April 17, 2023, and asked them to reassess the penalties and amount of taxes she owes. According to Beyoncé’s lawyer, Michael C. Cohen, the singer should get an itemized deduction of $868,766 since she donated to charity in 2018. Beyoncé founded the BeyGood Foundation, an organization created in 2013 that assists
others with education, disaster relief, mental health, and other issues. However, at the time of writing, it’s unclear which charities she donated to. Additionally, Beyoncé’s petition states that the IRS allegedly disallowed portions of Beyoncé’s business income deductions, utilities, insurance, management fees, and legal and professional services in 2018 and 2019. Furthermore, Cohen argues that even if she owes any tax deficiency payments, the penalty shouldn’t apply because Beyoncé has “acted reasonably and in good faith.” A court hearing has yet to be scheduled at the time of writing. But the former Destiny’s Child member’s lawyer told PEOPLE magazine that they “are working with the IRS and anticipate that the matter will be resolved shortly.”
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