been dating, we learned that my mother had breast cancer. The news was devastating. Even when she shared practical lessons in personal fi - nance and the importance of saving money, my mother was quietly bat- tling a disease that had been known to our family for years. Initially, my parents pursued traditional treatments. During my wedding, my mother was on a water fast, steadfastly refusing allopathic treatment. Only after my husband convinced both her and my father to consult an oncologist and assured them of our full support, we embarked on a new phase of treatment. Although she underwent a successful surgery, the outlook remained challenging due to the late start of chemotherapy. Through every trial, my mother exhibited remarkable strength and re- silience. Her only wish was for her children to settle down and witness the joy of a grandchild. Her dream came true the year my younger sister married, and my elder sister visited with her daughter; the same year, my mother, at peace with herself, decided to let go of her fight against can - cer. We lost her in 2013, and just three months later, I conceived. I often reflect on how much I wish my daughter could have met her resilient, brave, and loving grandmother. My mother taught me never to give up and to pursue financial inde - pendence with determination. Her legacy lives on in every lesson she imparted and every choice I make, a constant reminder of the strength that defines our family.
Diana Milena Alfonso Cárdenas TP in Colombia
Being a mother has not been an easy journey, but from the moment I held my daughter in my arms, I knew that my love for her is the purest, unconditional love that asks for nothing in return. Despite her diagnosis of arthritis and hearing loss being a huge challenge, I have always re- minded her that she is much more than any diagnosis. I’ve taught her that the only limit she has is the sky. Over the years, I have come to understand that although life is not al- ways easy, we can make it beautiful by enjoying the small moments of happiness it gives us every day. I’ve always told her that as long as she does good for others, I will be by her side, supporting her uncondition- ally. If she ever sees a child on the street or a needy animal and has the ability to help, I’ve taught her to do so because what you do today, whether good or bad, returns to you in some way. Since she was little, I’ve shown her the importance of making the most of her education because I know that nothing she faces will be too big for her. My daughter came into this world for great things, and I am con- vinced she is able to achieve them. Through my own example, I’ve always shown her that anything is possible with discipline, love, and effort. And most importantly, I’ve taught her that love is the center of the universe, and she is love in everything she is.
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EXAMPLE OF RESILIENCE
LETTERS TO MOTHERS
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