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We are proud to announce that three of our attorneys have been selected by their peers to the 2019 South Carolina Super Lawyers and Rising Stars lists.
two decades. We handle all matters of family law, including child custody, child support, and divorce. We are well-equipped to handle all divorce and family law matters, regardless of your circumstances. Contact us at (864) 598-9172 to schedule an initial consultation.
Our Senior Partner, Ben Stevens, was selected to the 2019 South Carolina
Super Lawyers list and Jenny Stevens, our Managing Partner, and Jonathan Lounsberry, our Senior Associate, were both selected to the 2019 South Carolina Super Lawyers Rising Stars list. Super Lawyers, a Thomson Reuters company, is a national rating service of outstanding lawyers from more than 70 practice areas who have attained a high degree of peer recognition and professional achievement. The annual selections are made using a patented, multiphase process that includes a statewide survey of lawyers, an independent research evaluation of candidates, and peer reviews by practice area. The result is a credible, comprehensive, and diverse listing of exceptional attorneys. Our attorneys are proud of this honor and work hard every day to earn the trust and respect of their professional colleagues represented by this achievement. The Stevens Firm, P.A. Family Law Center has provided exceptional legal counsel and support to families throughout South Carolina for over
–Ben and Jenny Stevens
Reminder About Our Firm’s Communication Policy Our promise to you is that while we are working on your case, we don’t take inbound phone calls, faxes, or emails. Our senior partner, Ben Stevens, takes no unscheduled inbound phone calls, as we have found this makes him much more productive and enables him to focus on getting your case resolved faster. You can always call our office at (864) 598-9172 and schedule an in-person or phone appointment with any of our attorneys, usually within 24–48 hours. We believe this approach is much better than the endless game of phone tag played by most businesses today. Email is also an efficient way to communicate with us, but please
be advised that emails are not typically checked more than twice per day. If you need something quickly, don’t email — call our office and speak with one of our assistants, who will be happy to help you. Disclaimer: This publication is intended to educate the general public about family law issues. It is not intended to be legal advice. Every case is different. The information in this newsletter may be freely copied and distributed so long as the newsletter is copied in its entirety and proper credit is attributed to “The Stevens Firm, P.A. — Family Law Center (SCFamilyLaw.com).”
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Learning to Be Grateful
Some Ways to Help Children Appreciate Their Teachers
Teacher Appreciation Week runs from May 6–10 this year, and there are plenty of ways students of all ages can thank their educators for everything they do. Being a teacher isn’t an easy job, and the people who make it their profession are passionate about helping kids learn. Depending on how old your child is, they may need a parent’s help in showing their appreciation. Here are a few ways parents and children can appreciate teachers together. Thank-You Notes This gesture is simple and sweet and can be very thoughtful. Telling a teacher what makes them outstanding can often be just as valuable as a gift. Help your child write an appreciative note and then write one yourself. Teachers often have to maintain the happiness of students, administrators, and parents. Your card could relieve some of the stress of that balancing act and let them know that you acknowledge their efforts. A Homemade Meal Making a homemade meal (or dessert) shows teachers that you went the extra mile to appreciate their hard work. You could make a favorite dish of yours or try to find a new recipe online. Either way, encourage your child to help you with the process so that the meal is truly a gift from both of you.
Donating School Supplies Many teachers use their own money to buy school supplies for their classroom. This is just one of the ways teachers go above and beyond on a daily basis, and buying some extra school supplies can help ease that cost. Take your child shopping with you and help them pick out supplies that you know their teacher will appreciate.
Your children spend several hours a day with their teachers, so fostering relationships with them is vital. Use this day to help your children understand the importance of teachers, to teach them the power of gratitude, and to encourage them to show respect for everyone who helps them in life. Parenthood and Custody Agreements
How to Navigate the Upcoming Holidays as Former Spouses Throughout the entire divorce process, the most emotionally murky aspect is often effectuating a custody agreement with which both you and your former spouse feel comfortable. Some divorces end in drawn-out custody battles with parents fighting tooth and nail for more parental rights or time shared with kids. But even in the most heated of custody arguments, it’s important to remember the court’s primary role: to establish an order that is in the best interest of the child. When parents don’t have a formal custody order, either because they are very early in the custody process or because they
have decided to make custody arrangements on their own, it is important to keep the best-interests principle in mind. By being flexible, you can avoid having to bring the issue before a judge. Conversely, if your former spouse is being unreasonable with respect to accommodating sensible custody requests, it may be time to get our attorneys here at The Stevens Firm involved. Let us know how we can help!
With both Mother’s Day and Father’s Day fast approaching, divorced parents may anticipate some unique issues regarding their custody agreement. Often, the more “minor” holidays are lost in the shuffle when parents are discussing where children will spend holidays such as Christmas and Thanksgiving. While it may seem obvious that a mother should have custody on Mother’s Day and a father should have custody on Father’s Day, what happens if Father’s Day falls during the mother’s custodial weekend? Situations like these require parents to think back to the court’s role in custody agreements. If you are truly thinking of your child’s preferences, then, in nearly every case, your son’s or daughter’s best interest is served by spending time with the parent that is being celebrated on a specific holiday.
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Shrimp Sausage Skewers These shrimp skewers are a quick way to add some surf and turf to your cookout. Pair them with a vinaigrette salad for a side dish that complements without overwhelming the main event.
Ingredients
• 1/2 pound raw shrimp, peeled and deveined • 1/2 pound cooked sausage, cut into 1-inch pieces • 2 zucchini, cut into 1/2-inch cubes • 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil • Wooden skewers, soaked in water for 30 minutes
Creole Seasoning Ingredients • 2 tablespoons paprika • 1/2 tablespoon garlic powder • 1/2 tablespoon onion powder • 1/2 tablespoon cayenne or chili powder • 1/4 tablespoon dried oregano • 1/4 tablespoon dried thyme
Tips for Helping Your Kids Celebrate Mother’s Day This month, you and your kids have an opportunity to show honor and appreciation for mothers. Despite popular opinion, being divorced does not relieve you of your responsibility to educate your children on the importance of special occasions. This holiday gives you a chance to teach your children to consider the relationships they have with the women who gave birth to them and the roles that mothers play in their lives. While it might feel awkward at first to initiate a celebration for your ex-spouse, your help in the Mother’s Day-planning process could greatly reduce the pressure your kids feel. Here are some tips to consider. Help With Crafts Even if crafting isn’t necessarily your forte, your kids might enjoy making their mom a card for Mother’s Day. The vast majority of major retail stores carry craft supplies. Grab the kids and let them pick out brightly colored paper, markers, stencils, and stickers galore. Go Shopping Depending on your kids’ ages, they might feel uncomfortable or be unable to call a florist to have a bouquet delivered to their mom. This is an opportunity for you to offer a ride, a helpful opinion, or a dollar or two for the cause. Make Reservations Similar to helping your kids order a flower delivery, you can assist them to make reservations for a nice dinner with their mom. Even though you’re no longer with your ex-spouse, chances are you remember both your kids’ and her food preferences, which means that you can help them plan a special evening this Mother’s Day. Even though going shopping for your former spouse might not top your list of fun-filled afternoon activities, your kids will undoubtedly appreciate your help in the planning process. In many cases, children in blended families feel uncomfortable approaching parents for assistance with situations involving gift-giving. Take the first step and ask how you can help. Even If It Feels a Little Awkward
Directions
1. Heat your grill to medium-high. 2. In a bowl, combine all ingredients for creole seasoning. 3. In a large bowl, combine the shrimp, zucchini pieces, and sausage pieces, and cover them with the olive oil. 4. Add creole seasoning and mix well until all ingredients are covered. 5. Load up skewers with alternating pieces of shrimp, sausage, and zucchini until they’re full. 6. Grill skewers until shrimp are well-cooked (6–8 minutes).
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Go Green
Get Out There With These Eco-Tourism Tips Vacations can come with great expense, and not just for your bank account. According to a 2018 study published in Nature Climate Change, travel accounts for 8 percent of global greenhouse gas emissions. Cut through the greenwashing and do your part to lessen these emissions by traveling sustainably. Travel Green When possible, trains, hybrid buses, and carpooling are great alternatives to larger, more environmentally intrusive travel methods. Large cruise liners are detrimental to oceans, and airplanes emit large amounts of toxins into the air. However, you can cruise and fly with the earth in mind. Some cruise lines are working to reduce their impact by installing more eco-friendly lighting and materials, and flight experts recommend using “green” airports, choosing fuel-efficient airlines, staying longer, and traveling less. If anything, it’s an excuse to extend your European vacation! Stay Green Where you stay impacts the environment as much as how you get there. Hotels use copious amounts of water for bathing and laundry, and they struggle to reduce energy because guests leave their lights and televisions on. However, many luxury resorts, woodsy cabins, and
even entire countries have opted to make eco-tourism easier. If you’re looking for a region of the world committed to preserving nature, look no further than Iceland, Finland, and Sweden, which are ranked the three most environmentally friendly places in the world. Do Green Man-made attractions like the Egyptian pyramids and Machu Picchu are some of the world’s greatest wonders, but Earth itself is pretty breathtaking. Check out natural attractions while hiking or camping in preserved forests, or soak up all the Caribbean has to offer by snorkeling, scuba diving, sailing, kayaking, canoeing, and paddleboarding. When you’re mindful of your surroundings and remain unobtrusive, there are endless outdoor activities you can explore. Some locations even partner with environmentally conscious organizations you can donate to or volunteer with.
Opt for a green vacation and know that while you relax, the earth is getting a little relief too.
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