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What I Hope You Remember This Holiday Season Your Estate Plan Should Do More Than Divide Your Stuff
When I was a kid, the holidays were mostly about the presents. You count the days, wonder what is under the tree, and hope somebody remembered the one thing you have been talking about for months. One year, it was a skateboard, and yes, I did get it.
same room becomes less automatic, which makes it more valuable. After doing this work for more than 20 years, I have learned that what families value most is not usually their “stuff.” Of course, an estate plan has to address the “stuff”: the house, the bank accounts, the retirement funds, and everything else a person has accumulated. Those things matter. But what families really want to preserve goes far beyond property. It is their traditions, values, stories, and the relationships that hold everyone together. That is one reason our planning includes things that many people would not think of as traditional estate-planning documents. A Wealth Organizer helps your family know what you own, where it is, and whom to contact. A Guardian Guidance Letter allows parents to leave more than a legal nomination; it gives the people raising their children insight into their values, routines, and hopes. CareCircle helps identify the people who should be involved when help is needed. Our Estate Plan Owner’s Guide and trustee and beneficiary manuals explain what to do when the plan must actually be used. These tools will never replace the stories told around the table or the traditions passed from one generation to the next, but they can keep a difficult time from becoming even harder. They can spare a spouse or child from searching through drawers, guessing what you wanted, or trying to understand complicated legal documents while grieving. To me, that is part of what a good estate plan should do. It should not merely distribute assets. It should help the people you love carry on.
Then you get older, and the holidays change.
The presents are still fun, but they are no longer what you remember most. You remember who was sitting around the table. You remember hearing the same stories you have heard a hundred times and carrying on traditions that probably seem ordinary to everyone outside your family. You remember the laughter, the arguments, and the relatives who showed up unannounced to my grandparents’ house, forcing us to give up a share of Nanny’s homemade raviolis, because “company” ate first. If that was you, it’s okay, we loved having you! What I’d give to have one more holiday sitting around my grandparents’ table, eating Nanny’s cooking, and waiting on Papa to get off the phone with his fellow football referees so we could eat! I’m a Thanksgiving guy at heart. For my family, Thanksgiving has included trips to New Hampshire. Like any family tradition, it involves planning, packing, travel, and the occasional argument. But what stays with me is having everyone together. As my children have gotten older, I appreciate that more than I used to. Life gets busier. Schedules become harder to coordinate. Eventually, the people you once had to drag out of bed for a family gathering now have jobs, relationships, and lives of their own. Getting everyone into the
The holidays are also a good reminder that families do not stand still. Children grow up. Parents get older. People marry, divorce, move, become ill, or welcome new family members. The plan that fit your life several years ago may not reflect the family sitting at your table today. That is why we include three-year reviews with our planning. It is not enough to put documents in a binder and assume they will remain right forever. This holiday season, enjoy the presents. Enjoy the food, the familiar stories, and even the chaos. But while the people who matter most are together, take a moment to think about what you hope they will carry forward. Talk about the traditions you value, the people you trust, and what you would want if life changed unexpectedly. Then make sure your estate plan still supports those wishes. If it has been three years or more since you reviewed your plan, this is a good time to schedule that conversation. The best gift we can leave our families is not simply what we own. It is clarity, guidance, and the comfort of knowing that, even in a difficult moment, we took the time to make things a little easier for them. –Mike Monteforte Jr.
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A YouTuber’s Stunts Spark a Lawsuit THE GREAT BURGER BUNGLE
Today’s digital media landscape has prompted millions to create attention- seeking content in a quest for “likes” and subscriptions. For one infamous YouTuber, the desire for internet celebrity status came with a side of legal consequences after he attempted to cast a popular California fast- food chain in a negative light. Posing as an employee of In-N-Out Burger (complete with a fake uniform), Bryan Arnett recorded himself interacting with customers at various store locations in the early months of 2025. While in his phony persona, Arnett (among other things) told customers that the restaurant’s food contained condoms and was infested with cockroaches and offered to prepare fries “doggy style.” In one widely reported encounter, he made an inappropriate proposition to a customer involving his wife. Arnett later uploaded recordings of these interactions to his YouTube
channel, which had amassed more than 300,000 subscribers.
Unsurprisingly, In-N-Out Burger didn’t appreciate Arnett’s humor. The company filed a lawsuit against the online prankster, seeking a jury trial and “damages in the full amount In-N-Out has sustained as a consequence of Defendant’s acts, trebled where provided by law.” According to the suit, In-N-Out Burger had previously sent Arnett a cease-and-desist letter to prevent him from making further videos. Arnett claims he never received such communication. Commenting on the situation on his YouTube channel, Arnett offered little more than a verbal shrug. “I was aware of what I was getting myself into,” he said. “I knew I was teetering the line a little bit, pushing my luck. And
at the end of the day, I’m a grown-**s man. I understand your actions have consequences, so I’m not surprised. And just so we’re clear, this isn’t me admitting guilt on everything I’m reading, but if you saw the video, you saw the video.” In-N-Out Burger later dismissed the case without prejudice. While it’s currently unclear whether they will take further legal action, it’s fair to assume asking customers for sexual favors or hyping the presence of insects in popular menu items isn’t official In-N-Out Burger corporate conduct.
You’re Trying to Help, but These Parenting Habits May Create Fear
Knowing When Protection Becomes Overprotection
Every parent wants to raise a confident, resilient child. But sometimes, habits born of love, protection, and good intentions can send a very different message. A quick “Be careful!” or stepping in to solve every problem might seem harmless in the moment, but over time, those interactions can shape how children view the world. If kids constantly receive the message that life is dangerous or that they can’t handle challenges on their own, anxiety can quietly take root. Don’t assume parents are solely to blame for their child’s anxiety. Many factors, including genetics, personality, and life experiences, influence anxiety. But understanding how everyday parenting habits affect emotional development can help families build confidence
a few deep breaths and figure this out,” teaches children that anxiety is something you can manage rather than fear. Learning Perfection Isn’t the Goal High expectations can motivate children, but constant pressure to perform perfectly often has the opposite effect. Kids who believe mistakes aren’t acceptable may become afraid to try new things or take healthy risks. Praising effort, persistence, and problem-solving rather than focusing solely on results helps children develop a growth mindset and feel more secure. Making Room for Big Feelings Children don’t need every uncomfortable emotion to disappear. They need to know those emotions are normal and temporary. Listening without immediately fixing every problem helps kids build emotional confidence. When parents respond with patience and empathy, children learn that feeling anxious doesn’t mean they’re in danger. It simply means they’re experiencing a feeling they can work through.
It’s natural to want to shield children from disappointment, failure, or discomfort. The problem is that avoiding every difficult situation prevents kids from learning an important lesson: They can handle difficulties. Whether that’s ordering their own food, working through a disagreement with a friend, or recovering from a poor grade, these experiences teach resilience. Children gain confidence by facing manageable challenges, not by avoiding them. Modeling What Coping Looks Like Children are incredibly observant. If a parent frequently worries out loud, expects
the worst, or reacts to everyday problems with panic, kids often absorb those patterns. That doesn’t mean parents need to hide their emotions. Instead, it helps to model healthy coping skills. Saying, “I’m feeling stressed, so I’m going to take
instead of fear.
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Stop Stressing Over What You Can’t Control The Stoic Secret to a Calmer Mind
TAKE A BREAK
“We suffer more in imagination than in reality.” – Seneca
Too often, we let things completely out of our control dominate our minds, thoughts, and emotions. Whenever we turn on the news and hear about AI taking over our jobs, a new war brewing, or legislation that could impact our or our children’s future, it’s common for stress to spike and fear to increase. However, we can’t do much about these situations as they unfold, so we shouldn’t let them take over our headspace. That’s when Stoicism can come in handy. Stoic philosophy has been touted by the likes of Bill Clinton, Teddy Roosevelt, Tom Brady, and Brie Larson, but its roots go back thousands of years. Around 300 B.C., a merchant named Zeno was stranded in Athens after a shipwreck left him penniless. He began studying philosophy and later taught his own theories, which eventually became Stoicism. Competing philosophies and the emergence of
Christianity left Stoicism behind, but the Renaissance brought it back into the public light.
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Stoicism places a heavy emphasis on how the individual responds to
situations, especially those outside one’s control. It’s taking power over your mind to ensure that negative, detrimental thoughts and emotions don’t creep into your psyche. Take anger, for example. We
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encounter situations daily that make us mad, and when we feel that tension rise, we want to respond immediately. However, that anger won’t actually accomplish anything. You have to find a way to redirect your thoughts toward something more productive instead of letting rage boil within you. Modern Stoicism puts additional emphasis on three specific ideas: • Judgment, which is how we receive and react to new information • Virtue, focusing on what is inherently good and what benefits us • Interconnectedness, as we are all part of something bigger than ourselves Living your life with a Stoic mindset will help you become the best version of yourself. Don’t believe us? Read “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius and see for yourself! “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” – Marcus Aurelius
• 2 tbsp mayonnaise • 2 tbsp butter, softened • 1 tsp minced fresh rosemary • 1 tsp minced fresh oregano • 1 tsp minced fresh sage
• 1 tsp minced fresh thyme • 1 tsp grated lemon zest • 1 tsp salt • 1/2 tsp black pepper • 4 lbs bone-in, skin-on turkey breast, thawed
Directions 1. In a small bowl, mix mayonnaise, butter, rosemary, oregano, sage, thyme, lemon zest, salt, and pepper. 2. Rub the mixture evenly over the turkey breast, then preheat the air fryer to 350 F. 3. Place turkey skin-side down in the basket and cook 22–26 minutes. 4. Flip and cook for 25–35 more minutes, until the skin is crisp and the internal temperature reaches 165 F. 5. Transfer the turkey to a carving board, cover with foil, and let rest for 10 minutes. 6. Remove the meat from the bone, slice, and serve warm.
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Florida Man’s Pokémon Heist Goes Off the Rails
Forget Pikachu, Someone Call the Police on This Florida Man Gotta Catch ’Em All … Just Don’t Use a Chainsaw
In the world of Pokémon, collectors will go to extraordinary lengths to catch rare cards. They’ll rip through booster packs, trade with fellow fans, and spend thousands chasing the perfect addition to their collection. Apparently, one Florida man took “catching them all” a little too seriously. A West Palm Beach man is facing burglary and grand theft charges after allegedly breaking into a trading card store and stealing approximately $12,000 worth of Pokémon cards with a battery- powered chainsaw. Pikachu might have electric powers, but he certainly would not approve … Surveillance footage allegedly showed a man attempting to smash the hurricane-resistant front window with a rock before switching strategies and cutting a triangle-shaped opening with a chainsaw. The not-so-smooth operation even left behind a little extra evidence: blood from the window breach. After reviewing the other surveillance footage, investigators captured the culprit’s license plate and traced the vehicle to a West Palm Beach address, where the suspect, 33-year-old Clayton Warren, was arrested. Warren was charged with burglary of an unoccupied structure and grand theft of property valued between $10,000 and $20,000.
While this chainsaw- wielding get-rich-quick scheme seems absurd, stealing rare collectible cards is actually a very real ongoing trend. Rare Pokémon cards can sell for hundreds or even thousands of dollars, making them attractive targets for thieves looking for a quick payday.
Just earlier this year, another Florida trading card store was hit when thieves reportedly stole more than $45,000 worth of Pokémon and Magic: The Gathering cards. Other collectible shops across the country have also experienced similar thefts, prompting many owners to increase security measures. So, whether you’re hunting down rare Charizards or chasing collectible treasures, remember, the best way to “catch ’em all” is with patience, a good trading strategy, and a wallet … not a chainsaw.
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