activities instead of attending events.” And you know what—89 percent of Venmo parents report good academic performance by their children, tied with the “team parent.” So if you prefer to send money for birthday cupcakes instead of baking them yourself, good news: Your kid can still have a bright future.
mandatory. Request privately—don’t shame people into paying you with a public payment request, especially if you haven’t gotten their express approval.
not mean you need to shell out boo-coodles of money to every gift collection idea presented to you. It’s totally okay to say no.
These are a few practical ways to act when it comes to Venmo requests:
• When hosting, give options of Venmo or traditional gifts.
• Be clear about where money is going.
• Set a personal budget for group gifts. If your limit is $25, say that upfront. Having a firm number in mind will help you in the pressure of the moment. • Don’t feel obligated to join every collection. Just a friendly reminder that you have priorities and it’s okay to stick with them! Just make sure to be transparent, so you don’t feel uncomfortable when someone Venmo requests you for something you didn’t agree to. • Offer alternatives (bring a gift instead). If it feels awkward to say no, try suggesting you can contribute something on your own. • Whether you’re all-in on Venmo or still prefer a handwritten card and wrapped gift, the goal is the same—celebrating kids and supporting each other.
How It’s Changing Party Planning
• Clarity is kindness, and people will be much more receptive to contributing when they know where their money is going.
The differences may be subtle, but they’re distinct: The Venmo culture is shifting party planning. A few examples include fewer individual gifts and more group gifts, bigger, coordinated presents, shared party costs (bounce houses, venues, etc.), and less pressure to shop. On the upside, it simplifies logistics, reduces clutter (fewer random toys), makes it easier for parents on tight schedules, and can even be more budget-friendly.
• Respect different budgets—not everyone has the same financial situation.
• Remember, it’s not the end of the world if kids get a few less snacks or party decorations.
• Avoid over-organizing every event.
Unspoken Etiquette Rules
• Don’t assume everyone can afford to spend as much as you want to invest—ask before buying anything.
Whether you’re the Venmo requester or the recipient, let’s be honest: It can get awkward.
• Say thank you (always!).
Here are some crucial tips to follow if you’re the person Venmo requesting:
Tips for Parents
• Keep requests optional and low-pressure. Don’t make “suggested amounts” feel
Just because you’re a “Venmo parent” does
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