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MOM RAGE Every mom has that moment where the stress boils over—but what if “mom rage” isn’t bad parenting at all? This powerful new article uncovers the hidden mental load pushing mothers to the edge and why experts say repair matters more than perfection. THE JOY OF A SENSORY-FRIENDLY CELEBRATION Discover how thoughtful planning, inclusive activities, and sensory-friendly touches can transform any event into a celebration where every child and family feels comfortable, welcomed, and free to enjoy the moment. THE RISE OF VENMO PARENTING Venmo parenting is taking over school parties, teacher gifts, and team snacks—and millions of exhausted parents are saying “finally.” But is sending money instead of showing up secretly hurting kids… or proving that modern parenting needed a reset all along? BIRTHDAY LISTING Planning the perfect birthday party in Birmingham just got a whole lot easier! From mouthwatering bakeries and bounce houses to unforgettable venues and entertainers, here’s everything you need to throw a celebration your kids will never forget. BORN IN BIRMINGHAM: INNOVATIONS, ICONS, AND INCREDIBLE FIRSTS From the windshield wiper to the first 911 call, discover the jaw-dropping inventions, iconic brands, and unbelievable firsts that prove Birmingham and Alabama helped shape America in ways you never knew. Explore the lives, stories, and spaces that make the Birmingham community so special. From inspiring locals to iconic places, Faces & Places Birmingham celebrates the people and destinations that give the city its heart and character.
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Milestones & Memories W . elcome to our birthday issue. Birthdays are a reflection of each year, not only where we have been but also where we are going. This July, our nation celebrates a major milestone: 250 years. We have hit a couple of milestones in my house this year as well. My daughter turned 18 in April, and I turned 45 in June. Birthdays are about making memories for your children, but also for the parents because, let’s be honest, you survived another year. I am all about a blowout party, but as my kids have gotten older, experiences matter more to me than the party itself. I think back to their first birthday celebrations. Of course, they have no recollection of those parties, only pictures to look at. First birthdays are really more for the parents than the kiddos. Looking back now, there are a few things I probably would have done differently. But that is the life of a parent. You live and you learn. As I reflect on these milestones, I am reminded that the lessons we teach our children become part of a much bigger story. Today’s parents are raising tomorrow’s leaders, caregivers, innovators, teachers, and neighbors. As America celebrates its 250th birthday, it is a reminder that every generation has a role to play in shaping what comes next. Long after the fireworks fade and the celebrations end, the values we model, the encouragement we give, and the love we pour into our children will continue to influence the future. These celebrations are about more than cake and candles. They are an opportunity to pause, appreciate how far we have come, and look ahead with hope. The children we are raising today will carry forward the values, traditions, and dreams we share with them. In many ways, the next chapter of America’s story is already being written around our dinner tables, in our classrooms, and within our communities. That is a legacy worth honoring and a future worth celebrating. Here’s to family, freedom, and fun. Happy Fourth of July !
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Happy 250th Birthday America! America’s bicentennial is this month, so get in the spirit with some fun America-themed and historical fiction reads! YOUTH: 1 . USA: Our World by Joelle Retener In this fun board book, follow along with various children for a day in the US. From a hearty southern breakfast to Alaskan fishing, there is so much to discover in our country. 2. America the Beautiful by Jill De Haan The well-known American classic is brought to life in this book! There is beautiful artwork that draws the reader in that pairs perfectly with the lyrics of “America the Beautiful.” Plus, there are some great facts in the back of the book that explain the song’s history and significance. 3. 50 States of Love by Anna Aronson A lyrical tribute to each state and what makes it unique in this fun picture book. Be magically transported to the beauty of each state with poetic text and illustrations that calmly draw you in! This is a fantastic way to teach about the states and what they are known for. 4. Are We There Yet? The First Road Trip Across America by Stacy McAnulty This is a great nonfiction pick for early readers that details the first road trip across
the U.S.! Follow Dr. Horation Jackson in 1903 as he drives from New York to California in less than three months after everyone else who tried has failed. With no GPS, paved roads, and more, kids get a glimpse of what road trips used to look like! 5. America from A–Z by Amelia Hepworth Come along on this alphabet adventure through the US in this colorful board book! From apple pie and Jesse Owens to Mount Rushmore and more, there is so much beautiful variety that makes up the United States. An inspiring homage to the American flag in this moving picture book! This book has sparse text against a beautiful backdrop of illustrations to highlight the imagery of America. From Betsy Ross to a baseball stadium to the backdrop of the Civil Rights movement, this shows America from then to now. 7. Forgotten Founders by Mifflin Lowe For your upper elementary history lovers, this is a great read about the people you would not know who helped contribute to America’s beginnings and the Revolutionary War. It shows the founding of America did not rest on one sole person, but many across all areas, including soldiers, spies, and homemakers! 6. Blue Sky White Stars by Sarvinder Naberaus
For your vehicle lovers, learn all about the things that go in all 50 states from transportation expert Kristen Lee. From vehicles you know to some of the most interesting ones, there is so much to explore! TWEENS & TEENS: 1. Show Me A Sign by Ann Clare Lezotte (TWEEN) Mary, a deaf girl living in an all-deaf Martha’s Vineyard community in the early 19th century, feels her safe world threatened when a scientist turns up attempting to figure out the origins of the community’s deafness, rocking the quiet haven Mary has always known. Inspired by a true story.
2. Miss Liberty by Erin Moonyeen Haley (TWEEN)
Twelve-year-old Savvy hopes to be crowned Miss Liberty in her town’s 4th of July parade like her older sister, but when her sister tries to shut down the tradition, Savvy sets out to save the parade—and her sister’s spirit.
3. Stars, Stripes, & Summer Nights by Celeste Dador (TEEN )
After a viral mishap, the First Daughter gets shipped off to a cozy small-town inn for the summer by her dad (the President). Despite her initial dislike of the inn-owners’ son, Gabriel, the more time the two spend together, the more Abby is not only adjusting to small-town life but also may be catching feelings for Gabriel.
8. 50 States: Things that Go by Kristen Lee
Book Corner is provided by librarians at the Homewood Public Library To learn more about the libraries inJefferson County, visit jclc.org
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NEW SHOES SOFT SERVE ICE CREAM SHOP NOW OPEN IN HOMEWOOD
All the best flavors, but with a twist (literally), this new soft-serve business on 18th Street is what they call “soft serve reimagined.”These aren’t your ordinary, plain vanilla cones. Think bright colors, chocolate-dipped, and topped with pistachios, sprinkles, and more… the options are endless. And here’s the inside scoop: their ice cream is delicious, and they have the second place award in the People’s Choice at 2026’s Taste of Homewood to prove it. For a peek at their magical, swirly creations, follow them @heynewshoes on social media.
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HOMEWOOD WELCOMES ZOZO’S KITCHEN: NEW RESTAURANT SERVING FRESH MEDITERRANEAN- INSPIRED FAVORITES Homewood just got a fresh restaurant—literally. Located at 3134 Cahaba Heights Rd., Zozo’s Kitchen is “an independent, family-owned restaurant brand serving fresh, addictive food across Alabama,” their website states. “We’re the family that brought you Zoë’s Kitchen, so you’re going to love it,” says owner John Cassimus in a video on their social media page. The Cassimus family has deep roots in Birmingham. Cassimus’s grandfather moved here in 1944, and the family opened their first Zoë’s Kitchen in 1995 in downtown Birmingham. If you ever went to Marky’s Kitchen in Tuscaloosa or Cahaba Heights, you just might see a few of your favorite items—like their chocolate cake—in the restaurants, now rebranded as Zozo’s Kitchen locations. The other Zozo’s Kitchen is in downtown Homewood in SoHo Square at 1830 29th Ave. S., Suite 115. Keep an eye out for new locations— they’re hoping to head to Hoover next. Wondering what to get? They have everything from chicken salad to Greek salad to chicken roll-ups and more. Be sure to try their pita! “Come see what’s new, taste what you’ve always loved, and be part of the next chapter,” they invite their customers in a social media post.
THE SUGAR SHOPPE: A SWEET NEW ADDITION TO CRESTLINE
As the Sugar Shoppe likes to say, “Sweet things are coming to Crestline!”This new candy shop is nestled snugly between Gus’s Hot Dogs and Polished on Church Nails & Boutique at 69 Church St., Mountain Brook. It is owned by Rett and Amy Montiel, who stepped in after Sugar Inc. closed. They offer scrumptious snow cones and walls brimming with candy that you can fill up and take to go. Whether you’re sending a candy gram, throwing a birthday party, or just looking for a little afternoon happy, you’ll definitely want to stop by. “I love working at the Sugar Shoppe because whenever customers come…. [it’s] so welcoming and makes everyone feel like a kid again!” says Mountain Brook Junior High student and employee Ellie. “Our family is looking forward to meeting each and every one of you, getting to know this amazing community, and being part of your celebrations, big and small,” they share in a social media post. “Thank you for welcoming us; we can’t wait to make sweet memories together!”
Order now by calling ahead at (205) 380-2597 or checking out their website zozoskitchen.com.
For more information, visit thesugarshoppecrestline.com or follow them on social media @thesugarshoppecrestline.
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HIT THE ROAD FOR FAMILY FUN AT THE ALL-AMERICAN SUMMERFEST AT GAYLORD OPRYLAND HOTEL This summer, Gaylord Opryland Resort is celebrating America’s 250th birthday with a bang at their All-American SummerFest. The family-friendly celebrations are endless, with events like poolside parties, interactive scavenger hunts, outdoor movie nights, and dazzling firework shows happening all summer through September 7. So pack the minivan and hit the road because just a few short hours away, this classic seasonal getaway is filled with fantastic memory-making opportunities at one of the country’s most iconic destinations.
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Summer Festivities:
Enjoy patriotic fireworks and live entertainment at America’s 250th Birthday Party after being serenaded by Nashville’s best country artists on select Saturdays. Plus, pack your sense of adventure for The Great American Road Trip Scavenger Hunt! Indulge in festive food on Fridays and sweet sundaes on Sundays. Your favorite little artists will thrive in the Summer Craft Zone, and the whole fam will be mesmerized by the daily Sounds of America Light & Fountain Show and Hydro Beats Light & Fountain Show. There’s even a Silent Disco Delta Riverboat Ride!
Fun All Year Long:
Get ready for some splish-splashing fun at SoundWaves, the resort’s water park spanning four acres open all year-round. It features something for everyone: speed down water slides, lounge in the lazy river or private cabana, ride the waves in the wave pool, or play in the kids’ area. Cruise through the Delta’s 4.5-acre indoor garden on the Delta Riverboat, then head to the green and play the Scottish link-style, par-72 Gaylord Springs Golf Links. (Here’s a tip: Junior golfers ages 15 and under can play one free round for each paid adult after 3 p.m.) You won’t want to miss “dinner and a show” on the General Jackson Showboat, with live music and views of the Nashville skyline. And after you’ve worn yourself out having too much fun, recharge with a massage, facial, mani-pedi, and more at European-inspired Relâche Spa. Your littles will love searching for the hidden endangered animals in the Wildlife Rescue Augmented Reality (AR) Experience.
To book your Gaylord Opryland’s All-American SummerFest adventure, visit GaylordOpryland.com .
A SWEET TRANSITION: BELOVED NEIGHBORHOOD BAKERY BANDIT PÂTISSERIE’S NEXT CHAPTER BEGINS
If you’ve ever been to the Farmers Market at Pepper Place, chances are good that you’ve seen the long line of people waiting for a pastry from Bandit Pâtisserie. You may have even stopped by their brick-and-mortar location downtown at 2323 First Ave. N. for a scrumptious croissant or seasonal pastry. Now it’s changing hands as Founder and James Beard Nominated Chef Kristen Hall passes the torch to co-owner Lacy Triplett so she can focus on her French bistro La Fête. It all started in 2013 when Hall and her daughters started anonymously leaving baked goods on neighbors’ doorsteps under the name The Baking Bandits. Fast forward a decade, Bandit has become a beloved pastry shop known for combining classic French pastry technique with local, seasonal ingredients and some good old Southern flair. Triplett joined the pastry team in 2021, where she quickly rose in the ranks until she became co-owner and the daily productions and operations manager. “This has been an incredible journey, and I am so grateful for the past twelve years,” says Hall. “Lacy knows this business inside and out, cares deeply about the people and the product, and I couldn’t imagine better hands for Bandit’s future.”Triplett adds, “Our team is the heart of the bakery, and their dedication to quality, technique, and hospitality is what makes Bandit special. That commitment to craft and the community remains at the center of everything we do.”
Stop by Bandit Pâtisserie any day of the week, or visit banditbham.com to see their menu.
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Mom RAGE
by Madeline Pistorius
Y . ou’ve slept maybe five hours the past few nights. You’re finishing emails while your child taps on your shoulder over and over again. The kids won’t stop fighting over the TV remote. You’ll make it to practice drop-off on time only if your child
stops refusing to get in the car. Dinner isn’t made, and neither is the school project your child mentioned an hour before bedtime. The house hasn’t been tidied in days—weeks, if you’re honest.
When you’ve hit that breaking point, taking a few deep breaths isn’t enough. Nova recommends putting your child somewhere safe and briefly stepping away yourself—not because there’s necessarily danger, but because your nervous system is flooded. “Step into another room, splash cold water on your face, and hold ice cubes in your hands,” she explains. “Cooling sensations are some of the best ways to regulate our nervous systems. In these moments, we need to regulate the body before we regulate the mind.” Nova also recommends reducing sensory overload through somatic regulation techniques, like using sensory tools, dimming the lights, or putting in noise-reducing headphones.
You literally can’t take another thing right now. Then you see red. This experience is what’s known as mom rage.
Mom rage is a nervous system overload response to chronic stress, invisible labor, hormonal shifts, overstimulation, sleep deprivation, identity loss, emotional suppression, and broader systemic and neurological factors, including patriarchy and neurodiversity. It is not synonymous with abusive behavior, but rather a state of dysregulation. “When we undergo typical parenting frustration, it can be temporary, easy to recover from, and we still feel relatively grounded,” describes therapist and author Martina Nova, MCPRCC, MCP. “But when we feel mom rage, it’s explosive or disproportionate, physically intense, and hard to stop once it’s activated—usually followed by guilt, shame, or emotional crashing.”
Reconnection After Overwhelm
Many mothers spiral into shame after yelling or emotionally breaking down, often withdrawing because they fear they’ve scared their child or caused damage. But reconnecting afterward is important, Nova explains. Acknowledging both your child’s feelings and your own can help interrupt that shame cycle and create space for repair instead of avoidance. “Children learn much more through rupture and repair than through no rupture at all. In some ways, it can be more beneficial for a child to experience a parent’s dysregulation if it’s followed by repair, rather than having a perfectly regulated parent all the time,” Nova says.
When Everything Boils Over
The buildup is often subtle at first. It can look like resentment over small tasks, feeling emotionally detached from your partner or children, snapping more easily than usual, or carrying a constant sense that you can never fully rest. Over time, those moments stack until the nervous system reaches a breaking point.
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You don’t need to jump into a big emotional conversation while still flooded with emotion. Repair with your kiddos can happen later—15 minutes later, or when you’re calm. “You might say: ‘Remember when Mommy yelled earlier? That probably felt scary. I was overwhelmed, and I reacted strongly. That wasn’t your fault, and I’m sorry,’” she explains. The key is acknowledging behavior without excusing it or blaming the child. Connection matters more than long explanations—cuddling, reading, playing, or getting on their level. These moments teach children that emotions are safe, relationships are repairable, and caregivers are human. Even when a parent loses it sometimes, secure attachment can still exist.
Seeking support isn’t a sign that you’re failing your motherhood. It’s a sign your nervous system has been carrying too much for too long. It can come in many forms—therapy, ADHD medication, antidepressants, other prescribed treatments, or even small moments of connection with trusted friends and community spaces. “Whether it’s exchanging voice notes with your girlfriends or finding other moms through apps or Facebook groups, letting it out is freeing,” she says.
Breaking the Isolation
Ultimately, these moments teach children that parents are human too. “That idea is very freeing for many people,” Nova says.
Many mothers aren’t just raising children—they’re also carrying the invisible mental load of schedules, emotions, relationships, and the daily work that keeps family life running. “Systemically, there’s a reason partners often don’t notice this right away,” Nova explains. “There’s also a reason it’s called ‘mom rage’ and not ‘dad rage.’” As a partner, it’s important to take initiative in learning about the invisible mental loads moms carry. Moms don’t need more judgment after moments of rage—they need support, rest, accountability, understanding, and permission to be human. Being seen helps break the isolation surrounding mom rage. The more openly families talk about emotions and repair, the more children learn that hard moments can be worked through and connection can remain.
More Than “Just Stress”
Even after repair and reconnection, many moms still spiral into shame. Nova says that’s because mom rage often collides with deeply internalized beliefs about what a “good mother” should be. “Instead of thinking my nervous system is overloaded,” she explains, “we think there’s something wrong with me.” Nova explains hormonal shifts and clinical conditions like postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, PMDD, ADHD, and perimenopause can all intensify emotional flooding and make regulation feel harder.
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The Joy of a Sensory- Friendly Celebration
by Amanda Ciani
E very birthday child deserves to be celebrated! But not every birthday celebration needs to be the same. Parties can, and should, be catered to the birthday child’s unique interests, the activities they enjoy, and even the foods they like to eat. If you’re throwing a birthday party for a neurodivergent (or “neurospicy,” as my family likes to say) child, the idea of celebrating the birthday child’s uniqueness doesn’t change; in fact it may even be a bit elevated. Folks in attendance of a sensory-friendly party may have to accept that it isn’t a their idea of a traditional celebration, yet more optimistically, guests may pick up a party trick or two while attending a sensory- friendly birthday party—because really, they are pretty great!
to include in this area could be a bubble tube, bubbles, dim lighting with a light projector, glow sticks, a lava lamp, bean bag chairs, quiet ambient music, books, etc. Have a more arousing activity zone for sensory seekers! Let kids get their wiggles out, bounce, and wear off some of that birthday cake sugar. Some energy-expending items to include in this area could be dance music, colorful lights, a trampoline with a safety net, jump rope, hula hoop, yoga ball, crash pad, Sit ‘n Spins, Dizzy Disk toys, and more. A simple sensory station is a great option to have at any gathering! Kids (of all kinds!) can enjoy open-ended activities like party-themed sensory bins, play dough, Kinetic Sand, fidgets, stickers, coloring pages, etc. Build-Your-Own Snack Stations are fun for everyone! Offering a wide range of textures and flavors gives guests the chance to pick and choose what they want to add to their own plate. Ideas include a variety of crunchy snacks like carrots, snap peas, celery sticks, cucumbers, apples, grapes, freeze dried fruits, cheerios, pretzels, crackers, cookies, and more. Chewier foods like cheese sticks, jerky, chewy granola bites, and fruit leather may be a big hit. Yogurt tubes or applesauce pouches are a good option to have available whenever little ones are at a party! “Be sure to check for dietary issues like peanut allergies and gluten intolerance and only offer food and snacks that are safe for everyone,” reminds Biel.
What Is a Sensory-Friendly Birthday Party?
It depends on who is being celebrated! Some neurodivergent people tend to be sensory avoiders (easily overwhelmed by input), others are sensory seekers (crave more sensory input), while most are actually both sensory avoiders and seekers depending on variables like the time of day, the environment, or the type of sensory input being taken into consideration. Yes! Sensory processing itself is on a spectrum, too. Lindsey Biel, occupational therapist and co-author of Raising a Sensory Smart Child: The Definitive Handbook for Helping Your Child with Sensory Processing Issues notes: “All of us have sensory preferences and intolerances. A birthday party that is sensory friendly benefits everyone. Just as curb cuts originally designed to help wheelchair users also makes life better for parents with strollers and travelers with suitcases, sensory-friendly parties make events more enjoyable and less difficult for kids–and their grown-ups.” The main takeaway concerning sensory-friendly birthday parties is that they are inclusive, and they are thoughtful when considering and supporting all sensory needs.
Sensory-Friendly Party: Adventures at Venues
Choosing to throw a party at a venue where the party kid is both familiar and comfortable with is a great idea! From indoor play places to trampoline parks and bowling alleys, many places have party packages ready for purchase. Biel suggests that, “to avoid overstimulation, preview the venue either through a personal visit, video, or at least a website tour so your child and party guests know more or less what to expect. Using the kindergarten model, let children know the “agenda” (sequence) for what will happen at the party. For example, first, we will do X. Then we will do X. Finally, we will do X. Then we will go home.” But how does a family make a pre- packaged party more sensory friendly for their child and guests? Avoiding peak hours is one valuable tip. Simply ask the venue when they are busiest, and avoid booking a party during that timeframe. Some venues also offer private parties.
How to Make any Party More Sensory Friendly
There are lots of options for making any party more sensory friendly. Biel assures that “creating sensory friendly parties doesn’t require major logistics or investments. Big changes don’t always require big work… just some ‘sensory smart’ thinking about how all kinds of kids can have fun.” Some ideas on how to make a home-party more sensory friendly include: Have a quiet, calming space where kids can take breaks. This is definitely a bonus spot for overstimulated toddler guests (or any guest, really!) who may need a minute to decompress! Some fun items
During the party-planning phase, don’t be afraid to ask the venue if
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they have any additional accommodations available or if they would be willing to make simple changes during the party like lowering music, turning off flashing lights, and having a quiet room available. Advocating is not being abrasive and it never hurts to ask. Many venues will go the extra mile to make their party families happy (within reason!). Planning in advance is key to sensory success at a venue party. Bringing sensory tools like noise-cancelling headphones, hand fidgets, Chewelry, (chewable silicone jewelry oral sensory seekers use to self-regulate), weighted toys or lap pads, compression vests, and other comfort items your child benefits from (which others can try out too!) is a great way to be prepared. Biel reminds parents that “Taking breaks can be a key strategy. If your child seems to be getting overwhelmed, sometimes going for a quick walk around the block or even down the hall can help your child reset their bodies and brains.”
When a Sensory-Friendly Party Goes Wrong
This style of party is so much more than the buzzword “sensory friendly.” Of course, it’s helpful to have a list of ways to make a party more pleasant for a neurodivergent child, but maybe the most important part of being sensory friendly is the energy being placed towards compassion, patience, and above all, kindness. Because sometimes the excitement, lack of routine, or even the sights, sounds, and smells of a party are just too much. And guess what? That. Is. Okay. Whether it is that milestone first attempt at a party, or simply a party that didn’t work out for the party family… life happens, and trying is brave! Biel adds that “There is obviously no ‘law’ that requires a child to have a birthday party, but most kids do love being celebrated on their special day. If your child struggles with parties, keep it small and short. It doesn’t have to be the entire class or the entire day.” Having guests who go with the flow, give grace and love, and are really present is the best gift a neurodivergent family could get! Truly, those who show up in this fashion are so much more than “party guests;” they are that village that everyone talks about. While waving the white flag may happen from time to time over the years, finding ways to celebrate the birthday child in a way that works for them is what matters most. It may not look conventional as the years go by, but… who cares? (And if someone does care, perhaps that says more about them?) Every child is worthy of a party on their birthday! And a sensory-friendly party can be just as fun and special!
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THE RISE OF VENMO PARENTING
by Julianna Steen
What Is “Venmo Parenting”?
viral in August 2024 when mom Casey Neal posted a TikTok video proudly declaring herself a “Venmo Mom.” In the video, she states, “I don’t want to come in [and] set up. If the room mom needs money for everyone to participate, fine. I’ll Venmo money right over. I don’t want to set up for it.” Soon after, she was invited to Good Morning America, where she shared the struggle she has faced as a mom who loves her kids but juggles parenting with a full-time job. Turns out, there’s an entire community of “Venmo moms” who could relate to her—and thus, the term was born.
popular because she expressed something many parents might not admit: “I do not want to be on PTO, PTA, room mom, team mom. I don’t want to do any of that.” Sometimes it feels like in order to be a “good parent,” you must be super involved in all of your kids’ activities and school organizations. The underlying assumption is that if you don’t take on a role like “homeroom parent,” your kid won’t succeed—and the peer parental judgment is real. In her TikTok’s caption, Neal wrote, “Stop judging the Venmo moms lol.” But here’s the question that plagues the back of your mind: Is it true?
We’ve all gotten the text: “Hey! We’re all chipping in $10 for Sarah’s teacher gift— Venmo me.”We live in a largely cashless world, where it’s no longer convenient to hand out a crisp $20 bill. As a result, it’s become increasingly common to split everything via Venmo, a popular payment app, for everything from birthday gifts and party contributions to class events and shared expenses. “The Venmo app makes settling up with friends feel more... friendly,”Venmo’s website claims. You can send and receive money with the tap of a button. It’s gotten so popular to share payments that Venmo has created “groups” and “split the cost” options where you can add one item and it divides the cost between everyone in the group.
Why It’s So Popular
Are Venmo Parents’ Kids Still Successful?
There are a lot of benefits to being a Venmo parent: It saves you time when you aren’t able to make it to the store to pick up snacks for the soccer team, it’s more convenient than finding the exact change, and it’s easier to coordinate expenses with a whole group. Moreover, Casey Neal’s video was likely so
In a survey of 1,000 American parents, Prodigy discovered that “57 percent of parents are ‘Venmo Parents,’ choosing to contribute money for school or sports
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activities instead of attending events.” And you know what—89 percent of Venmo parents report good academic performance by their children, tied with the “team parent.” So if you prefer to send money for birthday cupcakes instead of baking them yourself, good news: Your kid can still have a bright future.
mandatory. Request privately—don’t shame people into paying you with a public payment request, especially if you haven’t gotten their express approval.
not mean you need to shell out boo-coodles of money to every gift collection idea presented to you. It’s totally okay to say no.
These are a few practical ways to act when it comes to Venmo requests:
• When hosting, give options of Venmo or traditional gifts.
• Be clear about where money is going.
• Set a personal budget for group gifts. If your limit is $25, say that upfront. Having a firm number in mind will help you in the pressure of the moment. • Don’t feel obligated to join every collection. Just a friendly reminder that you have priorities and it’s okay to stick with them! Just make sure to be transparent, so you don’t feel uncomfortable when someone Venmo requests you for something you didn’t agree to. • Offer alternatives (bring a gift instead). If it feels awkward to say no, try suggesting you can contribute something on your own. • Whether you’re all-in on Venmo or still prefer a handwritten card and wrapped gift, the goal is the same—celebrating kids and supporting each other.
How It’s Changing Party Planning
• Clarity is kindness, and people will be much more receptive to contributing when they know where their money is going.
The differences may be subtle, but they’re distinct: The Venmo culture is shifting party planning. A few examples include fewer individual gifts and more group gifts, bigger, coordinated presents, shared party costs (bounce houses, venues, etc.), and less pressure to shop. On the upside, it simplifies logistics, reduces clutter (fewer random toys), makes it easier for parents on tight schedules, and can even be more budget-friendly.
• Respect different budgets—not everyone has the same financial situation.
• Remember, it’s not the end of the world if kids get a few less snacks or party decorations.
• Avoid over-organizing every event.
Unspoken Etiquette Rules
• Don’t assume everyone can afford to spend as much as you want to invest—ask before buying anything.
Whether you’re the Venmo requester or the recipient, let’s be honest: It can get awkward.
• Say thank you (always!).
Here are some crucial tips to follow if you’re the person Venmo requesting:
Tips for Parents
• Keep requests optional and low-pressure. Don’t make “suggested amounts” feel
Just because you’re a “Venmo parent” does
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Celebrate! by Julianna Steen
W . e love celebrating all things, but especially birthdays—they are national holidays in our book! From scrumptious cakes to party decorations to the perfect venue, there are so many details to plan… and with this birthday listing, you’ll be set!
edgarsbakery.com
2916 18th St. S., Homewood (205) 871-4901 shopsavagesbakery.com
Hello Bakery 1109 Dunston Ave., Birmingham (205) 201-5668 instagram.com/hellobakery_bhm Insomnia Cookies 1919 11th Ave. S. #200, Birmingham (205) 236-9540 insomniacookies.com
Velvet Kake, LLC 2466 Old Springville Rd., Birmingham (205) 407-4330 facebook.com/velvetkakellc PARTY SUPPLIES & RENTALS Aabco Rents Inc. 2612 7th Ave. S., Birmingham (205) 252-9858 aabcorents.com
BAKERIES Birmingham Breadworks (205) 202-3207 2408 7th Ave S., Birmingham birminghambreadworks.com Bandit Pâtisserie (205) 718-7624 2323 1st Ave. N., Birmingham banditbham.com CandiiLand Pastries LLC (205) 440-2370 linktr.ee/candiilandpastries
K&J’s Elegant Pastries 236 1st St. S., Alabaster (205) 663-4827 kjselegantpastries.com
Alabama Event Rentals 2501 1st Ave. S., Irondale (205) 538-7601 alabamaeventrentals.com
Last Call Baking Co. 213 25th St. N., Suite A, Birmingham thelastcallbaking.com Margaret’s Bakery 1421 Forestdale Blvd., Birmingham (205) 798-7400 margaretsbakery.com Marta’s Bakery & Catering 3936 Crosshaven Dr., Birmingham (205) 969-2253 facebook.com/p/Martas-Bakery Olexa’s Cafe, Cakes, and Catering (205) 871-2060 2838 Culver Rd., Mountain Brook olexas.com Pastry Art Bake Shoppe 1917 29th Ave. S., Birmingham 1430 Gadsden Hwy., Birmingham 205) 877-3852 pastryartcakes.com Royalty Pastries LLC (205) 999-7460 royaltypastries.wixsite.com
Ann’s Balloons Birmingham area (205) 841-4196 annsballoons.com
Cookie Fix Multiple locations (205) 582-2623 cookiefix.com
B & B Party Rentals 5330 Skyline Dr., Warrior (205) 623-9479 bandbpartyrental.com Bounce Bama Bounce Birmingham area (205) 913-7856 bouncebamabounce.com Celebrate Birmingham 1743 Reese St., Homewood (205) 440-2184 celebratebirmingham.com Deborah’s Party Rentals 8022 Firethorn Ln., Gardendale (205) 631-2670 debspartyrentals.com EventWorks Rentals 201 Distribution Dr., Birmingham
Continental Bakery 1909 Cahaba Rd., Birmingham (205) 870-5584 continental-bakery.com Crumbl 708 Montgomery Hwy., Suite 116, Vestavia Hills (205) 379-0293 crumblcookies.com Daughters Baking 2812 Cahaba Rd., Birmingham (205) 637-6238 daughtersbaking.com
Edgar’s Bakery Multiple locations (205) 987-0790
Savage’s Bakery
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(205) 545-9500 eventworksrentals.com
(205) 590-5866 letsplayparty.com
ENTERTAINERS ACE Cheer Company 301 Snow Dr., Homewood (205) 703-0902 acetribe.com/birthday-parties
Fun Source Party Rentals 4200 Pinson Valley Pkwy., Birmingham (205) 854-2022 funsourceinc.com
McWane Science Center 200 19th St. N., Birmingham (205) 714-8300 mcwane.org
It’s A Party 107 N Chalkville Rd., Trussville (205) 925-9541 itsapartystore.com
Action Martial Arts Multiple locations
Pump It Up Party Trussville 4623 Camp Coleman Rd. #101, Trussville (205) 661-5557 pumpitupparty.com Putter Up 2408 Pelham Pkwy. Campus 124, Pelham
(205) 900-8400 ataaction.com
Magic City Moonwalks & Party Rentals 1213 4th Ave. W., Birmingham (205) 862-5355 magic-city-moonwalks-party-rentals. ueniweb.com
Brandon Herring Magic (205) 903-9272 brandonherringmagic.com Enchanted Princesses, The (205) 909-8375 theenchantedprincesses.com
(205) 600-3418 putterup.net
Sara Beth’s Gymnasts 10699 Old Hwy. 280 Bldg. 2 Suite #2, Chelsea (205) 910-3668 sarabethsgymnasts.com
Paper and Play Design Birmingham area paperandplaydesigns@gmail.com paperandplaydesigns.com
Party Palace, The (334) 625-1120 thepartypalaceal.com
Spare Time Trussville 3600 Roosevelt Blvd., Birmingham (205) 655-4500 sparetimeentertainment.com Sugar Shoppe, The 69 Church St., Mountain Brook (205) 637-8463 thesugarshoppecrestline.com
Party Source Outlet 2800 Bessemer Rd., Birmingham (205) 289-6518 facebook.com/Bouncerentalspartsupply
Mister Twister Entertainment (205) 789-9462 mistertwisterentertainment . com Mr. Bill the Balloon Man (205) 616-5485 facebook.com Pinky Fancy Faces (205) 201-2727 pinkyfancyfaces.com VENUES Activate Games 1425 Montgomery Hwy. #173, Vestavia Hills (205) 644-8674 playactivate.com Altitude Trampoline Park 8581 Helena Rd., Pelham (205) 874-9040 altitudetrampolinepark.com Birmingham Zoo 2630 Cahaba Rd., Birmingham (205) 879-0409 birminghamzoo.com
Partyology (205) 386-5676 partyologyevents.com Peabody Party Rental Birmingham area (205) 578-8FUN peabodypartyrental.com Pick Up Your Party 2205 Alton Rd., Irondale (205) 623-5003 pickupyourparty.com
Toddlers Playhouse & Mobile Party Rental 2531 Rocky Ridge Rd., Suite 113, Vestavia Hills (205) 452-1664 toddlersplayhousellc.net
Topgolf Birmingham 1111 24th St. N., Birmingham (205) 847-6112 topgolf.com Trussville Playstation 411 Watterson Ln., Trussville (205) 655-1800 rollwithtps.com
PropHouse 89 Robert Jemison Rd., Birmingham (205) 324-2663 prophousebirmingham.com Smith’s Variety 45 Church St., Mountain Brook (205) 871-0841 smithsvariety.com
Vulcan Park and Museum 1701 Valley View Dr., Birmingham (205) 933-1409 visitvulcan.com Urban Air Trampoline and Adventure Park 800 Green Springs Hwy., Homewood
Special Occasions 2809 5th Ave. S., Birmingham (205) 871-4068 birminghamtents.com
Chuck E. Cheese Multiple locations (205) 980-3266 chuckecheese.com
Splash Bounce Birmingham area (205) 667-1004 splashbounce.com
(205) 206-6809 urbanair.com
High Point Climbing and Fitness 4766 Hwy. 280, Birmingham (205) 981-9190 highpointclimbing.com Let’s Play 5025 Hwy. 280 #102, Birmingham
Westhouse Events 143 Citation Ct., Homewood (205) 543-8074 westhousebham.com
Tea and Old Roses 505 Yorkshire Dr., Birmingham (205) 413-7753
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Born in Birmingham Innovations, Icons, and Incredible Firsts by Amelia Roessler
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A s America celebrates its 250th birthday this year, there’s no better time to recognize the innovations, traditions, and cultural contributions born right here in Birmingham and Alabama. From world-changing inventions and iconic brands to historic firsts and unforgettable fun facts, Birmingham and the Heart of Dixie have played an important role in shaping America’s story. BIRMINGHAM
Vinyl:
The inventor of modern flexible vinyl, Waldo Semon, was born in Demopolis, Alabama in 1898. The chemist also invented dozens of synthetic compounds and plasticized PVC.
White BBQ Sauce:
White barbecue sauce was invented in 1925 by Robert “Big Bob” Gibson at his restaurant, Big Bob Gibson Bar-B-Q in Decatur, Alabama. The signature mayo- and vinegar-based sauce was originally created to keep smoked chicken from drying out. Portable electric hearing aid: Klaxon horn engineer Miller Reese Hutchinson also invented the first electric portable hearing aid in 1895 to help a childhood friend who had lost his hearing to scarlet fever. Called the “Akouphone,” it was a bulky assembly featuring a double carbon microphone, an earphone, and a six-volt storage battery.
Windshield wiper:
The first mechanical windshield wiper was invented by Mary Anderson in Birmingham in 1902 after she got the idea while observing trolley drivers struggle with snow and ice during a trip to New York City.
Milo’s Tea:
Milo’s Famous Sweet Tea was invented in Birmingham when WWII veteran Milo Carlton and his wife first served the famous recipe at their local hamburger restaurant, which opened in 1946. The iconic beverage grew so popular that the family eventually split the restaurant and beverage branches.
Saturn V Rocket:
Cardiac Pacemaker:
The Saturn V, designed and largely developed in Alabama, was a legendary, three-stage super heavy-lift launch vehicle developed by NASA. Flown between 1967 and 1973, it was the most powerful operational rocket ever built and served as the backbone of the Apollo program, successfully landing humanity on the moon.
While Birmingham did not invent the first fully implantable cardiac pacemaker, it was a pivotal hub for pacemaker innovation as Birmingham surgeons developed and implanted the world’s first patient-controlled, variable-rate heart pacemaker in 1960.
Buffalo Rock Ginger Ale:
FUN FACTS
The dark, heavily carbonated, and famously spicy “Southern-style” golden ginger ale originated in the basement of Birmingham’s Alabama Grocery Company in 1901. It features a fiery ginger kick that is prized for its boldness.
The original Birmingham is located in England, but the US Birmingham was founded in 1871 and was named after the English city because of its shared industrial focus on steel and iron production. Linguistically, Birmingham originates from the Old English word Beormingaham, which means the “homestead or settlement of the Beormingas.” Birmingham is nicknamed the “Magic City” because of its rapid overnight growth in the 1880s due to the steel production and the mining industry. It is the only place on Earth where all three natural ingredients needed to make steel—coal, iron ore, and limestone— occur within a single ten-mile radius. Looking up at the moon, you can find a crater named Birmingham after astronomer John Birmingham, who discovered it in 1866. “The Stars Fell on Alabama,” sung by Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Billie Holiday, and even Jimmy Buffet, refers to the Leonid meteor shower observed in Alabama in November 1833. Red Mountain Park is a 1,200-acre public space, making it one of the biggest urban parks in the country. It’s 40 percent bigger than New York City’s Central Park! The last active ore mine on Red Mountain Park property closed in 1962 and remained untouched for nearly 50 years until the development of Red Mountain Park.
Veterans Day celebration:
Birmingham hosted the nation’s first Veterans Day celebration when local WWII veteran Raymond Weeks organized the inaugural event on November 11, 1947, originally calling it “National Veterans Day.” Weeks successfully lobbied for the holiday, and Birmingham is widely recognized for hosting the oldest annual Veterans Day parade in the US. ALABAMA The “ah-oo-gah” sound of the Klaxon Horn: A klaxon is a type of electromechanical horn known for its distinctive, attention-grabbing “oogah” sound founded by engineer Miler Reese Hutchison in Montrose, Alabama. That loud sound was one of the earliest horn tones used on automobiles, used to cut through traffic noise and grab attention. The name comes from the ancient Greek word klazo, meaning “I shriek.”
911:
The first-ever 911 call was placed in Haleyville, Alabama, by Alabama Speaker of the House Rankin Fite from Haleyville City Hall to U.S. Rep. Tom Bevill at the city’s police station.
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Homewood Fourth of July
Saturday, July 4 starting at 5 p.m. Downtown Homewood. Family-friendly street festival with rides, inflatables, entertainment, and Thunder on the Mountain fireworks viewing. Free; $10 unlimited ride wristbands. homewoodparks.com
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Saturday, July 11 from 3–9 p.m. Legacy Arena at the BJCC. Celebrate 50 years of Birmingham’s iconic venue at this free festival and concert featuring food trucks, games, family activities, giveaways, commemorative swag, backstage tours, arcade-style games, and a special performance by The Black Jacket Symphony featuring songs from legendary artists who have played the arena throughout the years. Free. bjcc.org Legacy Arena 50th Anniversary Celebration ~ 3
Wednesday, July 29 at 7 p.m. Legacy Arena at the BJCC. The viral trick-shot crew brings its live tour to Birmingham featuring competitions, stunts, audience participation, and special guests the Harlem Globetrotters competing throughout the show. $28+. dudeperfect.com Dude Perfect: Squad Games Tour 2026 2
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